The so-called scene between father, daughter and mother only means that in this life, we will continue to watch his back drift away. In fact, every parent also knows that our children will eventually leave us and enter the society to create their own lives with their own minds and hands.
We can provide him with a comfortable life and extreme care when he is young, but we cannot stay with him for a lifetime. One day, he will have to face the world alone, solve problems by himself, bear the wind and rain by himself, and fight his own way. Therefore, if you really love him, you should teach him the ability to get along with the world before he leaves you. This is the greatest help and protection you can give him.
For parents, educating their children is their greatest responsibility and an unshirkable responsibility. Although children will receive various types of education throughout their lives, the most important thing is family education, so family education cannot be ignored. But some parents believe that educating children is the responsibility of teachers and schools. In fact, although teachers and school education are indispensable for children, you must know that many teachers now only care about children's learning and education, which is a cramming education. But children need not only knowledge, but more importantly, the ability to adapt in the future. society.
The ultimate mission of being a parent is actually to raise children who can adapt to society. And it needs to be cultivated from a very early age, providing children with opportunities to contact the outside world, and encouraging children to participate in social activities. Children are not only members of the family, but also members of society. When they grow up, they must live and work harmoniously with other members of society.
Let children have more contact with society from an early age, participate in more group activities, and encourage them to communicate and cooperate with people in different professions. In cooperative activities, children develop feelings of mutual help and love, and in social activities, they restrict each other, which is very effective in cultivating self-control.
In social interactions, the most important thing is trust. Don’t agree to others rashly. Once you agree, work hard to complete it. Be a person who keeps your word and dare to take on your own responsibilities. Whether a child can adapt to society has a lot to do with the education of his parents. Therefore, for the sake of the child's future development, do not neglect the child's family education.