In a big way, children are the future of the motherland. The security and construction of the motherland cannot be separated from them; When we get to the private parts, even if we have money, we can't live without them!
Everyone has a tragic story, some caused by pampering, some caused by improper education, and some even caused by excessive discipline!
The accidents that keep happening to children are heartbreaking!
Plant trees for ten years and educate people for a hundred years. This old saying shows that it is easy to plant a tree or even become a forest. And it's hard to educate a child!
10 days ago, my daughter went to work in the county with my cousin's wife without my knowledge. I don't know which subject this should belong to, just the kind of "Tik Tok"
The salary is considerable.
She left her two children at home to be taken care of by their grandmother. Grandma hasn't studied for a day, her memory is not very good, and her heart is also faulty. She often forgets things and sometimes gives her children the wrong medicine.
I was worried when I heard that my daughter left her two children to work. Granddaughter is only 5 years old.
How can I leave my children to work?
I called my son-in-law in Tianjin. He found it after his daughter went to work. I'll let my son-in-law say, don't let my daughter go to work, let her daughter's family take care of the children, as soon as possible! The son-in-law agreed very much.
Putting down the phone, I immediately drove to my side with my two children. My grandson, who was more than two weeks old, saw me jump into my arms and shouted "Mom".
I brought my two children to my house and put them down. The children looked for their mother everywhere in my seven houses, and my wife followed them with tears. How much he misses his mother! Friends, those young mothers and friends, do you have similar experiences?
Anyway, I fought back my tears!
I criticized my daughter and talked to her about the importance of children's learning and growth.
In fact, there is no need to talk to those "experts" about such complicated problems of raising and educating children. Childhood children need their mother's company to give them happiness and security! There is no need to buy them anything "good". There is no need to dress them up in fancy, it will hurt the children!
Be sure to accompany your child and cooperate with the teacher to complete the key journey of primary school!
If you raise your child well, he may realize the money you will never earn in one year. ...
The first photo is of my family in 1985. At that time, the oldest was just about to be promoted from primary school to junior high school, and the youngest was in kindergarten. The second photo, 1996, I worked as a migrant worker in Chang 'an, Dongguan. The eighties coincided with the reform and opening up, and our generation of rural people faced multiple tests, and the rural areas were separated. There are old people in the world, but few people in the world. Production should be oriented to rural areas, farm tools, pesticides and fertilizers. In my life, I face three family members: daily necessities. Children, in particular, should spend money on school step by step. What can we do? I can only leave my hometown, my very harmonious family, my lover who never quarrels and go to work in Guangdong, Hainan. Perhaps the construction site inspired me, which is not enough for a person who only finished primary school. Children's learning should be the responsibility of us adults. At that time, everyone who came to work in the fields knew that children in rural areas accounted for half of the workforce. I had to write to my lover to make time for my children to study anyway. After returning home, I will also pay a return visit to teachers, thinking that teachers are the most selfless group. At home, study with children and improve knowledge together. Perhaps because of the children's touch, reading in my spare time has become my only habit. The guest room has become a capital for dialogue with children. When they were growing up, everyone was beaten with a stick only once on average. No matter how busy lovers are, they are reluctant to be busy with them. So far, I have been ill. I saw all the children live up to expectations. Only the fourth child was adopted as a child. After inquiring about her seventeen-year-old parents, we personally sent them back to her home. Now I often contact) teaching in a school or working in an enterprise. Each of them has a child. (The third photo is a certificate of encouragement given to the second child by the primary school teacher around 20 14 years. They go to primary school, middle school and university respectively. Perhaps it is the hardship of parents' life that makes their feelings uneven. They each have a child, while I have three granddaughters and grandchildren.
How to raise children in rural areas? Educate the children well? It has been decided that the child will settle in the countryside from the moment he is pregnant in 10 to the moment he lands. After the reform and opening-up, whether in urban or rural areas, changes in life and economic development have made the economy between families exist in a pattern of upper middle, lower left and middle right. Children in rural areas, greedy families or wealthy families have no choice. Their life and fate depend entirely on the upbringing of their parents. China has a famous saying: Character decides fate. Zhu Ting this foot, near the ink is black. Children's growth depends on their parents. Why do we all say that children are inestimable? Because their little lives are totally dependent on their parents. You put him in a foreign country. It is a foreign language. With the development of life, children's adaptability and acceptance are increasing. All parents, that is, human nature and instinct: eager for their children. This is a wish, the moon in the water, the shadow in the mirror. Calling children Jackie Chan, Jackie Chan, Jackie Chan and Jackie Chan are long-term responsibilities and practical actions that parents should take. It is difficult for children to grow up. As adults, we shouldn't give them too much blame and criticism. They should be advised to respect and care for their young hearts. Parents love their previous academic performance and exam results. We should love their hearts and morals. Because ideology and morality are as important as exam results and academic performance. Knowledge is acquired through continuous exploration. And children grow up by constantly exploring knowledge. The importance of fairness and justice in children's moral standards, learning standards and achievement standards is equivalent to the foundation of tall buildings. The quality of foundation determines the stability and crisis of the whole building. As long as our parents and children work together. Whether you are a child in the city. Children in rural areas know that there must be spring sowing. Where is the autumn harvest!
Hello, everyone: I'm from Wumei, Guangxi, and I'm the mother of two post-80s children. I live in the countryside and am glad to answer this question. How to raise and educate children in rural areas? I think gold is everywhere. Nowadays, children in rural and urban areas are the darling of their parents. They don't fight or scold, eat well, wear famous brands, buy toys casually, or cheat if they don't buy them. Most of these phenomena are spoiled by parents, which makes children develop many bad habits. Therefore, we can't tolerate children's mistakes and point out which ones are right and which ones are wrong.
1. Parents are the children's first teachers and will always be the children's most direct teachers. Parents' words and deeds will play a great role in their children's life. If parents are asked not to do it, they should first set a good example for their children.
Education is a big problem, which comes from family education and school education. The education of rural children needs more support and care from parents, schools and society. With the continuous development of social economy, many children from rural families have become left-behind children, and parents must stay with them to educate their children.
It is said that children in rural areas have been in charge for a long time. For example, children in my family, under the age of nine or five, can study at school. There are some simple jobs at home that you don't need to talk about. They do it by themselves. Children can't get used to it. If you want to educate a good child, you must accompany your child.
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Hello, I'm glad to answer this question.
With the deepening of quality education and the steady improvement of teaching quality, the educational problems of rural children have gradually emerged. Due to the restriction of living conditions and economic conditions, there are still obstacles to receiving education in rural areas, and there are many factors affecting the teaching quality of rural primary schools. So how to educate rural children well?
First, create a good growth environment for children.
Parents should set a good example for their children's life growth. Put down your parents' airs and treat your children equally. Trust children, be their good friends, and always treat them with a gentle attitude. Respect children, encourage children to express their inner thoughts, open their hearts to children, play games with children, sing and tell stories together, get happiness and satisfaction in games, and share the joys and sorrows of life with children. Create a good and harmonious family environment for children.
Second, we should not indulge.
Nowadays, children are the apple of their parents' eye. They can't fight or scold. They want to eat high-grade, wear famous brands, and buy whatever toys they want. If they don't buy, they have to play. This situation is obvious in many families, which makes children develop many bad habits. Finally, children will blame their parents for "why don't you understand our generation?" We cannot tolerate children's mistakes. We should point out what is right and what is wrong in time. If it is right, we will continue to encourage it. If it is wrong, we will help the children correct it together! At the same time, it is necessary to train children to do what they can, and parents should not do everything.
Third, pay attention to words and deeds.
Parents are the children's first teachers and will always be the children's most direct teachers. Parents' words and deeds will play a great role in demonstrating their children's lives. Parents should do what they ask their children not to do. Just as many parents now prohibit their children from indulging in the internet, staying up late and enjoying online games; Parents want their children not to smoke and drink, but they smoke and drink all day. How can they let their children do this? As the saying goes, don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you!
Fourth, we should cultivate children's behavioral ability.
First, we should carefully observe life and the surrounding environment with our eyes; Second, listen carefully with your ears to how others express their views; Third, carefully record what you see and hear by hand (keep a diary); Fourth, we should use our brains to think carefully about what we have seen, heard and recorded, and form our own ideas and opinions; Fifth, express your thoughts and opinions accurately with your mouth. To achieve this, we need a process, and we can't rush for success, but as long as we persist in doing it, children's observation ability, writing ability, thinking ability and language expression ability will be gradually exercised and improved.
Fifth, be good at making friends with children.
Parents should not always be above themselves, and everything should be based on their own will. Children also have their own thoughts, opinions and freedom. They should be good at communicating with children as friends, explaining the truth so that children can understand and accept it slowly, and let children have respect and trust in their parents. Don't scold the child in a commanding tone, beat and scold the child. Pay attention to cultivating children's interests and don't force them to learn things they don't like. Always find the advantages of children and praise them appropriately. Don't say anything that hurts the child. Be considerate of children in the details of life. Let children feel the love of their parents. Although these are all aspects, they are all prerequisites for educating children, otherwise education will never be good.
Education is a big problem, which comes from family education, school education and even social education. The education of rural children needs more support and care from parents, schools and society. With the continuous development of social economy, many children from rural families have become left-behind children, and they are easy to produce some negative factors without the care of their parents for a long time. Therefore, to educate rural children well, the government should start from the source, vigorously develop the rural economy, let more people who go out to work come back, and create a good family atmosphere for children, which is conducive to their study.
Now it is said that children are getting more and more difficult to control! How should we educate them? First of all, I think that because many parents have been working outside for a long time, most of their children have been brought up by grandparents since childhood. As the saying goes, as long as there are requirements for "every generation" children, grandparents will generally find ways to meet them. As a result, many children have completed their personality as they wish. When grandparents found something was wrong and wanted to take care of it, the children didn't listen. Secondly, there are many single-parent families. No matter whether a child lives with his father or his mother, it will cause certain difficulties to his education. Finally, due to the low educational level of the elders, many questions cannot be answered correctly for the children. Therefore, in order to educate children well, I think we must do the following three things. 1, patience. Parents must spend more time with their children and listen to their demands patiently. Don't just think, I am Lao Zi, so you have to listen to me. In this way, children will become more and more alienated from their parents. 2. persevere. Agree with your child on the goal of progress. Whenever a child makes even a small progress, you should praise him well and ensure that he goes further on the road of learning. At the same time, we should actively improve our learning ability and set an example for our children. 3 love. I think this is more important than any convenience. Cultivate a noble child, even if he goes anywhere in the future, he is a person who is liked and respected by people. Children's education has a long way to go, and I am also learning while walking. I hope everyone can discuss and study together!
I have the following views on how to educate children in rural areas: 1. Just like the situation in the countryside now. 90% of parents are working outside the home. Children are placed in grandparents' homes, and most of them become so-called left-behind children, who rarely communicate with their parents. Even some parents don't answer the phone, which is a serious psychological defect. Even if parents come back for a few days and feel indebted to their children, they will give them whatever they want. Grandparents will come to clean up the mess after parents leave. I have been fighting with children for a long time, and I am an enemy with everyone. I feel that books don't love. Therefore, they think that children should take care of themselves, and those who are disobedient should be disciplined, and those who are disobedient cannot. In rural areas, parents and schools have become opposites. Children's poor grades indicate that teachers are not teaching well, especially the elderly at home. When they got home, they asked, "Did the teacher hit you today? How is the food at school? Is it not delicious? " And so on. If something goes wrong, I will make trouble with the school teacher, and I will tell him where to go and say that I didn't take good care of his children. In fact, the teacher is also very good. Recognize teachers' achievements and work together to create a better tomorrow for children. This is the core.
3. Go into the child's heart, listen to the child's voice, consider making friends with the child for the child's position, and don't treat the child with a condescending attitude. Can do the above three points, the child will not be worse.
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How to raise and educate children in rural areas? I think parents only need to do two things:
First, companionship. At present, the number of left-behind children in China has exceeded 23 million, and this number is still rising. These children have been separated from their parents for a long time and look forward to the stars and the moon every day. They want their parents to come back to them and spend more time with them. In the long run, the psychological pressure on children will be great, so the companionship of parents is very important!
Second, education and children are the flowers of the country and the hope of the family. Education is particularly important. In the countryside, parents bring up. Because of their parents' generation, the educational level is not high, and some of them haven't even read books, so they can't play a leading role in educating children. In addition, some parents dote on their children, thinking that it is good for them to eat and wear warm clothes, but neglecting their study. As the saying goes, parents are children's first teachers, which shows the importance of family education to children's studies!
Educate children
1. Children must be seriously educated in both urban and rural areas.
First of all, let children form good habits. A good habit is related to adults, if we adults don't work hard to educate our children. Then he may become a lazy or lazy person when he grows up.
Children are parents' hearts and parents' hopes in the future, so we must communicate with our children attentively.
So how should we care for our children? Care for children must be strictly disciplined, and you can't bear to scold him. If you do something wrong, let him learn to correct it.
The child is in the growth stage, and the housework he can do is of course to let him learn to do it and form a good habit. Therefore, no matter in urban or rural areas, the habits of a good boy are gradually accumulated from childhood.