thus, the significance of mother is great, and the education of mother is great. In legend of miyue, Mi Yue and Mi Shu, two sisters, have their own experiences and the way of bringing up their sons, which basically determines the future success or failure of their sons.
In legend of miyue, Mi Yue and Mi Shu's experiences and the way they brought up their sons basically determined the future success or failure of their sons.
Miyue, who has been unlucky since childhood, has suffered hardships and experienced the warmth and coldness of human feelings. With her intelligent talent and high emotional intelligence, if she is given a fulcrum, she may be able to shake the whole era. Mi Shu, a princess of Chu, was born carefree and out of touch since childhood. After she first entered the State of Qin, she soon gave birth to a winner. However, she had a very low emotional intelligence because of her pampering. Obviously, she was sure to win, but she destroyed the Great Wall.
Comparison of educational methods
Miyue's education of her son, Win Ji, can be described as well-intentioned. Through words and deeds, he not only taught poetry, books, manners and music, but also taught him how to be a good emperor.
1. Listen to the speech widely, and concentrate on analyzing the topic of the dispute between Han and Shu left by the King of Qin, so that after winning the millet and winning, we can express our opinions on attacking Korea or cutting Shu. Mi Yue's practice is: take Ji Ying to the Sifang Pavilion, listen to the debates of the counselors from all sides, and let Ji Ying identify their own advantages and disadvantages.
2 Think independently and make bold decisions. The King of Qin sent Win Ji and Win Swing to the Sifang Pavilion to listen to the counselor's remarks, and finally decided to attack Korea or attack Chu. Mi Yue told Ji to win "No matter what others do, Ji Er can't be wrong as long as he bets with his own heart". In the Sifang Pavilion, Win Ji spit out the honey beans that Zhang Yi "bribed" him, for fear that eating his food would affect his judgment. The king of Qin asked the reason why Ji Ying supported the felling of Shu, and said that Ji Ying's way was a surprise. If everyone knew the way, the enemy must know it.
3. Calm and serene, the mother and son were stranded in the miserable land of the Yan State. When they met the Prince of Yan, despite the chill, Miyue "stood upright, with no disorder in manners". When Ying Ji saw her mother, she also endured the cold and "held her head high". Even if a maid sent a hand warmer, he politely refused, because "I dare not lose my manners in front of you."
4. I have a taste for courage, and I have a wide range of friends.
Winning millet is living in Yan, poor and uncertain. However, Miyue told him an inspirational story about winning Zhong Er's foreign country and becoming a hegemon at the end of 2 years, while taking him into the market to make friends with righteous people and pay attention to people's livelihood, and quoted Laozi to educate Ying Ji: "Jianghai can be the king of a hundred valleys, so he can be the king of a hundred valleys by taking advantage of it."
5 guard against arrogance and rashness, and be prepared for danger in times of peace
Winning Ji became the king of Qin Zhao, and I was the only one, and my psychology expanded. Miyue poured cold water at the right time, making King Zhao kneel in front of the door to reflect: "(The former queen) didn't bridle the wild horse on the throne, which eventually ruined everything ... I can't let Zi Ji's heart swell with it ..."
Miyue and Miwa have different vision patterns, one is devoted to the world, the other is addicted to harem trivia.
children learn from their mothers, and they are pampered with their mothers. They lack learning ability and innovative thinking, pay attention to some details, and have no broad vision and pattern. However, if you win the millet, you will be diligent and eager to learn. Anyone who pays attention to asking a why and looking at the problem in the long run will gather sand into a tower and turn small advantages into huge advantages. Finally, you will have the pioneering thinking and ability, and you will also have the high vision of a king of a country. Comparison of educational achievements
Mi Yue's son won Ji, becoming one of the longest reigning monarchs of Qin State-King Qin Zhaoxiang. The era of King Zhao laid the foundation for Qin to unify the six countries, and it was the most important decisive era for Qin. Behind Zhao Wang's outstanding achievements, it is closely related to his mother Mi Yue's godson.
Yiwa's son won, and Qin Wuwang has only been in office for three years. This monarch is tall, strong, brave and belligerent, but his IQ is not too high. He broke his neck and died of excessive bleeding because he competed with Wu Huo and Meng Ben to lift the tripod.
There is a famous saying: A great winner must have a great mother. In fact, losers don't break out of cracks in the stones. Raising children without teaching is like raising pigs. But the question now is not whether mothers want to teach, but whether they have the ability to teach. Many women, before becoming mothers, have problems with their own literacy and world outlook values. These problems go deep into the blood and become educational genes, which have a decisive impact on the growth of children. An open-minded and cheerful mother, and a stingy and selfish mother; A diligent and intellectual mother is completely different from a lazy and shallow mother who leads and educates children.