"A person's shortcoming is that he likes to be a teacher to others" is a proverb, which means that a person's shortcoming is that he likes to be a teacher for others.

The source of this sentence is

"Mencius Li Lou Shang": "Mencius said: The best thing to avoid is to be a teacher."

"Heroes of Sons and Daughters" Biography 39: "Mr. An has always been humble in everything. He only accepts people as his teacher and never refuses to give in. Isn't he right? It's the trouble of people to be teachers." "

Those who are good at being teachers, look at the views of the ancients

"Being good at being teachers" is a big problem. You appear as a teacher everywhere, which is a very high attitude. Do you have the ability to be a teacher for others? First of all, I have to think about it, can I set an example for the public if I have an idea? The general public has this idea of ??mine. How is this society? You have to ask yourself first. The first is virtue, the second is compassion.

The "Nirvana Sutra" says: "Always be the teacher of the mind, but not the mind of the teacher." The problem with people is that they like to be other people's teachers. The other way around is that no one likes to be lectured to. People who are "good at teaching" often make people uncomfortable because they don't know how to pretend to understand, repeatedly preach, or are used to imposing their views on others. People who "like to be teachers" intend to seek glory, but in fact the result is often humiliation; they intend to show intelligence, but in fact they are stupid, so Mencius said it is a "people's trouble". The wisdom in this is worth pondering.

Mr. Yangming said: The major disease in life lies in the word "arrogance". Those who are good at teaching others are always proud of themselves. They think too highly of themselves, cannot clearly understand themselves, and do not know how to respect others. Always look at everything with a critical eye and advocate your own knowledge and insights. Those who love to be teachers do not know how to be self-effacing. A true master is always humble. They can humbly accept criticism from others, listen patiently to other people's opinions, and are not self-centered, belittle themselves, or be self-conscious.

Share some insights and experiences

If we experience it carefully, we will find that everyone has some narcissism in their personality. Therefore, when we meet those who are truly narcissistic, When dealing with people with a narcissistic personality, it is best to face them with a calm attitude and never take it seriously, because if you are serious with a person with a narcissistic personality, you will only set a trap for yourself and get yourself into a quagmire of long-term debate. .