Don't take things too seriously;

Don't take things too seriously People who are too serious are often too stubborn and rigid, and it is easy to walk into a "dead end". Therefore, people don't want a road to black, so they will stick to it. There is no river that cannot be crossed, and there is no problem that cannot be solved. The key is to know how to turn. What you have is not necessarily the truth. When others hold different opinions, they may be right or have some truth.

People who are too serious may tremble when they speak, especially in front of leaders and powerful people. In the long run, they may consume the patience of the leaders and may not lose their jobs in the end. Because such people pay too much attention to the correctness of every sentence and ignore the consistency and logic of the answer, people feel that the words are not satisfactory. In fact, when interviewing people, we should try our best to present our own advantages in general, regardless of whether individual words convey our own meaning, so the effect may be ideal.

People who take others too seriously often have a black-and-white outlook on life and think they have principles. It is difficult for such people to have a more comprehensive view, that is, the gray area. In fact, there are few things in the world that are absolutely black and white and absolutely right or wrong. In most cases, it is between the two, that is, in the gray area.

Serious people are often too conservative. As Mr. Nan Huai Jin said, "The more conservative a person is, the more he has his own scope of activities. As a result, he became stubborn and clingy, and he couldn't get rid of it. It is what Buddhists call persistence. "

So, don't take things too seriously. "Some places are still sloppy." This requires letting go of stubborn ideas, letting go of yourself and expanding your spiritual space.

Everyone has feelings, and human feelings are the easiest to be selfish and persistent. Especially those who take life too seriously, everything that is related to him and he loves is good and right; He doesn't care what has nothing to do with him and what he doesn't love. Emotional persistence is the easiest to make mistakes, because emotion is a mask that covers the eyes and can't see others and the world. If you are too attached to feelings, selfish love, doting and wrong love will happen. If you can let go of your paranoia about love and seek justice and openness, you won't be too serious.

Don't be too serious, not to encourage a casual attitude, but to point out that things should not be too rigid, inflexible and rigid. But be flexible, turn a blind eye, and be careless.

I hope I can help you!