Remember: never make any decision when you are angry! Speaking is a kind of ability; Not saying is a kind of wisdom. A person who can control bad emotions is better than a person who can win a city.
1, emergency, speak slowly.
In case of emergency, if you can calm down and think, and then calmly make things clear, you will leave a stable and impulsive impression on the listener, thus increasing others' trust in you.
2, small things, humorously said
In particular, some kind reminders, said in a joking way, will not make listeners feel stiff, they will not only accept your reminders, but also enhance their intimacy.
3, uncertain, cautious.
For those things you are not sure about, if you don't say it, others will think you are hypocritical; If you can say it strictly, people will think you are a trustworthy person.
Don't talk nonsense about things that didn't happen.
People hate people who make much ado about nothing. If you never speculate or talk nonsense, others will think you are mature, educated and conscientious.
Don't talk nonsense about what you can't do.
As the saying goes, don't make porcelain without Jin Gangzuan. If you don't promise what you can't do easily, you will make the listener feel that you are a man of your word and will be willing to believe you.
6, hurting people, can't say.
Don't use words to hurt others, especially between close people. Don't say anything that hurts others. This will make them feel that you are a kind person and help to maintain and enhance their feelings.
7, sad things, don't see people say.
When people are sad, they all have the desire to talk, but if you talk to others, it will easily make the listener feel too stressed, suspicious and alienated. At the same time, it will give people the impression that they don't think about others and want to pass on the pain to others.
8. Be careful about other people's business.
Everyone needs a safe distance, and not commenting and spreading other people's affairs easily will make people feel safe in communication.
9. Do your own thing and listen to what others say.
Listening to outsiders' opinions on your own affairs can give people a modest impression; Second, people will think you are a reasonable person.
10. Listen more and talk less about your elders.
Older people often don't like young people to comment too much on their own affairs. If young people talk too much, they will think that you are not a respectful, modest and studious person.
1 1, husband and wife, come and discuss.
Between husband and wife, the most feared thing is to blame each other, and to discuss with each other will have the effect of * * * love and enhance the feelings of husband and wife.
12, let's talk about children.
Especially adolescent children are very rebellious. Taking a gentle and firm attitude to enlighten them can not only make children feel good about you, but also make them willing to be friends with you, and can also play a role in persuasion.
Classic inspirational morning language:
1, trust is like a piece of paper, wrinkled, even if it is smoothed, it can't be recovered! Don't cheat others, because the people you can cheat are those who believe in you.
2. Later, I realized that only by earning enough money to make myself feel at ease can I live a simple, comfortable and free life and make myself more confident. So, spend more time and energy and less time being melodramatic.
3, the truth is understandable, but those who should complain will still complain, those who should scold will still scold, and those who should cry will still cry. After all, the pain in my heart can't be put down by reason. No matter how uncomfortable it is, life will continue. That is the reality. No mercy, no fight, no win!
If there is something wrong with your life, don't be dissatisfied and resentful, and don't be depressed and depressed. You have to face both blessings and disasters, and both good and bad will pass. Anger is to punish yourself for other people's mistakes.
If there is no one in your eyes, why can you rest assured? You are not a part of love, so why do you want to fight for it? But at the same time, remember, don't lose the person who has been with you because of novelty.
6. People who are stronger than you won't laugh at you, but people who are weaker than you will! The purpose is to make you as weak as they are. It's just human instinct to open your mouth and shout. It takes human wisdom to shut up and think hard.
7. Human nature is like this. Inferiority is showing off, and lack of love is playboy. Your ostentation can only prove your inner weakness. The more you know, the less you care, the more you experience, the less you complain, the more you are carefree and the more you are melodramatic.
8. The movie is so kind that people who missed it can always meet again. Life is different. Some people say goodbye and never see it again. No matter how old you are or what kind of personality you have, as long as you have the trait of trusting people too easily, you will have an absolute death hole.
9. Life doesn't look forward or backward, just live in the present, and there's nothing to worry about. Sometimes we feel that we live too tired, just because we think too much. You help others 100 points. When one day you are only willing to help him with 80 points, he will empty all your gratitude and would rather choose someone who only helps him with 70 points as a friend.
10, your kindness is like a candy to others, if you eat it, it will be gone; On the contrary, your bad, to others, is like a scar. If you leave it, it will last forever. This is human nature. Anything that can be explained thoroughly is basically put down. You know, the heart is unclear and even unspeakable.
A heartfelt inspirational classic good morning quotation to all those who are struggling!
1. Don't set your life goals too high. Look for one thing, devote yourself wholeheartedly with interest and enthusiasm, and you will succeed. In the face of difficulties and hardships, cowards sharpen their will, while brave men sharpen their will. Good morning ~
2. No matter how ambitious the ideal is, it needs a little effort; No matter how loud the slogan is, it also needs practical actions. No matter how grand the plan is, no matter how high the fighting spirit is, if it is not put into action, it will be a castle in the air after all. A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step; It's a long way to go, so let's start from this moment!
3. If you want others to enlighten you, stare at you, coax you, encourage you and advise you not to do it, then you should be pitiful! This is not chicken soup, this is reality. Good morning ~
The meaning of life lies in persistence in prosperity and adversity, and one's expectation is a kind of comfort and defense to fate. The past is always faint, and the road under your feet is far away, which makes the life you understand become a contempt for your troubles. Respect for all the hardships and praises from the opposite side, respect for the world, is to respect yourself. Respect for others is the truest principle of fate. To myself! Good morning ~
When you are young, you can earn if the balance is insufficient, you can charge if the power is insufficient, and time will not come back in a hurry. Pay more when you are young, don't compare, don't complain, don't care, pay more, because there is an effort to rely on yourself!
6. I am so tired that I want to give up, but after giving up, I will have nothing and I can't give up. Only by persisting and cheering for yourself can we go on bravely. Because, since no way back, we can only move forward bravely. Good morning ~
7. You have to force yourself to be better, because many bitches are waiting to see your jokes. So be hard on yourself and force yourself to work hard. Five years later, you will thank yourself for your efforts today and hate your laziness and inferiority. May you live deeply in a fickle world. Good morning ~
No matter how hard you try, you may not be appreciated. There are always people who think you are not doing well enough. In this case, what qualifications do other people's eyes have for you to give up your dreams and pursue a better self? Good morning ~
9. Never give up. Keep going, there will be unexpected scenery. Maybe it's not on the road you originally wanted to go, nor on the top of the mountain you originally wanted to climb, but another road also has the scenery of another road, and different peaks will have beautiful sunrises and embark on a new road.
10. Ma Yun said: Stupid letter, stupid work, stupid earned millions! Smart calculation, smart appearance, and finally become poor! Water that doesn't move is stagnant, and people that don't move are useless. People should have six actions: relationship depends on activities, team depends on activities, customers depend on activities, funds depend on flows, life depends on sports, and success depends on actions! What an inspirational passage, for all those who are struggling!
Good morning, your loved one.
1, having someone who knows you is the greatest happiness. This person may not be perfect, but he can read you, go deep into your heart and understand everything in your heart. The person who knows you best will always be by your side, silently guarding you and not letting you suffer a little injustice. People who really love you don't say much about loving you, but do a lot of things that love you. Good morning ~
2, every move, is a promise, will be seen by another person, in mind. good morning
When I build a heart wall, it's not because I don't want you to come in, but because I want to see if your love is strong enough to destroy this wall. Good morning ~
I thought there was only love or no love before, but now I know there are other things besides love or no love. Not that I don't love it, not very much. This is the emotional life of most people.
In this life, the sufferings of people when they are young are just a springboard. The hardest thing for people on the springboard is the inner struggle and helplessness before taking off. I hope all the burdens will become gifts, and suffering will light up the road of confusion in the future.
6. One of the signs of a person's maturity is to understand that 99% of what happens to him every day is meaningless to others.
7. There is always someone in this world who is your yearning and your warmth. Even if she is not far away, as long as I think of her, I will always feel practical, practical and confident. Even the surrounding air has become certain.
8. Sometimes, you love someone very much, but that's just your own business, just like a one-man show. In the end, the most touching person is himself. However, what does it matter? Didn't you choose it yourself? You have chosen, no matter how hard, tired and painful you are, you are not qualified to say regret.
9. Sometimes we are unhappy because we care too much about other people's feelings. A criticism, a small matter, is in our hearts, let the outside world control our feelings.
10, the years are extremely beautiful, because it is inevitable. Flowers in spring, moon in autumn, snow in summer and winter.
The person I like is not young, and neither am I. But I support him no matter what he does. I buy and listen to his records, and I go to see his movies. One day he doesn't want to live his life in front of the public. I wish him happiness. Originally, he did not belong to my world, but he gave me so much. Maybe he will never remember me, but so what? I only remember.
12. If you always stand by and accompany you when you are in trouble, you will cherish it. Some people wish they didn't know you at this time and cleaned up everything in the past. Only love can have the same responsibility, and I can't wait to stand in front of you immediately to block those right and wrong and harm for you.
13. In recent years, many things have disappeared like shadows, such as youth, hope, happiness, self-confidence and tenacity. But I believe that all this will disappear briefly and will reappear tomorrow. I use faith, work and gratitude to integrate them into every ordinary day.
15, if you want to make life play its greatest role, don't spur him or sharpen him, but treat him like the south wind.
16, if there is no equal love in the world, let me love more.
17, if we love someone, we love him as he is and don't want to influence him, because once we succeed, he will be different. I would rather give up this lover than change him, whether it is kindness or control.
18, sometimes, we are not waiting for anyone or anything, we are waiting for time. Wait for time to change yourself.
19, believe me, maybe one day, you will have a new understanding of those unforgettable past events: fortunately, it was not you who accompanied me to the end. Good morning ~
20. Be kind to yourself. You don't have to always expect to exchange hard work and sacrifice for love. You can love yourself first. Love yourself and others, and love will not dry up.
2 1. Love won't last long until it falls into the real life of dressing, eating, sleeping and counting money. True love is not nervous, that is, you can burp, fart, dig your ears and have a runny nose in front of him unscrupulously; The person who really loves you is someone you can meet without washing your face, combing your hair and putting on makeup. -San Mao
22. Love is the existence of two people, and there is no room for a third person. Don't blame your boyfriend for being narrow-minded and your girlfriend for making a mountain out of a molehill. Love is single-minded, please remember. Good morning ~
23. Be a simple person, don't indulge in fantasy, don't be at a loss about the future, take the road today and live a good life now; Do not advocate prosperity, do not carve, be simple and practical to people, know how to choose and learn to pay; Don't bear the burden of your soul, don't pretend your spirit, let your steps be light, and let happiness exist forever; Don't be greedy for perfection, don't flaunt yourself, keep a low profile when you succeed, and be free and easy after you fail. Simplicity is the background color of our life.
24. True love, in the final analysis, has nothing to do with romantic feelings, but is clinging to the dull fleeting time, staying together in time, holding hands in difficulties and facing each other in old age. Although the road of love is far away, walking around it still feels very tormented. When you look back on the past, all the past events are just a light cloud, and the journey of love is just a flick of a finger. The essence of love is trouble and hardship, even if it is full of dust and danger, it needs sincere and silent protection.
25. None of us are perfect, but we must accept our imperfect selves. Comfort yourself when you are lonely; Give yourself warmth when you are lonely. Learn to be independent, bid farewell to dependence, and bid farewell to your weak self.
26. I wish I were just a child. When I gave a candy, I smiled; I cried when I fell down. Don't pretend that you don't recognize it, and don't suppress your feelings.
Marriage is a pair of shoes. No matter what kind of shoes, the most important thing is to fit; No matter what kind of marriage, the most wonderful thing is harmony. Don't compromise your feet just for the luxury of shoes. Others see shoes, but feel feet. It is a truth that feet are more important than shoes, but many people often forget it. -Bi Shumin
28. Life always likes to tease us. When you are desperate, a spark of hope flashes for you, so that you can't give up; When you are calm, you will suddenly get hit and make you unhappy.
29. Love is endless yearning for each other, lingering concern and willing tie. No matter how far apart we are, we can't help missing each other. However, at the moment of first meeting, his graceful figure has bloomed in your eyes. Miss, shuttle in time, pull my heart tight, pull tight, it turns out that miss is sugar, sweet and sad. Good morning ~
30. When you are injured, you will feel pain; However, one day, you will thank those who have loved and hurt you. All this is training. Then you will grow up, mature and wise. After crying all night, you will thank all the people who have known, loved, hurt and never been together. They created you.
3 1, smile can be given to anyone, but your heart only needs to be given to one person.
Always believe this and everything will change. No matter how traumatized you are, how heavy your heart is, and how poor you are, you should stick to it. When the sun goes down, it will rise, and the unfortunate days always have an end. This was the case in the past and will be the case in the future.
33. When one person walks into your heart, others will be driven out. This is love.
34. To maintain a relationship, besides hard work and sweet talk, we should strive to become better.
35. I observed that my peers, especially boys, began to degenerate because they were alienated from sports. Especially after graduation, they are too busy with work, entertainment and pleasure to control their diet. Three or five years later, the handsome teenagers in those years became fat, bloated and juryman-faced, which was really bad. Haruki Murakami said that the body is everyone's temple. No matter what is enshrined in it, it should be kept solid, beautiful and clean. I'm impressed.
36. Anyway, even if you show weakness, you won't get a hug. It is better to pretend to be strong all the time, at least look like a bully.
37. You are so mature and sensible that no one should love you.
The more you learn, the less you ask for help.
39. I used to think I could get along with many people and make all kinds of friends. Later, I learned that it may not be difficult to make friends, but it is difficult to become bosom friends. There is really a magnetic field between people. You can feel it by touching it. Some people can hit it off with you, and some people will never be friends with you. It's not bad, it's just a mismatch of magnetic fields. So I was really lucky to meet the right person. Thank you for meeting me.
40. Sometimes it's a beautiful word to feel that coming on schedule. I waited hard, but I never failed.
4 1, people who like you tell you that I took a shower, and then they will say that I have finished washing. People who don't like you say that I will die in the bathroom if I take a shower. People who like you tell you that I went to eat, and then they will say that I have finished eating. People who don't like you say I went to dinner and died on the table. People who like you tell you that I am asleep, and then they will say that I am awake. People who don't like you say that I went to bed and I will die in bed.
42. Don't care about people who don't care about you. Don't think about those who don't think about you. Don't worry about people who don't worry about you. Don't waste your time on a man/woman who isn't willing to waste their time on you.
43. Some people are very hurt and say, leave me alone, I want to die. Someone said with tears in his eyes, fuck it, I don't want it. Bite your teeth and stick to it, and the gains and losses may not be proportional. Giving up is a relief, but it may be too late to turn back. Persistence and giving up are not absolutely correct. I hate nothing more than one sentence, I have to; Nothing more than a word, I am happy. Zhang Jiajia
44. If it's just friendship, be friends if you can, and don't be too greedy. After all, such a thing as love is extreme, either for a lifetime or a stranger.
45. The air was fine and the wind was soft that morning. I suddenly want to go through several cities to see you.
46. I thank everyone who appears in my life. I know that they are all part of me and have made me who I am. Those who are still with me often come and go and keep in touch; Forgive me for being separated on the way, but I can only say goodbye to you in my heart. May we shine in the years when we can't see each other
47. It turns out that a person dreams of another person because he feels far away from that person in his heart.
48. If you want to find a boyfriend, you must find someone who is mainly, or you will lose your temper every day, or I will simply recognize you as my brother.
49. You must be a quiet adult. Don't be emotional, don't miss it secretly, don't look back, and live your other life.
50. Love is the difference of ideas. The happiest thing is that you called softly and I happened to answer it.
Good morning to the person you like.
We are all the same, everyone has his own light.
I once read a sentence: what others think of me depends on my own strength, but what I understand as real strength means: low-key, humble, peaceful and pragmatic, sincere and friendly, able to accept ridicule and discrimination from others, and make a career by relying on my own ability without publicity. Because after all, your contribution is not for others, and the evaluation of others is not necessarily your true self.
If you know too much and see too clearly, you will become an orphan in this world.
Everyone who shines has survived one unknown night after another, which is truly worthy of our possession and admiration.
The purpose of our busyness is often: to enjoy life, repay our parents, satisfy our lovers and be selfless; But the result of our busyness is often: we can't enjoy life, stay away from our parents, ignore our lovers and become selfish.
People often want to show themselves by discovering the shortcomings of others, but this shows their incompetence. The smarter and kinder a person is, the more virtues he sees in others; The more stupid and vicious a person is, the more shortcomings he sees in others. If you can give others steps, you also have steps. Give others face, and you will have more face. Covering up ugliness is a virtue, and doing good is good.
Sometimes, a madman gives up a fool for a liar. Leibo
Marrying a beautiful woman is just a man's instinct, which makes his wife beautiful and confident. This is a man's skill. Marrying a successful man can only prove that this woman has found a treasure, and the man who helped her is becoming more and more successful, but it can prove that this woman is a treasure. A good marriage achieves itself by creating each other, while a bad marriage satisfies itself by consuming each other.
It's good to let go of a worry. When I was in a hurry, I couldn't get over it, so I threw it away.
We always comfort others like wise men and torture ourselves like fools.
We are all the same, everyone has his own light.
I once read a sentence: what others think of me depends on my own strength, but what I understand as real strength means: low-key, humble, peaceful and pragmatic, sincere and friendly, able to accept ridicule and discrimination from others, and make a career by relying on my own ability without publicity. Because after all, your contribution is not for others, and the evaluation of others is not necessarily your true self.
If you know too much and see too clearly, you will become an orphan in this world.
Everyone who shines has survived one unknown night after another, which is truly worthy of our possession and admiration.
The purpose of our busyness is often: to enjoy life, repay our parents, satisfy our lovers and be selfless; But the result of our busyness is often: we can't enjoy life, stay away from our parents, ignore our lovers and become selfish.
If it's just friendship, just be friends and don't be too greedy. After all, love is either a lifetime or a stranger.
It's not luck to get good things in the end. Sometimes, you have to work hard in front to meet in the back.
There are only two possibilities of disappointment: choosing the wrong person or having unexpected expectations.
Life must be like a madman, so as to forget the ups and downs that life has given us.
I bought a book, flipped through it and never read it again; The following references are just posturing; Go to the library to play mobile phone. Go home and pretend to study. The biggest misunderstanding is that it is equivalent to learning to double the collection and sorting, which is completely different from investing in one thing. So don't always complain about why your time is invalid, but seriously think about how much energy you have spent on this matter.
If you are unhappy, let it go. It's okay to be sad, but it's not good to hurt your stomach
If you always consider whether others will laugh before and during telling a joke, your jokes will probably not attract laughter; If you always worry too much about the feelings of others, then what you do will deviate from what you want.
Life is like this, he is teasing you, but you take it seriously!
We are tired because we often wander between persistence and giving up. We are worried because our memory is so good that what we should remember and what we shouldn't remember will remain in our memory. We suffer because we pursue too much. The reason we are unhappy is that we care too much, not that we have too little, but that we care too much.
There are many things in life that can knock you down, but what really knocks you down is your own mentality.
I'd rather be lonely than against my will. I would rather regret than make do with it. Who can enter my heart, I will be king. I don't care about those who don't enter my heart. No matter how tempting life is, I am so determined.
No matter how good a person is, he doesn't want to go with you. He is a passer-by. A person has no shortcomings, but he can tolerate you everywhere and accompany you to the end. This is the end.
The person who will accompany us to the end is not necessarily what we like, but it will definitely be the most suitable.
Some good friends are really alienated unconsciously, and you don't even know why.
It doesn't matter where you stand now, what matters is the direction of progress; The best preparation for tomorrow is to do well today; It seems that there are many things that can knock you down, but only you can really knock you down; I didn't know until I worked hard: many things came when I insisted; Don't lose hope, you never know what surprises tomorrow will bring.
There will really be a person in the world who cares about you silently, loves you, but will never come near you again.
A woman who loves is always silly, treating her beloved boy as heaven, earth and the whole world, so when he leaves you, your own world collapses with him.
Life does not look forward, does not look back, only live in the present, there will be no trouble. Sometimes we feel that we live too tired, just because we think too much. Sometimes we make up our minds to do something, but we often fail in the end, not because our minds are not strong enough, but because we are too easily influenced by emergencies and lose our original direction. Hua
Life is too short to be indifferent. No one can predict the future so accurately. Happiness is a mystery. You ask a thousand people to answer, and there will be a thousand answers. Some people say: happiness is having a happy family; Some people say that happiness is a lifetime of peace; Others say that happiness is a lifelong health; Some people say that happiness means being happy every day.
Everything lost will come back in another way.
In this world, don't rely too much on others, because even your shadow will leave you in the dark.
Sometimes, I know something by chance, only to find that what I care about is so ridiculous.
Sometimes, stick to what you don't want to do most, and you can get what you want most.
You can't cry when you bleed, turn on the light when you are afraid of the dark, contact when you miss, be empty when you are tired, please when you are isolated, and miss home when you are weak. Don't be blinded by the present. After all, if you want to grow up, you have to go through the darkest road yourself.
Many things wait too long, often not what they originally wanted. If you get a cotton-padded jacket in summer, a cattail leaf fan in winter, an umbrella after a storm, and your hospitality after a cold heart, it will lose its original meaning. If you wait too long for the scenery and people you want to see, all your expectations will be exhausted. How can you make up for the lost years? Many things can't wait. If you wait, maybe things will change. Do what you want to do quickly, no.
Buy it, don't compare prices; Eat, don't regret; Love is love, don't be suspicious; When it breaks up, it breaks up. Don't slander it.
There are wonderful things in our life, and we can't live without desire, just like the sea can't help rising tide, which is a natural law. This world has no desire, is not interested in anything, and lacks enthusiasm, devotion and pursuit. What a pale picture of life this will be!
The opposite is coming, and the stranger is coming. Fate is always mixed with sadness and joy, mixed with sadness and joy, mixed with bitterness and joy, just like the trough and peach head, the withering in winter and the summer face, alternating with great waves and changing into greatness. Dull, persistent accumulation, there is always wonderful; When the road is exhausted, turn in time and the world will be wide. Don't care about temporary possession, don't fall into temporary sadness, grass will grow and flowers will bloom, everything is regular, and there is no need to deliberately.
You can trust others, but you can't count on others; Don't refuse kindness, don't stop smiling; Mistakes can be made, but they cannot be made again; Criticism should be accepted, and insult is absolutely unacceptable. What to say and what to be dumb is a kind of cleverness; It is wise to do what should be done and retreat what should be retired; The display of the show, the hiding of the hidden, is a state.