2。 Before getting married, we should look at the characteristics of the product, not his appearance, power and status, but his temperament. If you are not sure, you can't return it easily. You need to constantly clean, wipe and repair yourself throughout your life.
3。 Don't try to find a confidant of the opposite sex in reality, unless you don't care about your husband's jealousy and secular vision. Come online if you want to chat.
4。 Don't think back to when he was in love. He vowed to hold you as a princess. You have to understand that your position is nanny and chef. Besides cooking, taking care of children and mopping the floor, you also have smelly socks that can't be washed.
5。 Don't complain that he can never remember the size and number of clothes and shoes you wear. If the size he bought is fat, you can say that you have lost weight. If the size is small, you can say that you are fat. If it is really bad, it can be said that the clothing factory posted the wrong number.
6。 Never embarrass him in front of his colleagues and friends. Even if you gnash your teeth and smile like a peach blossom, you are a naive girl.
7。 When he is depressed, you should never try to get him to express it in words. Some words men don't want to say, but they prefer body language. You just need to give him a gentle hug or a silent kiss, or even a madness.
8。 Moderate attachment. Men like you to rely on him appropriately to satisfy his male vanity. Don't try to be better than him in everything. Maybe he worships you and is afraid of you, but he doesn't like you. You can't rely too much. He won't like carrying a drag bottle all his life. Love him as a father, love him as a son, respect him as a brother and kiss him as a brother.
9。 Never ask him: Do you still love me? In that case, he will send you to an insane asylum.
10。 Don't bring your grievances to bed, and don't try to punish men in bed.
1 1。 Don't fight with him when he is sober, you can't beat him. I was really angry, so I took advantage of his sound sleep and gave him a hard squeeze according to his thick skin! Even if he is pinched, he will only turn over and sleep. In case he wakes up, you can pretend as if nothing happened. After n minutes, repeat this action. Until you get over it. Nothing to say.
12。 Don't treat your family as your world. When you only care about thrift and hard work and become a yellow-faced woman, that man will only be bored and grateful and will never become love. The world at home is helpless, and the world outside is wonderful.
13。 You should have your own hobbies, personality and dignity. You have your own spiritual space. When he was away, you had a good time and lived a colorful life.
14。 Don't believe that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but believe that a wife is always someone else's good. This is an eternal proverb. Don't expect miracles to happen to you.
15。 Don't surf the Internet late at night unless your husband doesn't come home late at night. Otherwise, he will grab your ear, pick up your braid, and even cut off the power and unplug the network cable.
16。 Don't imagine that the man who knows you online must be better than your husband, but if you really want to marry him on a whim, he will scare away. Even if you don't run, once it comes to reality, women become mosquito blood and men become rice stains. Repeat another round of dullness and boredom. Since the emotion in the network is marginal emotion, let it exist on the edge of the network.
Humor teases women and emotions.
1, female: As long as you want a room but no room, diaosi who wants money but no money also wants to hit on me. Are you worth it?
Diaosi: chinese odyssey. A dollar lighter can also light tens of thousands of cigarettes.
A banquet of tens of thousands of yuan is also inseparable from a pack of salt of two yuan.
2. The man said to the woman: Even if you want the stars in the sky, I will pick them for you!
The woman said: that. . . I want the sun?
M: Yes. . . Uh, you lie down first. . .
Chatting with my girlfriend last night, she said it was so cold there.
I asked how cold it was.
My chest is freezing, she said. . .
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Humor teases women and emotions.
1, research shows that women's ability to drive in smog is higher than that of men, which is because they usually drive without looking at the road!
2. The feeling of loving someone is that you care about everything, but you can forgive everything.
3. I saw a couple make a scene because of a little thing, and suddenly felt that being single was not bad.
Do whatever you want. . . Except for the girlfriend.
If you want to chase a girl, send her a late message every night and go to bed early.
Stick to it for three years at most and you will succeed. If you want to break up with a girl, call her every morning and get up early.
Stick to it for three months at most, and you will succeed.
To unmarried friends.
We can't force marriage to be the purest crystallization of love. However, in the face of such an important choice in life, the differences in thoughts may make you regret it for a lifetime.
Dedicated to unmarried people who are married or about to get married:
The first wrong reason for getting married ── Degrade to get married and get married for the sake of getting married.
The second wrong reason to get married-running away from home.
This is a common mistake made by girls. In order to get rid of an unhappy family, or escape from control and yearn for freedom, girls often get married to achieve their goals. In fact, this is an illusory false independence. Blind date is just jumping from one fire pit to another. It is just a naive dream to fly out of the house and think that getting married is to change a way of life and start a new life.
The third wrong reason to get married-on the orders of children.
You'll be surprised at the frequency of this old story, despite the convenience of contraception. Although the version of the new era is slightly different, when a woman threatened her husband to get married, she bravely became an unmarried mother, but it was still a new bottle of old wine, although the other party was just a stallion. I'm afraid I'm stuck in someone else's heart, and I'm stuck in myself.
The fourth wrong reason for getting married-disobeying parents' orders.
No one can deny the magic of love, but whether parents think their children are too young or children choose inappropriate lovers, they may cause strong rebellious psychology. Especially the rebellious parties, often resist for the sake of resistance. However, I want to remind you that this may be the most dangerous and worst time to resist parents' opinions.
The fifth wrong reason to get married-marry a rich man and find a rich man.
Women find a golden mountain to lean on, who can say it's not good? Everything is money first, even if you seek money, I'm afraid other aspects may not be satisfactory.
The sixth wrong reason to get married-just because he is handsome.
Everyone loves handsome men and beautiful women, and the power of beautiful women is invincible. It can be a great tragedy that everything else is lacking except beauty. In addition, don't forget that the depreciation rate of appearance is high.
The seventh wrong reason to get married-for sex.
Believe it or not, men are more likely to be victims of sex. Men often marry women who are not their favorite, but women who are restrained by sex.
The eighth wrong reason to get married-because I am lonely.
Modern people are fearless and afraid of loneliness. The reason why men and women are so entangled is because of loneliness. It is better to fight and kill people than to be alone.
The ninth wrong reason to get married-seeking security.
A sense of security can't be given by anyone but yourself. Think about it. I am willing to give you a shoulder to lean on, but I don't want to. What can you do?
The tenth wrong reason for getting married-getting rid of being single.
Many women still don't believe that both late marriage and non-marriage can become mature choices. The urge of biological clock, social pressure, fear of becoming an older woman and other factors will make people get married in order to break the single situation. The most ridiculous thing is that a woman told me that even if I get divorced after a week of marriage, I have to get married once.
The 11th wrong reason for getting married-wanting to be a bride.
Is it too exaggerated? However, there are indeed many such absurd women who regard marriage as a procedure. Making up, taking photos and feasting are not only fun, but also can realize the bride's dream. I didn't know that many of them had only been princesses for one day.
The twelfth wrong reason to get married-love must get married.
In fact, love doesn't have to get married. Modern people have many opportunities to fall in love in their lives. Just like beads, each one has its own perfection and elegance.
Thirteenth wrong reason to get married-because of age.
True love will not determine your happiness because of your age. If you don't choose a partner who can make you fit in life, personality and soul because of your age, won't you fall into the grave of true love again? You have to live this boring life every day. That's just living in prison, which is the most common mistake girls make.
Five golden rules for finding a lifelong partner
A relationship teacher put forward five golden rules to evaluate the prospect of long-term marriage success.
When you want to choose a lifelong partner, no one will make the wrong choice. However, when the divorce rate is as high as 50%, you will know that many people have made serious mistakes in choosing their other half. When you ask many engaged couples why they want to get married, they will definitely answer: We love each other! I believe this is the first mistake people make in dating. Choosing a lifelong partner must not be based solely on love, which may sound incorrect, but it has profound truth.
When the other ingredients are right, love will come. Love is not the only foundation of marriage, but it is the result of a happy marriage. I repeat: love alone can't build a lifelong relationship. You need more. If you are determined to find and have a lifelong partner, here are five questions to ask yourself.
Question 1: Do we have the same goal in life?
Why is this so important?
If you have been married for twenty or thirty years, it is a long time to live with someone. How are you going to spend this time? Eat together, run? You must share something deeper and more meaningful with him or her, and you must have the same goal in life. Two things will happen in marriage: you can grow up together or grow up separately. 50% people grow up independently. To succeed in marriage, you must know what your bottom line is in life, and then marry (or marry) someone just like you.
Question 2: Do I feel safe when I share my feelings and thoughts with this person?
This question concerns the quality of your relationship. Being safe means being able to communicate openly with this person? Good communication is based on trust, and I believe I will not be punished or hurt for expressing my feelings and thoughts. A person to whom you are afraid to express your feelings and thoughts. Be honest with yourself! Make sure you marry someone you feel emotionally safe with.
Question 3: Is he (she) an admirable special person?
The meaning of this question is: Is he (she) a noble and sensitive person? How do you test him (her)?
Here are some suggestions:
Do they use a general foundation as a method of personal growth?
Are they serious about improving themselves?
Someone who always strives for the upper reaches and does the right thing. So ask your partner: How does he or she use his or her time?
Is he or she a materialist? Usually, a materialist will not put improving his character first.
There are basically two kinds of people in this world:
One is committed to personal growth, and the other is a person who pursues a comfortable life.
Those who aim at a comfortable life will put personal enjoyment first. You must know this before you walk down the red carpet with him or her.
Question 4: How does he (she) treat others?
The most important thing to promote interpersonal relationship is the ability to give. Giving is the ability to make others happy. See if this person is willing to pay? Think about what he did to those who didn't need to be nice to him. For example: waiters, bus drivers, cleaners, etc. How does he treat his parents, brothers and sisters? Does he appreciate it? If he doesn't appreciate the person who gave him everything, don't expect him to appreciate you. Will he gossip about others? A gossip never knows how to love others. You can be sure that they are not good to others and will not be good to you.
Question 5: Should I change this person after marriage?
Too many people make this mistake in the hope of improving their spouses after marriage. One of my colleagues explained: You may want someone to get worse after marriage. If you can't fully accept him (her) as he (she) is now, then you are not ready to get married. To sum up, the dating stage should not be difficult and dangerous. The key is that you should think more and eat less snacks. When you are dating, ask as objective questions as possible that will help the whole thing.
Blessing message for women
1, you are like a soft cloud floating in front of my eyes, and your beautiful face is rippling with a beautiful smile like spring. In your big bright eyes, I can always capture your serenity, your enthusiasm, your intelligence and your sensitivity.
2, the beauty smiles and turns to the stars, without applying natural beauty, bright and beautiful, such as beautiful flowers and water in leisure, and weak movements. Like a light Yun Zheyue, like the wind flowing back to the snow.
You walked into the living room from the outside with a bunch of laughter. Your elegant manners, delicate and pretty face, charming and decent manners, elegant and generous speech, casually wearing a red sweatshirt, are so beautiful, so enthusiastic, so simple, and an unspeakable affection suddenly rises in my heart.
You are like a soft cloud floating around in front of my eyes, and your beautiful face is rippling with a beautiful smile like spring. In your big bright eyes, I can always capture your serenity, your enthusiasm, your intelligence and your sensitivity.
5, green willows, how can you compare with your hair; How can green ripples compare with your eyes; Sometimes, I stare at your Zhang Yuzhao at the bedside and feel that the whole world is immersed in beautiful spring scenery forever.
6. Spring flowers and autumn moon are scenes praised by poets, but I think it is very common. Only your smile embedded with pear vortex is the most beautiful idol in my eyes.
7. You came to me slowly: a brown-green spring shirt with white lace on the neckline; Dark green pants, two pants like knives; Milky white high heels, ah, Jane is really a graceful and sad statue!
8. If you are surprised, if you are Youlong. (Cao Luochi Shenfu,
9. I want to sublimate a short poem about your love into a long life essay.
10, receptive, aloof, sweet and sincere, with soft and delicate skin and well-proportioned bones. (Du Fu is a Taoist,
1 1, who noticed that Yue girl with a white face, humble and poor, was alone by the river, washing silk? . (A song by a girl from Luoyang by Wang Wei,
12, hibiscus is not as good as beauty, and the water temple is fragrant. (Wang Changling Nishimiya autumn resentment,
13, if it's Zhi Tao in three spring, it's chrysanthemum in nine autumn. (Back to the sixty-eighth dream of red mansions,
14, the rising sun in the morning glow will burst into waves if it burns. Smile and expect. (The Book of Songs. Feng Wei. Shuoren,
15, Beauty is drunk and Zhu Yan is drunk. Song Yu evokes the soul, beauty covers the present, and lotus flowers are ashamed. (Li Baishi,
16, there are beautiful women in the north, peerless and independent. Take care of the city first, then the country. (A song by Li Yannian,
17, you are the goddess of ivory carving, generous, dignified, gentle and quiet, which makes men deeply admire you.
18, although you are slender and petite, you are very powerful and truly spiritual!
19, increase one point is too long, decrease one point is too short, powder is too white, vermilion is too red. (Song Yu, a lothario,
20. You are a bit like the moon in the sky and a twinkling star. It's a pity that I'm not a poet, or I'll write 10 thousand poems to describe your beauty.
2 1, your graceful charm, charming and pretty face, charming and decent manners and elegant and generous speech made me sit up and take notice from the beginning.
22. Princess, in my heart, you are a dragon and a phoenix, noble and elegant, generous and decent, beautiful and intelligent, brave and kind.
23. The way you smile is the most touching. Two thin lips are smiling, long eyes are smiling, and the two dimples on your cheek are also smiling.
24. You skipped in. A red coat with a tight belt looks so light and vigorous, just like a red cloud floating in the sky.
Actually, the first time I saw you was in a photo. In the photo, you are holding your chin and staring thoughtfully. That tenderness, that beauty, that charm, let me unforgettable for a long time.
26, waterfall-like long hair, elegant dress, standard oval face, smart almond eyes, that kind of steady and dignified temperament, no matter how naughty people see you, they will be careful.
27. From a distance, I looked at your back. Your black hair tied behind your head with a big red ribbon is like a waterfall pouring down from a mountain stream at the foot of a quiet mountain.
28. Spring flowers and autumn moon are scenes praised by poets, but I find them very ordinary. Only your smile embedded with pear vortex is the most beautiful idol in my eyes.
Actually, the first time I saw you was in a photo. In the photo, you are holding your chin and staring thoughtfully. That tenderness, that beauty, that charm, let me unforgettable for a long time.
30. The orange suit is naturally open, revealing red and white sweaters and lake blue tights, which set off slender legs, which are both sloppy and beautiful. Your costume is a success!
3 1, I found you at a glance in the crowd. I dare not say that you are the most beautiful among them, but I dare say that you are the best among them. Handsome figure, elegant and charming manner, especially raven hair, have an indescribable charm.
I don't know how to express the strongest and deepest impression you left in my heart. Is it your plump and tall figure? Fair skin? Dark and deep eyes? Small and rosy lips? But there is still an indescribable and elusive instrument that stirs my heart.
When the wind blew your hair dry, I was simply fascinated: in the shiny shawl soft hair, in the faint eyebrows, in the clear eyes, you are so beautiful!
34. Women are beautiful because they have a good mood; You are handsome because you are confident; The reason why you have temperament is because you have excellent self-restraint; I'm telling you because you have everything. I wish the perfect woman happiness.
35. Beautiful women are ashamed of themselves in front of you, handsome men are willing to die under your pomegranate skirt, children are kind and warm when they see you, old people are young when they see you, patients will be healthy immediately when they see you, and even disabled people will be blind and see the light again because of you.
36. Gentle women are gold, beautiful women are diamonds, smart women are treasures, and lovely women are famous paintings! According to research, you are the biggest treasure in the world, full of gold, diamonds and famous paintings!
37. Waterfall-like long hair, elegant dress, standard oval face, smart almond eyes, that kind of sedate and dignified temperament, no matter how naughty people see you, they will be careful.
38. Angels register beautiful women in the world and send them to God for reading. After reading it, God ordered: Send a message to the kindest, most capable, smartest and most beautiful woman! Let her be young, happy and beautiful forever!
39. You walked into the living room from the outside with a bunch of laughter and casually wore a red sweatshirt. Too beautiful, too passionate, too simple, an unspeakable love suddenly rose in my heart.
40. You are so beautiful, like a lyric poem. You are full of girlish innocence and youthful elegance. What impressed me most was your clear eyes like a lake, and your long flashing eyelashes. I like asking, caring and greeting.
4 1, in all fairness, although you are far from the image expected by smiling, you have fair skin, slim figure and regular facial features, which makes you look delicate and feel like a lotus. The moment I first touched you, I strongly felt that you exuded a wonderful gentle atmosphere.
42. You are like a soft cloud floating around in front of my eyes, and your beautiful face is rippling with a beautiful smile like spring. In your big bright eyes, I can always capture your serenity, your enthusiasm, your intelligence and your sensitivity.
43, green willows, how can you compare with your hair; How can green ripples compare with your eyes; Sometimes, I stare at your Zhang Yuzhao at the bedside and feel that the whole world is immersed in beautiful spring scenery forever.