People live with dignity all their lives.

"People live with a face and trees live with a skin", and the ancients made a good image metaphor for dignity very early.

Everyone has his own dignity, and human dignity is sacred and inviolable.

We often say, don't talk short in front of dwarfs, and don't talk ugly in front of "Dong Shi".

Try to avoid talking about other people's shortcomings and privacy.

Taboo is not only a question of communication skills, but also a question of sympathy and compassion.

Respect for others means respect for yourself. Leave a good mouth for yourself, and you can also avoid "disaster from the mouth."

The ancients said, "Swearing does not expose shortcomings."

You should learn to keep your mouth shut under any circumstances. Watch your tongue.

As the saying goes, "To err is human?" There is no one in the world who has no problem at all.

Don't talk about other people's shortcomings and defects, even if you don't like some places.

Especially other people's privacy, don't spread it around.

Everyone has his own different growth experience, his own defects and weaknesses.

Maybe it's physical, maybe it's an unbearable experience hidden deep inside,

These are the "scars" they don't want to mention, and they are the problems they try to hide and avoid in their lives.

Being hit in the heart is not a pleasant thing for anyone.

Especially the defects of others, never use insulting words to attack.

It is very disrespectful to talk about people's privacy and expose their shortcomings.

The key to the good and evil of language lies in the heart, and what you think in your heart will be said in your mouth.

Master Hanshan also said in Song of Awakening the World: "Don't sell yourself short, and don't blame others."

This is the way of the ancients and we should learn from it.

Nowadays, many people are in high spirits when they mention other people's faults, and even embellish them and turn black and white upside down.

Then from one word to ten words, it hurts others a lot, criticizes others too much and says people are right and wrong.

Not only is it detrimental to one's own virtue, but it will also make enemies with others and harm one's health.

In China, there is a so-called "descaling". It is said that a foot below the dragon's throat is "descaling".

If you accidentally touch this part, you will be killed by an angry dragon.

Animals are still like this, let alone people.

In fact, no matter how noble and great a person is, no matter how generous he is,

There are "scales" on the body, which is what we call "pain points", which are shortcomings, inferiority and privacy.

Therefore, when dealing with people, don't touch others' "lamella".

In life, don't expose the shortcomings of others, let alone touch their pain.

I am already suffering from other people's shortcomings, or family changes, or other shortcomings.

Can't make it worse; Don't "mention which pot is not open",

Otherwise, you hurt others, and maybe others will not let you go easily.

Even if he can't fight back then, he will hate you for life.

Even you will pay a heavy price for your outspoken.

To learn to respect others, we must start from small things.

Not exposing people's shortcomings is a sign of respecting people's performance and a sign of a gentleman.

If you fall out with your friends, and you often talk about the benefits of friends, then you must be a real gentleman;

If at this time, you often talk about the disadvantages of friends,

He often exposes people's shortcomings in public, reveals his privacy, and even fabricates facts to slander his friends.

Then, not only does it show that you are a villain, but you will eventually be cast aside and lose many friends.

It's not easy for people. Don't sprinkle salt on other people's wounds, expose your shortcomings in public, and spread other people's privacy.

Try to be considerate of others, maintain your self-esteem, leave your face to others, and don't hurt others.

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