I collected the above pictures from the internet. Have you seen it? If a woman regards a man's mother as her mother in her heart, even if she doesn't think so in her heart, if you pretend to do so when you get married, it will be natural after a long time, because her mother-in-law has educated you into a good husband. If you really love your man, you should give up yourself for him. You are his favorite wife and his favorite mother. In this world, you are all his favorite women. If you have a bad relationship, it is your favorite man who suffers in the middle splint. For a long time, how can he work outside with peace of mind? As a virtuous and kind mother, you should also set a good example for your children! There is a saying that a thousand-year-old daughter-in-law will become a woman, and you will have this day!
I summed up the following suggestions, hoping to give some help to women who are confused in marriage:
There is a famous saying that treating mother-in-law as a child is one of the secrets of a happy marriage, that is, having a son as two sons (husband as a son) and a daughter as two daughters (daughter-in-law as a daughter), because there is no complaint about treating their children and parents. So as a daughter-in-law, can you sublimate this famous saying? Including the mother-in-law, old and young in the child's behavior? So your mind is much more peaceful. Of course, there is also a famous saying that distance produces beauty. Talk it over with your husband. Even if you have no money for the time being, you can rent a house outside. Try not to live with your mother-in-law. then what Why don't you usually bring your children and husband back to see the elderly? Again, even if you pretend, you have to pretend, because you love your husband, the favorite man you choose, and the father of your child. Since you have chosen this man as your life partner, you should love him more.
Even if you don't want to, praise your mother-in-law in front of her husband or outsiders, and say something nice about her mother-in-law when chatting with her husband every day. For example, the dishes cooked by my mother are so delicious. When you are free, take my child and me home to see her, and let her teach me by the way. I will cook for you when I come back! My husband will spoil my family and say that you are a greedy cat. Or did my mother teach me another trick to knit sweaters today? It was thorough. I learned it as soon as I learned it. My mother-in-law is so powerful that she knows so much and tells me many ways and means to deal with people. I feel so rewarding ~ my mother-in-law knows too much. Or talk more about your mother-in-law in front of your girlfriends and relatives. Don't feel useless. Someone will tell your mother-in-law these words one day. People's hearts are swollen. Can she not be moved by the way you defend her reputation outside? In an instant, your relationship broke the ice Of course, as I said above, the ultimate goal of doing these things must be to love your husband. Think like this often, and you won't feel pain.
Try not to tell your husband what to do, or even pretend to be pathetic in front of your mother-in-law. Even if you boss your husband around like an hourly worker at home, you should be diligent in front of your mother-in-law. You also said half jokingly: My husband always bullies you at home. Old people are compassionate, so make sure your mother-in-law is on your side.
In short, whatever you do, even if you are wronged in front of your mother-in-law, you should have a good relationship with your mother-in-law, because all this is for your favorite husband. It doesn't matter if you go home and take all your anger out on your husband. Husband will not be angry, but will only spoil you more. . .