Do you think that after going to college and becoming a so-called college student, everything will be fine? Do you think that if you get a scholarship now, you will be excellent as a student cadre? Do you think you are still young and have a lot of time to splurge?
then you are too naive, too unrequited and too ambitious. Many people in the university are not ambitious, and how many people have lost the minimum self-motivation? Let's take a look at several types of people in the university.
1 confused
The typical characteristics of this group are that they are unwilling to be ordinary and unwilling to work hard, and they are in the majority in universities.
They will feel uneasy after wasting their time, and confusion becomes an excuse for them to appease their lack of efforts.
I want to say that you are not confused, you are just too lazy. The lazier you are, the more confused you are. The more confused you are, the more lazy you are.
They often say that they are confused and don't know what to do.
when others give them suggestions and tell them what to do, they are still indifferent, which is not laziness.
such people generally live a miserable life, unwilling to be ordinary and unwilling to change, and live in anxiety and entanglement every day. This kind of mood is really uncomfortable at all.
but fortunately, at least you still have a little self-motivation, which is a good thing.
Actually, all you need is a brave start. Push yourself, make up your mind to change, and just move on.
Let me give you a little advice. Getting up early in the morning and running at night is the best start for a person who wants to change.
2 quitter
This kind of person is also very simple. Anyway, I am decadent and completely give up myself. The typical feature is that it is really easy to go to college, and what I think about every day is what I should play.
Playing games, watching movies and TV shows, watching variety shows, skipping classes, failing classes, leading a muddled life and giving up on myself completely.
I have several classmates who are like this.
Some people watch TV series one by one in bed every day, and they have to wait for others to come back for dinner. Some were completely swallowed up by the game. After the computer was finished, the mobile phone continued to play, and the university game lasted for four years.
Some people fall in love and talk about everything. After four years in college, they failed countless courses, and finally they didn't get their diplomas and degree certificates.
I want to say that depravity, like drugs, is addictive and eventually devours your soul.
after graduation, you will pay a heavy price for it, and the reality will beat you to pieces sooner or later.
I want to say to this kind of college students, grow up, your parents will be chilling to see you like this. I don't want to be looked down upon in the future, so it's not too late to make a change now.
3 conformism
When I was in college, there was a class of college students that I was envious of.
They get good grades, get scholarships every semester, get along well in the club, or do some part-time jobs to support themselves, which is considered excellent by other students. But after graduation, whether you are looking for a job or in your life, you will find that even this is not enough, and you may not live well. I have a classmate who is such a type, and his work and life are not ideal after graduation.
I attribute this kind of college students to the regular type, because I have seen a sentence before, which fits them very well: people who follow the rules will not starve to death, but the people who really live a wonderful life are those who are full of personality. Look at the reality, those who can surpass their peers, young and promising, which are not maverick. I want to say to this kind of college students, maybe you think you are very good at the moment. To put it bluntly, you feel good about yourself. You are still far from being good. Broaden your horizons and compare with people who are better than you.
It is suggested that while doing a good job in the present, we should get in touch with more new things, open our brains and think about what else we can do. Lei Jun has a famous saying that pigs can fly when standing at the tuyere, which means to learn to follow the trend. What's the tuyere at the moment? Try it.
where is the air outlet? You have to find out for yourself. Only by touching and trying more can you find out.