1. Drawing a cake for you no matter what happens, it seems to be important, but in fact it is bullying you for being a fool.
2. Burning bridges, praising you every day when you are useful and making you work overtime and exhausting yourself, and never saying hello in advance when nothing happens. It only takes 12 hours from revealing this intention to actually kicking you away. Bai means that a new person has taken over and asks you to quickly free up your desk, chairs and computer for the next person. You should get out of here as soon as you figure it out or even before you figure out what it is.
3. Never admit your mistakes, lose your temper at every turn, do everything with reason, and be good at using your emotions to control you. The classic saying is that no matter what you do, it requires some means and there is no love without reason in the world. Hate for no reason.
Four. Crazy about taking things, doing this and that, doing whatever the leader says, colleagues doing whatever they need, but when something happens, you and you are fully responsible, and she goes to the meeting. , on the pretext of trust, act as a hands-off shopkeeper. The flowers are hers, the shit balls and sweat are yours.
Finally, I would like to send a curse word to this leader, fuck you, not everyone is a profit-seeking maggot like you, I am the only one who is stupid enough to be exploited and deceived by you.
Finally, I would like to give you an absolute truth: Those who flatter others will deceive others, stay away from them, do not trust them, and protect yourself.
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I didn’t see the question until I finished answering. To add to my situation, I work in the least economically developed district of an 18th-tier city and I have graduated from a bachelor's degree.
I joined a new department with a disgusting leader. She was promoted from the town. I just graduated. I basically shouldered all the work at the beginning. In the first year I worked overtime for a year, and she tried all kinds of tricks to win my heart by giving me cakes and small favors. She made me work overtime for a year on the pretext that I didn’t have a boyfriend and had nothing to do after get off work. I showed the book to my boss and asked for credit. I was allowed to publish a book in a week. What needs to be emphasized is that there is no name attributed to me. Before my current colleagues came here, I was responsible for basically all event planning and organization. From this point of view, I have no credit but hard work.
I am in the fourth project. To be precise, she snatched it from other departments. I tried my best to complete all the work and do the best I can. In the past two years, until this morning, she still praised me, saying that every department should want someone like me to work, and then she attacked me three times in a row. Even if I were asked to imagine ten million ways of my final ending, I would never have imagined that my final ending would be like this. My service period was about to expire, and she knew that I was about to take leave to review for the exam, so she kicked me to a unit where I had not been to a day since I took the exam.
I said it was inappropriate for her to kick me to the unit. Before she even discussed it with the leader there, she had already found a new person who couldn’t wait to take over my job, waiting for me to leave because I If she doesn't leave, she will have to buy new desks, chairs and computers to recruit people.
I say that my youth was a waste of time because during this period I even postponed the most important exams repeatedly for departmental work, squeezing my review time. But the ending is so heartless and disgusting. Crossing the river and burning the bridge, it only took less than 12 hours from 10 am to 8 pm to kick it out.
When you encounter a disgusting maggot-like leader, don’t talk about your own contributions and merits. Ask yourself, do you matter? Do you have a backend? Do you make it up? If she bullies you, can you retaliate and intimidate her? None, then your contribution is as good as the cake she painted, which is an excellent petri dish for cultivating maggots.
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Third update: She still quibbled, the bullets flew all day, But I did not blame her wrongly. She was truthful and happy.
Follow-up: I scolded her to death and directly pointed out that everything she said was lies. She also told others that it was for my own good that I said she wanted to leave first. But when she told me, I was confused all day long and couldn't figure out what she meant. In order to let me use my computer and let me go, what are you trying to quibble with? Why is there any need to pretend to be a good person? Standing and standing again. If you have the ability, just say so, or if you have the ability, just put the computer on the table and leave it until my term expires. I admire you, but if you can't do it, stop beeping.
I tested her if it wasn’t a new person, and if the new unit didn’t have a computer, she would lend me my current office computer for a few days, and I would return it then. She didn't reply for a long time and said she was wronged. She didn't see the message, and everyone in the office saw it. Privately, he said that he would never give me the computer and that he would give it to others to use. He said that recruiting people would not conflict with me. She turned around and complained to me, saying that I had misunderstood her kindness. Bah!
I have been working for her for two years, and the salary was paid to me by the unit where I took the exam. My term is about to expire, and I still pretend to be a good person, but I can’t stand it. I don’t want to be tactful, I just To be honest, I would just quarrel with her. I wouldn't say anything to her in front of others, I would just quarrel with her. Everyone is afraid that I will be embarrassed, but I am not embarrassed.
Why is it not the disgusting person who is embarrassed, but me, the disgusted person?