? Confucius said, "There are three friends who benefit and three friends who lose. Friends are straightforward, friends forgive, and friends hear more, which is beneficial. "If you are friendly and soft, you will lose your friendship." It means: "There are three kinds of beneficial friends and three kinds of harmful friends. It is beneficial to make friends with honest people, honest people and knowledgeable people. It is harmful to make friends with flatterers, those who flatter on the surface but slander others behind their backs, and those who are good at rhetoric. ”

? Friends are not many, but two or three confidants are enough. What kind of people you choose to be friends, what kind of life you will have. Don't please, stay away from flatterers; Don't be secretive and stay away from people who are duplicitous; Don't talk glibly, stay away from people who talk glibly. Strive to walk with the wise and make yourself better and better; Try to associate with others and let yourself climb to the peak of life. High mountains and flowing water, bosom friends are hard to find Cultivate one's morality before making friends, but be careful when choosing friends.