The birth of every child carries too much hope from parents, but how to educate children well is a great art-companionship and love are the foundation, and example is the spiritual driving force for children's growth.

As the saying goes: "The dragon gives birth to the dragon, the phoenix gives birth to the phoenix, and the mouse can make holes when it is born."

Perhaps this sentence is biased, but parents, as children's first enlightenment teachers and imitators, play a vital role in the growth of children.

As a parent, you don't need a certificate. Many people don't know how to educate their children, just instinctive love and companionship.

But there are many ways to accompany. Different ways of companionship lead to different results.

It is the expectation of every parent to have a baby Jackie Chan and a woman become a phoenix.

But if you want your children to be excellent, you must be excellent as a parent.

Lev tolstoy said: "The essence of educating children is to educate themselves, and self-education is the most powerful way for parents to influence their children."

For example, Xiaoming and Xiaohong are a rural couple, and their biggest hobby in their spare time is playing mahjong.

Their sons, daughters, brothers and sisters come home from school and often see their parents playing mahjong with others. The noisy sound made the two children unable to study with peace of mind. They simply finished their homework quickly and perfunctory, and the two brothers and sisters began to watch others play mahjong.

After a long time, the two brothers and sisters also learned to play mahjong, and a family of four got together a table. The children were no longer interested in learning, and later their sister and brother dropped out of school before graduating from junior high school.

This is the influence of parents' words and deeds on their children's growth and education. Many years later, my sister regretted not studying hard because she didn't have a degree and didn't want to find a job anywhere.

Parents' behavior will deeply affect children, and parents are the best role models for children.

Xiao Fei and Xiaomei are students admitted to the university from the countryside. After they got married and had children, they still kept the habit of reading. After dinner in the evening, their son always sees his parents reading a book in their hands.

Seeing this situation, children always say hello to their parents and then go to the room to do their homework. Influenced by parents, children also fell in love with reading.

Reading broadens the horizon, increases the wisdom of life and makes people grow forever. Children who love reading are not bad luck.

Parents' love for their children is tolerant and gentle, not doting and arrogant. Allowing children to make mistakes and guiding them to correct them in time is the best education for children.

Xiaolan is a white-collar worker in the company. She is not only professional, but also good at educating children.

Once, when she picked up the child from kindergarten, she saw that the child was flushed and muttered for a long time, and took out a little Barbie doll from her clothes.

She suddenly understood, and then quietly pulled the child to the front with both hands and said, "Baby, tell mom where this toy came from?"

The daughter bowed her head and said, "I took it from kindergarten."

Xiaolan said, "Oh, dear, this toy is for everyone to play with. If you take it home, other children can't play. It's wrong to take things that don't belong to you home and play by yourself. " Mom will buy it for you if you like. "

Xiaolan's daughter is very clever. After listening to her mother's words, she immediately said, "Mom, shall we send the toys back to the kindergarten now?"

Xiaolan said, "I'll call the director and tell him about the situation. Send it tomorrow morning. I'll cook first. "

On the weekend, Xiaolan took her children to the mall and bought a set of Barbie dolls. The children were very happy and invited their good friends to play at home. After that, children never take other people's things again.

Moreover, the child is very sensible and good, and his study is also great, which makes Xiaolan and her husband very worry-free.

Every child makes mistakes. If parents treat their children with tolerant love, it is more conducive to their healthy growth to guide them to realize their mistakes when they make mistakes.

The best way to educate children is to give them better love, accompany them to grow up and set an excellent example for their parents.