First, don't spoil it too much.
As parents, don't give your child whatever he wants, so it's easy to develop the child's self-centered psychology, and he can't be obedient and coquetry. However, such infinite doting will only encourage children's vanity, which will become more and more exaggerated over time, and children's vanity will be submerged one day.
Second, children need attention.
Children need the attention of others, and they will have a certain sense of superiority after receiving attention. When people around you pay attention to others, children will feel inferior and expect to find a sense of superiority from other places, thus creating a psychology of comparison. Don't always compare other people's children with your own children, accept their imperfections, guide them in time, and give them reasonable attention and love instead of blindly accusing them. As long as parents can adjust their education methods in time, children will soon get out of trouble.
Third, set an example.
When children are young, they build habits from imitation. As the saying goes, a big dog climbs a wall and a small dog learns from others. Parents themselves have vanity and comparison, and it is difficult for children not to be affected. Children's growth is inseparable from their parents' education. Children's growth starts from your side, and your every move will leave a profound impact on children. Therefore, parents' good habits should start from themselves, improve their consumption concept, pay attention to their words and deeds, set a good example for their children in the details of life, and always set a good example for their children to establish correct values and outlook on life.
Comparing is not terrible. As long as parents set up correct values, it is impossible for them to learn to treat their envy and material possession correctly. Such people will become more and more serious in later life. As long as others have what they want, they may steal and rob it.