Shi Tiesheng (January 4, 1951 - December 31, 2010), Chinese writer and essayist.
1. I haven’t forgotten anything, but some things are only suitable for collection, cannot be said, cannot be thought about, but cannot be forgotten.
2. Time limits us, habits limit us, rumor-like public opinion makes us trapped in reality, and makes us close our eyes and ears in the magic of daylight and dare not act rashly. Day is a kind of magic, a kind of spell, which allows dead rules to flow unimpeded and allows reality to consume the magic. All people play tense and rigid roles, and all words, actions, thoughts and dreams seem to be delineated by preset programs.
3. For the soul, people struggle for a lifetime, and if they can finally earn happiness all day long, they have realized the greatest value of life.
4. The soft and hearty breath of the leaves, the poet whistled all the way home, kicked the stones all the way and had wonderful thoughts. He felt that the sunset and the evening breeze had been sentimental since ancient times, and he was a happy person now and in the future.
5. Who said I have never died? Before I was born, the sun had risen and set countless times, and the long time was swallowed up by the long nothingness. Made a comeback again in the name of my birthday.
6. When a person is born, it is no longer a question that can be debated, but is just a fact handed over to him by God; when God handed over this fact to us, he had already guaranteed it by the way. Its result, so death is something that does not need to be rushed. Death is a festival that will inevitably come.
7. People who live a confused life are likely to be happy; people who live a sober life are likely to be troubled. This is because sober people see things too clearly, and when they are serious, their lives will be full of troubles; while confused people care less, and although they live a simple and rough life, they have found the great realm of life.
8. To endure the dangers of the world together, to despise the limitations of reality, to look at the infinity and the absolute, and then discover each other's existence and support, which is hard to leave. This is Love it.
9. No matter how many opposite sexes you are disappointed with, you have no reason to be disappointed in love. Because love itself is hope and is always a hope in life. Love is your own quality, your own heart and soul, your own situation, and has nothing to do with others.
10. The room of the soul will be filled with dust if not cleaned. A dusty heart will become gray and confused. We go through many things every day, happy and unhappy, all settled in our hearts. When there are too many things, it will become chaotic and disorderly, and the mind will also become chaotic. Painful emotions and unpleasant memories, if filled in the heart, will make people depressed. Therefore, sweeping the floor and removing dust can brighten a gloomy heart.
11. Have we ever met? Well, you said no. But that's probably because we forgot, or weren't aware of it. What is forgotten and not noticed is as if it never happened.
12. Most of the interactions between people are superficial, or only at a relatively superficial level, communication is easy. Once you go deep, people become a maze of each other.
13. People have three fundamental dilemmas. First, people are destined to be themselves only. People are destined to live among countless others and cannot fully communicate with others. It means loneliness. Second, people are born with desires, and a person’s ability to realize desires can never catch up with his ability to desire. This is an eternal distance. Third, people are born not to want to die, but people are born to die. This means fear.
14. Nothing can prove love, love is the proof of loneliness. Most of Shi Tiesheng's interactions with people are superficial
Shi Tiesheng (January 4, 1951 - December 31, 20xx), a Chinese writer and essayist.
1. I haven’t forgotten anything, but some things are only suitable for collection, cannot be said, cannot be thought about, but cannot be forgotten.
2. Time limits us, habits limit us, rumor-like public opinion makes us trapped in reality, and makes us close our eyes and ears in the magic of daylight and dare not act rashly. Day is a kind of magic, a kind of spell, which allows dead rules to flow unimpeded and allows reality to consume the magic. All people play tense and rigid roles, and all words, actions, thoughts and dreams seem to be delineated by preset programs.
3. For the soul, people struggle for a lifetime, and if they can finally earn happiness all day long, they have realized the greatest value of life.
4. The soft and hearty breath of the leaves, the poet whistled all the way home, kicked the stones all the way and had wonderful thoughts. He felt that the sunset and the evening breeze had been sentimental since ancient times, and he was a happy person now and in the future.
5. Who said I have never died? Before I was born, the sun had risen and set countless times, and the long time was swallowed up by the long nothingness. Made a comeback again in the name of my birthday.
6. When a person is born, it is no longer a question that can be debated, but is just a fact handed over to him by God; when God handed over this fact to us, he had already guaranteed it by the way. Its result, so death is something that does not need to be rushed. Death is a festival that will inevitably come.
7. People who live a confused life are likely to be happy; people who live a sober life are likely to be troubled. This is because sober people see things too clearly, and when they are serious, their lives will be full of troubles; while confused people care less, and although they live a simple and rough life, they have found the great realm of life.
8. To endure the dangers of the world together, to despise the limitations of reality, to look at the infinity and the absolute, and then discover each other's existence and support, which is hard to leave. This is Love it.
9. No matter how many opposite sexes you are disappointed with, you have no reason to be disappointed in love. Because love itself is hope and is always a hope in life. Love is your own quality, your own heart and soul, your own situation, and has nothing to do with others.
10. The room of the soul will be filled with dust if not cleaned. A dusty heart will become gray and confused. We go through many things every day, happy and unhappy, all settled in our hearts. When there are too many things, it will become chaotic and disorderly, and the mind will also become chaotic. Painful emotions and unpleasant memories, if filled in the heart, will make people depressed. Therefore, sweeping the floor and removing dust can brighten a gloomy heart.
11. Have we ever met? Well, you said no. But that's probably because we forgot, or weren't aware of it. What is forgotten and not noticed is as if it never happened.
12. Most of the interactions between people are superficial, or only at a relatively superficial level, communication is easy. Once you go deep, people become a maze of each other.
13. People have three fundamental dilemmas. First, people are destined to be themselves only. People are destined to live among countless others and cannot fully communicate with others. It means loneliness. Second, people are born with desires, and a person’s ability to realize desires can never catch up with his ability to desire. This is an eternal distance. Third, people are born not to want to die, but people are born to die. This means fear.
14. Nothing can prove love, love is the proof of loneliness. Quotations for interacting with people
1. As long as misfortune cannot destroy faith, the light of hope will dispel the clouds of despair. ——Zheng Xiufang
2. People with different paths should not work together. ——Confucius
3. Don’t look down on anyone, because no one is so cowardly that he cannot even retaliate for being insulted. ——Aesop
4. If you are close to the wise, you will be wise, if you are close to the stupid, you will be wise. ——Tang Pi Rixiu
5. The correct life is: maintaining a suitable state and living a life without competition. ——Montaigne
6. Don’t abandon people’s great beauty with small evils, and don’t forget people’s great kindness with small resentments. ——Zhongjuyun, Qing Dynasty
7. A gentleman will not flatter others when he is superior to others, and will not be disrespectful to others when he is subordinate to others. ——"Book of Changes"
8. Breaking one's word means failure. ——Zola
9. It is better to make others love than to make others love, and it is worse to make others respect than to make others love. ——Li Xing
10. Be sincere forever. ——Haier's famous advertising slogan
11. Life is precious when you know each other, why bother with money. ——Li Bai
12. Those who are close to vermilion are red, and those who are close to ink are black. ——Jin Fu Xuan
13. The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, while the friendship between villains is as sweet as water. ——Zhuangzi
14. It is important for people to know each other. ——Zhou Enlai
15. If you want to open other people's hearts, you must first open your own. If you want to accommodate other people's hearts in your heart, you must first push your heart into other people's hearts. Go to your heart. ——Qian Chuishu
16. For an enterprise to operate sustainably, it must first be recognized by society and users. Only when an enterprise is sincere to its users forever can users and society repay the enterprise and ensure the company's forward development. ——Zhang Ruimin
17. To be lenient is to help the strong, and to be lenient is to be lenient, and the government is to be harmonious.
18. The most beautiful thing in life is his friendship with others. ——Lincoln
19. Everything is about integrity. A small thing or an inadvertent breach of trust may ruin our reputation for life. ——Lin Dasheng
20. The height of a fountain will not exceed its source, and the same is true for a person's career. His achievements will never exceed his own beliefs. ——Lincoln
21. The most beautiful thing in the world is to have a few serious friends with upright minds and hearts. ——Einstein
22. Unity unites the will and unites the voice. ——"Mandarin"
23. You may forget the person who laughed with you; but you will never forget the person who cried with you. ——Kahlil Gibran
24. Understanding is definitely the soil that nurtures the fruits of all friendships. ——Wilson
25. When I feel pain, I scream and shed tears; when I encounter despicableness, I become indignant; when I see filth, I feel disgusted. In my opinion, this is the only thing called life. ——Chekhov
26. Human will supported by indomitable faith has greater power than those seemingly invincible material forces.
——Einstein
27. Don’t be humble because of your noble body, don’t go against the crowd because of your unique views, don’t break your trust because of your functions. ——Zhuge Liang
28. Don’t trust anyone who believes in everything. ——Lesing
29. Treat everyone equally, be confidant to a few, and do not be indebted to anyone. ——Shakespeare
30. Oh, my friend, this is what I mean from the bottom of my heart. Because of you, the blue sky is vast; because of you, the roses are red and gorgeous. ——Emerson
31. As long as people have a belief and pursuit, they can endure any hardship and adapt to any environment. ——Ding Ling
32. It is better to have no friends than to have no friends. ——Yun Daiying
33. Don’t say whatever you want. Everything must be done in threes and fours. Be kind to others, but don’t be overly affectionate. ——Shakespeare
34. Beliefs are best supported by experience and clear thoughts. ——Einstein
35. Faith is not a product salesman who goes around looking for customers. It will never take the initiative to knock on your door. ——Zhao Xinshan
36. Beautiful things are often because they are sincere. ——Roland
37. A person who never appreciates others is a person who will never be appreciated by others. ——Wang Guozhen
38. The most terrifying enemy is the lack of strong belief. ——Romain Rolland
39. Do your best for others, and finally do your best for yourself. ——(UK) Ruskin
40. Faith is a bird. When the dawn is still dark, it feels the light and sings a song. —— Rabindranath Tagore
41. Horsepower can be seen through the distance, and people’s hearts can be seen over time. ——Yuan Dynasty's "Strive to Repay Gratitude"
42. Do not do evil because it is small, and do not do good because it is small. ——Chen Shou
43. A great person has two hearts: one heart that bleeds, and one heart that is tolerant. ——Kahlil Gibran
44. After entering the society, we are deeply aware of the seriousness and harm of the credit crisis. But there is no use complaining, let alone waiting. Restoring social credit must rely on everyone's efforts, starting now and starting from ourselves. ——Guo Hui
45. When people like to be strong, I use softness to overcome them; when people use skills, I feel them with sincerity; when people use anger, I use reason to bend them. ——Jin Ying
46. Learn to live in the simplest way and don’t let complicated thoughts destroy the sweetness of life. ——Milton
47. On the thorny road, only faith and patience can open up a broad road. ——Matsushita Konosuke
48. Making friends means treating each other as equals and getting along with each other with sincerity. ——Ding Ling
49. Treat yourself as someone else. It means that when getting along with others, we must put ourselves in others' shoes, be considerate of others, and treat others well with mutual understanding. There will be many conflicts, problems, mistakes and misunderstandings when people get along with each other. On the one hand, when someone does something that you are unhappy with, don’t understand, or don’t want, you can’t just complain, accuse, blame, or get angry. You must also put yourself in the shoes of others and think about the reasons for the problem, the situation, and other factors, and assume that the problem has arisen. What will happen to you? On the other hand, when others are out of sync, out of tune, or inconsistent with your actions, don't think that you are correct. What if you look at problems and handle things from others' perspective? From this point of view, treating yourself as someone else is about mutual understanding.
50. Friendship can enhance happiness and reduce pain; because it can multiply our joy and share our worries. ——Edison
51. Treat yourself as yourself. It means to understand yourself when getting along with others, without exaggerating, minimizing, hiding, or hypocrisy. Everyone's knowledge, ability, temperament, and position are objective, realistic, and relatively stable in a certain circle of communication. Therefore, whether you can view yourself and value yourself correctly often becomes a support point in interpersonal communication. If you lean to the left, you may lose the friend on the right, and if you lean to the right, you may lose the friend on the left. Most friends. In fact, treating yourself as yourself means looking at yourself objectively and realistically.
52. One death and one lifetime is the friendship between two people; one is poor and one is rich, one is the state of friendship. One is noble and the other is humble, friendship is about seeing each other. ——"Historical Records"
53. Treat others as yourself. It means that when you get along with others, you should treat others sincerely and honestly, just like you treat yourself, truly and without false feelings. Only by treating each other with sincerity can others trust you and be willing to interact with you, and can they develop sincere friendship and blossom the flower of friendship. In real life, we may not be able to treat others as ourselves, but the friends you think are worthy of making friends and the true friendship you hope to establish really need to treat others as yourself, show your sincerity, and show your sincerity. Be sincere and treat your friends with your enthusiasm. Only such interactions must be sincere, long-lasting and able to withstand the test. After all, treat others as oneself and speak sincerely.
54. Don’t be afraid to reject others if your reasons are legitimate.
—— Sanmao
55. Those who love others will always be loved by others; those who respect others will always be respected by others. ——Mencius
56. Where sincerity reaches, gold and stone will open. ——"Book of the Later Han Dynasty"
57. Nothing is cheap in the world, and whoever wants to take advantage will suffer. ——Xu Teli
58. A calm and unhurried behavior is more heartwarming than an aggressive attitude. ——Sanmao
59. When dealing with others, you must learn to suffer losses. As the saying goes: give in for life without losing a moment. ——Zongtang Zuo
60. A person should live his life for himself, he should learn to like himself, and he should not care too much about what others think of me, or what others think of me. In fact, how others measure you also depends on how you measure yourself! ——Xi Murong
61. Only by respecting others can others be respected.
62. Treat others as others. It means respecting the independence of others when getting along with others, and not forcing, making things difficult, replacing, or taking over other people's affairs. Others are others, and they are completely different from you in terms of the environment in which you grew up, the conditions in which you were born, the education you received, the exposure to the world, the events you encountered, etc. The temper, personality, way of thinking, and methods of doing things that have been formed over a long period of time are also different. These differences It is concentrated on people's self and self-esteem. The most important prerequisite for getting along with others is to respect the individuality and independence of others, otherwise it will be difficult to get along with each other. Treat others as others. To put it bluntly, don’t think that others are also you.
63. Friendship is the most precious thing in the world, and deep friendship is the greatest comfort in life. ——Zou Taofen
64. A great person has two hearts: one heart bleeds and one heart forgiving. ——Lebanon Gibran
65. When you like yourself, you will not feel inferior. When you tolerate others, you will not feel that you are in a hostile position with others. When you can feel this way, you will feel satisfied and at peace even if you still don't have many friends. ——Roland
66. Only by respecting yourself can you be respected by others. ——Wu Han
67. It is enough to have a confidant in life, and the rest of the world should treat him with sympathy. ——Lu Xun
68. Don’t do to others what you don’t want others to do to you. ——Confucius
69. The best way to encourage yourself is to encourage others. ——Mark Twain
70. Treat others harmoniously, be lenient to others, and be forgiving to others, which is what a gentleman is. ——Lin Bu
71. Faith is a reserve. The traveler takes it with him at dawn. I hope he can use it before sunset. ——Korolenko
72. Words must not penetrate the bone marrow, and jokes must not touch the heart. ——Lu Longqi
73. If you are too generous, you will be responsible for yourself, and if you are too weak, you will be responsible for others. ——Cai Yuanpei
74. The most unbearable loneliness is the lack of true friendship. ——Bacon
75. People who cannot tolerate others are not worthy of being tolerated by others. ——Turgenev
76. Life is an adventurous activity full of joy and hope. This activity is based on the desire to build, rather than keeping all one's own property or acquiring the property of others. desire. ——Russell
77. If the mountain is not high, the immortal will be famous; if the water is not deep, the dragon will be spiritual. ——Tang·Liu Yuxi
78. Credit is an indispensable personal intangible asset in modern society. The constraints of integrity come not only from the outside world, but also from our self-discipline and our own moral strength. ——He Zhiyong
79. The power developed by a person with faith is greater than that of 99 people who only have interest. ——Leo Tolstoy
80. Unity is strength, division leads to destruction. ——Sun Yat-sen
81. The brand contains the reputation of integrity accumulated by the company over the years and is a huge intangible asset. ——British businessman
82. People who cannot tolerate others are not worthy of being tolerated by others. ——Russian Turgenev
83. Those who love others will always be loved; those who respect others will always be respected. ——"Mencius Li Lou Xia"
84. When you have to let go, you must let go, and be merciful when you can. ——Shen Cai
85. Great works are not only accomplished by strength, but also by unswerving faith. ——Samuel Johnson
86. When dealing with a brave man, read from the place where there are no words. ——Zhou Enlai
87. A ruler is short and an inch is long. ——Warring States Period·Qu Yuan
88. The will is as strong as iron, and the measure is as large as the sea.
89. We cannot place all our happiness on others. Because others can only understand and help us to a limited extent. In fact, there are more people in this world who are a blessing on the cake than a helper in times of need. If you act strong, others will encourage you; if you are weak, few people will help you. ——Roland
90. When you meet someone, you can only say a few words, but don’t give up everything.
——Feng Menglong’s 14 heart-warming quotes from true love
1. There are two kinds of people, one kind has a past and the other has no past. People with past memories love life and deeply regret the passage of time. Therefore, with a special kind of love, they treasure everything they have experienced in the barn of their souls. People who have no past do not care about the passage of time. This numbness makes them despise all things. Everything they experience is like passing smoke, drifting away in the wind, leaving nothing behind. ——Zhou Guoping's "Watching Distance"
2. He understands that people need feelings. He knows that life without warmth and love is like a dry wheel, rattling as it turns. Noise. ——Hugo's "Notre Dame de Paris"
3. People often suddenly think of long-lost past events while traveling, and recall the voices and smiles of many old friends. It seems that travel is a solvent that melts the dusty lid, and the smoky warmth rises out. ——Bi Shumin "May you embrace the warmth of this world"
4. On the road of life, drop blood drop by drop to feed others. Although you feel that you are getting thinner, you still feel happy. ——Lu Xun
5. In life, everyone should be Chunhui, giving warmth to others. Today, the relationship between people should be more like this. Between friends, if we treat each other with sincerity and treat each other with sincerity, isn’t that just to shine on and warm each other? ——Mao Dun
6. People praise the shooting star because it burns throughout its entire journey. ——Ling Guang
7. Darkness cannot drive away darkness, only light can do that. Hatred cannot drive out hatred, only love can do that. ——Martin Luther King
8. We increase our wisdom in order to bloom a flower for ourselves; we dedicate our hearts in order to bloom a flower for the world. ——Lin Qingxuan "Bloom a Flower for Yourself"
9. We think poverty means hunger, lack of clothing and no house. However, the greatest poverty is not being wanted, loved and cared for. ——Mother Teresa
10. Life is actually like a candle, it illuminates others while also illuminating yourself. When we selflessly dedicate ourselves to helping others, we also gain a lot from it. Love, first of all, means dedication, which means dedicating the power of one's soul to the one you love and creating happiness for the one you love. ——Suhomlinsky
11. Love others and be loved by others, this is everything, this is the law of the universe. It is for love that we exist. Those who are comforted by love are not afraid of anything or anyone. —— Peng Shaer
12. Making soup and cooking rice with firewood is the most time-consuming and the most sincere. Among them, the heat is controlled, the firewood is added, the length of time is controlled, and only those who do it understand the difficulty and length of it. ——"Fireworks in the World"
13. The person who raised you was still very young in your memory yesterday. How come he has become old all of a sudden? At that moment, you can profoundly understand from your loved ones that the oil is exhausted and the lamp is dry. This is the process of life. Then you realize that one day you will be too. Youth eventually fades away, a tree's flowers fall away, and existence is bitter. Whether it is for yourself or your family, when that day comes, you must finally learn to let go. - Zhang Xiaoxian
14. Don’t mind too much about people who treat you badly. No one has the obligation to be nice to you. ; The knowledge you learn is the weapon you have. You can start from scratch, but you can't be unarmed; how you treat others does not mean how others treat you. If you can't see through this, it will only increase your troubles; loved ones only have one chance. Cherish fate, and we will never see you again in the next life, whether you love it or not.
——Liang Jizhang's "Memo to Children"