1 regret if you are not married, so who can guarantee that you will not regret if you are married?
In the play, Wang Manni asked the barber who had never been married all his life: "Do you regret not getting married?" Grandpa replied, "if you don't get married, you will regret it." Then who can guarantee that you won't regret it if you get married? " Everyone is absent, and many people don't know whether they are happy for others or for themselves. "
After reading it, I also thought: If someone asks me, do you regret getting married? To tell the truth, no regrets are false. Because after getting married and starting a family, it is no longer just the relationship between two people, but also the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. After having children, family conflicts often arise because of different concepts of educating children. As a woman, she has to work and take care of her family. Sometimes she is too busy. Life seems to be full of these trivial things, which makes people breathless. But if I am not married at this age, if someone asks me, do you regret not getting married? I may also regret it, because if I don't get married, I may feel that I don't even have a person to rely on, I will regret not having my own children, I will worry about what to do when I am old, and so on.
Therefore, there may not be perfect people and things in this world at all, depending on how you think and how to face and solve various problems in life. If someone asks me: Do you regret marrying your current husband? If I say I have no regrets, it is also false. But on second thought, if you marry another man, will everything be fine? I don't think so. I'm relieved to think so! (Of course, except for those marriages with principled problems such as domestic violence or gambling, such families should stop their losses in time. )
Therefore, since we are alive, we all have to learn one thing, that is, we still love life after recognizing the truth of life. Only in this way can we live well.
All those who choose to drift should know from the moment they leave home that in the future, you will be your home and support your day.
This sentence was said by the barber. Yes! Since you have chosen a person to travel outside, you must accept the loneliness and helplessness outside. Because at that time, you were your own day! No matter what wind and rain you face, you must learn to carry it yourself.
I recall that shortly after graduation, I was bent on working in other places. Although my family stayed, I made up my mind to leave. Although it will be much more convenient to stay here and have my family to take care of my life, I still want to leave. I remember when my sister dragged my suitcase to see me off, she said, "No one knows when you are suffering alone outside."
Although I came back after two years, I have no regrets, because I have walked by, passed by and seen it. Now I'm back, but my heart is relaxed.
What the barber said is very similar to a paragraph on my internet. A daughter told her mother that she didn't want to get married, but her mother only said: As long as she saw other people's families busy around for holidays, she wouldn't cry.
Wang Manni in the play, after experiencing some setbacks and hardships, finally she did it! As she finally said to her ex-boyfriend with a smile, "There are many beautiful scenery in this world worth seeing, but now, I just want to see it alone."
3 capable women will only solve unfaithful men, and incapable women will come to mistress.
As the internet says: women should keep the ability to leave at any time. It's called planning ahead. Otherwise, even if you have a lot of dissatisfaction with your marriage, you can't choose to leave because you have no confidence, no economy as the foundation and no spiritual independence as the support.
In the previous TV series, when the wife learned that her husband had a mistress outside, most of them would rush out to find the mistress, then slap her in the face and persuade her to leave her husband. Gu Jia in the play is uncharacteristic, and her thoughts are just two words: divorce! Although she felt sorry for her family and children, she felt that she could not forgive an unfaithful husband. In addition, she is a more rational woman, with her own career and strong personality. When she learned that her husband was cheating on her, she opened the suitcase and packed things. It was not her own clothes, but her husband's clothes. After she put them away, she handed him her suitcase and said, "You can go anywhere you want now. I don't want to see you in this house. " Then I saw Xu Huanshan despondently and reluctantly leave this home.
I think women with weak personalities, like Xiao Qin and me, always slam the door when quarreling with their husbands, and then go out and don't know where they have gone. And some men will think: you have nowhere to go anyway, you will come back anyway.
Although this TV play is over, our life goes on. I hope we can all learn some life truths from this drama, such as: What kind of person are you? What kind of life do you want most? What are the possibilities in your life? Wait, wait, wait.