In middle age, most people strive for a stable life. If they could really get a promotion and a salary increase, they would have already been promoted and raised their salary. If you cannot get promotion and salary increase before middle age, then there will be fewer opportunities for promotion and salary increase in middle age. Instead of spending more time on promotion, it is better to spend time on yourself and your family.

When people reach middle age, they already have a stable life. Many people are in a harmonious state of family at this time. There are elders and younger children, so there is no more energy to spend on promotion. Got promoted.

When people reach middle age, they will have a lot of emotions and insights in their hearts. Life is like a kaleidoscope, and they have tasted all the moodiness, sweetness, and bitterness. At this time, many people have taken a dim view of everything, including fame and fortune, and have begun to cherish themselves better and be kind to themselves.

Because telling the truth may not be easy in life. Life itself has a lot of helplessness, and there are also many things that you cannot get. Although I really want it, I have tried my best, so I won't have many regrets. Whether I succeed or fail, I will be very negative in my heart.

There are also many people who begin to believe in fate in middle age, and many emotions have been filtered by time and become light and calm. The greatest cherishment of your life is to take the gains and losses of life lightly, to take the entangled grievances and hatreds lightly, and to spend every day's seemingly ordinary life happily and relaxedly. Don't overly pursue a brilliant life and vigorous legendary experiences. Most of them are stories that happen in books. For ordinary us, ordinary life is the main line of life.

Because the world is like this, we don’t need to block the car with our hands. Just look away and be indifferent. If the love is in the heart and the heart is outside the world, everything will be much simpler.