Ten years ago, when I watched this TV series, I didn't have a deep understanding of many things because of my young age, and I didn't feel how wrong this TV series was.

ten years later, I watched this TV series again and got a different understanding.

When I first saw the humble abode, I always felt how lucky seaweed was to meet such a kind person as Song Siming. How good is Song Siming to seaweed?

First of all, I am very willing to give up money. I buy a house, clothes and even a bank card for seaweed.

There is a saying that spending his money makes you happy. Spending his money is not because of women's greed. Because a woman doesn't spend any man's money, it is also Qian Fan's careful choice. A woman uses whether she can spend his money to verify his love, while a man uses whether she is willing to spend his money to test her love.

Song Siming felt a sense of satisfaction when he saw that seaweed spent his money.

he feels that his rights have been released.

After Haizao became pregnant, she even arranged a back road for him, and gave Haizao 5 million yuan to let her go far away.

Even when he was dying, the person he was thinking about was still seaweed.

But how did Song Siming treat Mrs. Song?

there are only four words: very heartless.

During the day, he goes to work and enjoys the glory brought by power. At night, after work, he leaves all the time to seaweed. In front of seaweed, he is particularly gentle and sensitive. But, in front of Mrs. Song, what is he like?

He is very heartless. He goes home when he wants to, and lives outside when he doesn't want to. When he gets home, he throws everything to Mrs. Song.

When dealing with Mrs. Song, I never have a good face. After Mrs. Song knew about seaweed, Song Siming said this to Mrs. Song: Don't do anything you don't say hello to in the future, or you will be at your own risk.

when Song Siming said this sentence, I thought it was particularly disgusting.

Originally, he was the wrong person in this matter, and Mrs. Song had the right to ask all these questions. However, in this matter, he had nothing to fear and didn't feel that he had done anything wrong. He put Mrs. Song's love on his feet completely and didn't know how to feel sorry for Mrs. Song at all. How much Mrs. Song has paid for this family, surely Song Siming doesn't know.

Mrs. Song once said: From the time you lived in a single dormitory to the time you got Tingting, I took care of the children by myself. You went abroad for a year to study, and I took care of everything inside and outside your home. Every year, I was busy with the expenses that your family needed to supplement, the medicines that your parents needed to send when they were sick, and even the gift money for your niece's birth. When you were poorest, I took Tingting back to my parents' house to have a meal and used my mother as a nanny to get through today.

It can be said that Song Siming's success today is entirely due to Mrs. Song.

In this family, Mrs. Song scrimped and saved, reluctant to eat or wear, even if she took a fancy to a set of 2, yuan furniture.

She gave all the best things to Song Siming. Even after knowing what Song Siming had done, Song Siming was still her first thought.

When she got home, she sold her parents' brother's house and raised 5 million yuan for Song Siming to make up the deficit.

But Song Siming sent the money to seaweed in a flash. Seeing this, it's really not worth it for Mrs. Song.

She loved Song Siming wholeheartedly, but she didn't expect that Song Siming loved someone else. Even if my conscience finally found out, I was just moved by Mrs. Song. The person who can't let go most in his heart is still seaweed.

For a woman, what a sad experience it is that you give everything to a man, but the other person loves another woman.

Having said that, I think of a sentence, a woman should never accompany a man to grow up, let alone give up your competitiveness in the workplace for love.

In this marriage, Mrs. Song accompanied Song Siming from scratch. Moreover, she can use her family's experience to make Song Siming successful in my official career. But what kind of life is it to meet Mrs. Song after Song Siming's successful official career? Yes, there is money, but Song Siming spent it on others. There is time, but Song Siming, however, used this time to accompany other women.

Mrs. Song worked hard to get everything, but she made a wedding dress for others. Even if she wants a divorce at this time, Mrs. Song's workplace competition has long been lost.

Even after divorce, it is sad for a woman to live on Song Siming's charity.

In love, a man's love is diminished. Maybe when you first met, he was very kind, warm and gentle to you. But after a long time, his love will gradually become less and he is indifferent to you. After having some money and power, he is used to a dull life and is likely to have an affair with others.

So, in Song Siming's eyes, what Mrs. Song has done is nothing at all.

I always think that Song Siming is selfish, and between him and seaweed, it's not so much love as what he wants.

To love someone is to give her dignity, let her live righteously and aboveboard in the world, and give her a place to belong.

No amount of materials and routines can hide a selfish, hungry and restless heart. From beginning to end, it is just a beautifully packaged transaction with love as a cover.

The relationship between him and Mrs. Song is just a stepping stone and a shot in the arm.