However, which is more important, health or money, is often asked.
I recently read Bodo Schaefer's book "The Road to Wealth Freedom I". Bodo Schaefer talked about the enlightenment of his special experience to his psychology of seeking money.
Bodo Schaefer's father is a lawyer. In his spare time, he also helps some low-income groups to do some free criminal proceedings, which is known locally as "the free law firm for the poor".
However, when Bodo Schaefer was 6 years old, his father was taken to the hospital because of liver cirrhosis. The doctor told his father that he needed absolute rest and could not read.
Even so, no less than six people come to the hospital every day. The doctor said that his father was the most visited patient in the hospital. The reason for visiting their father is that these people can't afford the high litigation costs and hope to get free help from their father.
Because what Bodo Schaefer heard from these people seeking help was "money anxiety, money anxiety, money anxiety". Because of money anxiety, these people came to visit their father and asked for his help.
Through this special event, Bodo Schaefer hated poverty, feared poverty and aroused his desire for wealth.
However, eight years later, Bodo Schaefer's father died of illness, and his mother told him that his father was exhausted. Hearing this news, Bodo Schaefer shares everyone's thoughts, hoping that his body will not be too tired and he will become rich.
In the following days, Bodo Schaefer experienced a financial crisis and was heavily in debt. In desperation, Bodo Schaefer chose to seek wealth.
It was through two special experiences that low-income people turned to their fathers for help because of money anxiety and personal financial crisis that Bodo Schaefer aroused his determination to seek wealth.
Through Bodo Schaefer's early experience, I think that in real life, everyone may encounter desperate special circumstances. If you want to know which is more important, you have to put yourself in a special experience to see what you need more.
Of course, I also think that under special experiences, I will know that money is more important than health.
Why?
Weighing between money and health, I often hear people talk about it from the media and in my life:
If you have cancer, no amount of money will help.
If you have cancer, no amount of money can cure it.
(3) What's the use of asking for money if your life is gone?
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Here, I will take cancer as an example. If one day you get cancer, please think about three questions.
A, are you willing to give up treatment voluntarily? Will you beg to die right away?
B, is your family willing to give up treatment for you and have the heart to let you die?
C, did you escape from reality and abandon your family's heart? Do your family have the heart to let you leave them?
I can tell you for sure here: neither.
To tell you the truth, my father died of cancer, and it took one year and four months from diagnosis to death. He sent all these, and I summarized them.
First of all, from the depths of people's hearts, people's desire for survival is very strong at any time. The more desperate they are, the more they want to live. There's nothing wrong with that.
Secondly, no matter what, your family will not give up your treatment. Although they all know that no amount of money can cure you, they will still try their best to see a doctor, even if it can help you relieve some pain, that's good.
Finally, you won't have the heart to leave your family. No matter how hard it is, I hope to persist for one more day, even if it is one more day, and even hope to get better after persistence.
Put yourself in others' shoes. What would you do if your family unfortunately got cancer?
Then the problem is coming. You may say that you want to get better most at this time, so you think you need health more than money at this time, right?
That's right. How can you get health or reduce physical pain? Do you pray to the Buddha, or wait for your body to numb, or complain that others are in poor health and you are sick?
That's all wrong. These will only aggravate your illness and the psychological burden of your family. Therefore, in this special experience, the only way is treatment, which means that the most needed is money.
Therefore, I think: when you have special health problems, what you need most is not health, but money. Similarly, money is better than health and money.
So how do you understand the relationship between health and money?
First of all, I don't deny that if you have a healthy body, you can earn a lot of money, but if you don't have enough money, how long can your body be healthy?
Recently, the news that someone lost contact and was killed frequently broke out on the Internet, which made me have to think about something.
As early as a few years ago, Li Ka-shing's second son kidnapped his mobile phone screen online, which made Li Ka-shing reflect on himself. People like this don't have bodyguards.
Later, Li Ka-shing spent a lot of money to set up his own bodyguard team, and never heard of any safety accident in his home.
The establishment of a bodyguard team, like many domestic commercial coffees, is one of the best ways to prove that money is used to protect health. Imagine, if you have enough money and your own bodyguard team, will you still worry about the safety of people in a foreign land?
Besides protecting personal safety when going out, money can't predict the arrival time of physical illness. If you are not careful about minor illnesses or serious illnesses, you will fall in love with you (except terminally ill), and all of them can be cured with money. If you have no money, how can you get a healthy body?
Secondly, no matter how healthy you are, you need a house to live in, and money can just find your place to live, rent a house, build a house for you, and protect your healthy body from the wind and the sun. Money is not enough, how to meet it?
Moreover, if you have enough money, you will have more choices in your job choice, you don't have to engage in high-risk occupations, and you don't even have to worry about occupational diseases happening to you and your family. You don't have to worry about money anymore. You can give yourself a year's rest like Bodo Schaefer, do what you usually want to do but can't, and so on.
Seeing this, do you still think your health is more valuable than money when you face special experiences?
Nothing in the world is omnipotent, so are money and health.
We should all maintain a warm and loving attitude towards money and health.
Speaking of money, if you reach working age and are still in good health, don't stop making money on the pretext of health.
On the issue of health, we should not have extreme ideas, nor should we use money as an excuse to harm our health at will.
If you lose the balance between money and health, you should put yourself in a special experience and clearly judge what you need most under the special experience.
It is easier to find your own psychological needs under special experiences.
I am "Zhang Hao who talks about life", and I am committed to sharing what I have seen, heard and thought in the field of life. If you are interested, please pay attention to it to facilitate communication.