every college student is full of longing for the future. Everyone hopes that they will make great achievements and achieve success in their careers after graduating from college and realize their life value.
The so-called life value refers to a person's position and role in society. It is a philosophical category. The value of life is different from the value of goods, which includes the value of existence and the value of activity. If a person wants to realize his own life value, he must correctly understand and grasp the relationship between existence value and activity value.
As a special group, college students have both the general attributes of the existence value and activity value of ordinary people in society and their special attributes. In the whole learning stage of university, it mainly reflects the existence value of college students in society. College students enter the society after graduation. Their life value is mainly reflected in their responsibilities and contributions to the family and society. Therefore, the life value of college students is the perfect unity of social respect and satisfaction for individuals and personal responsibility and contribution to society.
first, the importance of a scientific world outlook for college students to realize their life value
A scientific world outlook is to learn to analyze and study the objective world and solve many problems in the objective world with Marxist standpoints, viewpoints and methods. For contemporary college students, only by establishing a scientific world outlook can they truly understand the meaning of life, arrange their own lives scientifically and reasonably, correctly handle and treat many practical problems in life, realize their own life value and make outstanding contributions to human social progress. Although Marx lived in a different era from ours, his fundamental view of the world, from the understanding of life and the pursuit of life value, will always be an example for contemporary college students to learn.
Second, the guiding role of ideals and beliefs for college students to realize the value of life
Ideal is the general goal of life struggle and pursuit. The lofty ideal is like a beacon of life, which always leads the direction of college students' success. The stronger a college student's pursuit of ideals, the greater his motivation to realize the value of life; The clearer the goal, the higher the probability of success and the greater the contribution to society. The lofty ideal also needs the support of firm belief, even if it encounters great difficulties, it can overcome many difficulties and obstacles to reach the other side of victory. Ideals and beliefs not only affect the whole growth process of college students, but also affect the realization process of college students' life value. It is particularly important to help college students set up lofty ideals and strengthen their beliefs.
Third, college students should organically combine the realization of personal value with the creation of value for society
People have social attributes. All personal activities cannot be separated from society, and so can college students. From this perspective, the value of college students is the unity of self-value and social value. The meaning of life lies in struggle and creation. The process of struggle and creation is the process of realizing self-worth. In real life, people often attach importance to their own value and pursue the realization of their own value, ignoring the important content of creating value for society. Some people even mistakenly believe that the value of life lies in taking rather than creating, and the more you take, the greater the value. This view is extremely absurd, because individuals exist in society and their needs cannot be separated from the supply of society.
only by organically combining the process of realizing self-worth with the process of creating value for society can a person truly realize his own life value. This is why some people have made extraordinary careers in ordinary posts, while others have been doing nothing all their lives and even headed for corruption and illegal crimes.
Fourth, ways to realize college students' life value
The higher a person's life goal is, the better. But what's more important is to be realistic. Be brave and good at starting from the basics. Start from little things. If you go too far, you will often accomplish nothing. College students have begun to realize their self-worth in college, such as the summer volunteer teaching activities organized by the school and the activities of going to the countryside through science and technology. Although the time is short, it is of great significance for college students to enter the society after graduation and choose the ways to realize their life value.
In p>25, CCTV organized the "People Who Moved China in 24" selection activity, which made us know Xu Muyu, a graduate of Huazhong Agricultural University. He chose to volunteer to teach in primary schools in poverty-stricken mountainous areas of Guizhou Province. His deeds caused a tremor in the hearts of college students and touched many college students. There are many ways for college students to realize their life value. Only by integrating one's pursuit of life value into the torrent of social needs can one truly reflect his existence value and make his own contribution to society.
A sacred temple in ancient Greece, with such a warning written on the doorpost as soon as it entered the door: "Discover yourself!" If you want to realize your life value, you must be yourself! This is the first step to self-realization. Only by reaching the state of self-realization can we get happiness in life, peace of mind and inner richness. Self-realization means finding yourself and surpassing yourself. Self-realization means full, active and absorbed experience of your own life. Self-realization means knowing your life choices.
Li Ka-shing said: "Life has its ups and downs, and everyone should learn to endure their own sadness. Only in this way can you realize what success is and what real happiness is."
The most powerful thing is Nietzsche's sentence: "Be yourself!" .
"We don't imitate, because we are role models for others". If we can set an example in our life and work and become an example for others to learn, it means that we have achieved a certain level in our life and work. Even if I can't reach this level, "being myself" is the basic embodiment of realizing my life value.
Self-realization is neither selfish and narcissistic, nor a deliberate pursuit of perfection, so-called perfection. No matter in the workplace or in life, a person who pursues the realization of his own life value should have the following personal qualities:
1. Know yourself and accept yourself.
People with low self-esteem look down on themselves, narcissists value themselves too much, egomaniacs can't face up to themselves, complacent people ignore their potential selves, egotistical people lose themselves, self-indulgent people abandon themselves, and suicide people can't accept themselves. All these are unable to correctly understand and accept themselves. In order to realize the value of self-life, we must first carry out inner dialogue, open our hearts to ourselves, listen to our inner impulsive voice, and understand our true self: what kind of person I am, what kind of emotional tendency I have, where I am going, what my life mission and responsibility are, what advantages and disadvantages I have, and so on. See yourself clearly, find yourself unique in this world, and accept everything that belongs to you unconditionally, so that you can find your life value and then realize your life value.
second, accept others and living environment.
a person who strives to realize his own life value will inevitably seek to be in harmony with the interpersonal relationship and living environment around him, and will not be influenced by external factors, and at the same time, he will strive to turn all external factors into factors conducive to his own growth.
A cynic feels that he has hit a wall everywhere, and no wind direction is downwind for him, because he puts himself on the opposite side of the environment. A person who looks at others everywhere is not pleasing to the eye. Everything is his fault to others. Don't believe him even if he is full of integrity and kindness, because he has blinded his eyes. In the workplace, people who can accept others, act with empathy, are open-minded, have good interpersonal relationships, and are good at absorbing the advantages and strengths of others, so they are easily appreciated and promoted by leaders. In life, people who are good at accepting others can establish more comfortable social and personal relationships and gain a deep sense of happiness in life.
Maslow made a vivid metaphor: children look at the world with their eyes wide open and innocent. They only pay attention to and observe what the facts are, and they have no arguments or demands on him. Self-actualizers also look at their own and others' humanity in the same way. Imagine how many negative emotions such as accusation, resentment, dissatisfaction and hostility will be avoided in our lives if we can look at others and the world with children's uncritical eyes!
third, the natural expression of behavior.
a hypocritical, pretentious and juggling person can't find his true self, let alone realize himself. Therefore, a person who pursues self-worth must be frank, pure and natural in his behavior style, without affectation and disguise. There is a famous saying: "If a person can show himself in strength, he will never make a fuss about skills." If you dare to face your true self and your inner strength is strong enough, you don't need to dress up deliberately. The more petty bureaucrats put on airs, the more peaceful and natural the real leaders are; The more self-abased a person is, the more arrogant he pretends to be, and the more rich he is, the more he is afraid that others will look down on him. The sea is silent, who will doubt its depth and vastness? Mount Tai stands tall and straight and doesn't care about other people's feelings, who dares to call it true? Being true to yourself, daring to face the strengths and weaknesses of your own humanity, and being honest with life are the only way to realize yourself.
fourth, have keen insight, appreciation and creativity in real life. Love life, love the world, love the people around you, love your work, and keep the appreciation fresh, and gain insight into the meaning of ordinary life, so as to experience the value contained in life. The value of life is reflected by the results of one stage, and the results of one stage will become the process of realizing the next. The value of life is the synthesis of results and processes. Everyone has to fall in love, but it is inevitable that they will be lovelorn; Everyone wants to get married, and divorce is inevitable; Everyone wants to live a wonderful life, but no one can escape the inevitable outcome of life. Do you think the result is important or the process is important? If we only focus on the process and don't get results, just like people who are in love will never get married, it will be a love fig after all. If we only focus on the results and ignore the process, we will lose the wonderful experience of the life process and never feel happy. Therefore, the value of life lies not only in the wonderful process, but also in the realization of the result, which is the re-creation of one's original life.
5. Clear objectives, responsibilities and missions.
without a clear value orientation and life goal, it is impossible to realize one's own life value. There are many discussions about life goals and responsibilities. I just want to emphasize one point: life value is life goals and life responsibilities. Every time you take responsibility, it is the realization of life value, and the self-life value is realized through the accumulation of life bit by bit.
6. the characteristics of detachment and independence and the need to be alone.
The biggest psychological problem facing modern people is that they are losing their ability to think independently. Information has flooded every aspect of life, and the online world has become an increasingly popular way of life. Modern people rarely have time to sit down quietly and think about their own worries. Some people's psychology has become very fragile, and they can't stand being alone for a moment. Many people are addicted to the internet, and occasionally cut off from the network world, they are at a loss; Some people's habit is to turn on the TV the first thing when they come home from work, expecting a series that they can't watch all their lives. If the electricity is turned off occasionally, it will be like ants on hot bricks. In the past, people used to take a few books or diaries with them on business trips, but now they ask the hotel if they can surf the Internet, have coffee or chat. Many people can't find themselves in the prosperous and rich lifestyle. Although they often call for themselves, they often look for their own position in other people's frame of reference, rather than looking into their own hearts to discover their potential selves. A person who loses himself will not think and find out where his life value lies, and how can he realize his self-value?
Independent thinking ability is the most important personal quality to realize the value of self-life. Being able to enjoy life instead of going with the flow, endure a little loneliness, enjoy occasional loneliness, think deeply in the way of self-cultivation, cultivate self-cultivation, and always reflect on yourself, which will light a bright light on your heart and inspire your unlimited potential and value.
Self-worth refers to a person's virtue and knowledge ability, which is also called intrinsic value. If a person's knowledge comes into full play, his abilities are brought into full play, and his virtues can be brought into full play, and his virtues can Hui Ze others and have a good influence in society, then he will realize his external value, and he will have a sense of accomplishment, a sense of happiness after his self-needs are met, and his psychological feeling is that he can simply realize himself.
since self-realization is the realization of self-value and the satisfaction of self-needs, it also determines the infinity of its body. Because as long as a person is physically and mentally healthy, through continuous learning, his self-worth will continue to increase, and his higher-level needs will never end. To achieve self-realization, we must fully understand ourselves, strive to climb constantly, and combine with the whole society and the times to establish a correct outlook on life and values, so as to give full play to what we have learned, known, able and created. As the external environment on which self-survival and development must depend, society should be a just, fair, open and transparent maker and defender of the rules of the game, so as to create equal opportunities for everyone to compete. If so, no member can realize himself, and the whole society and nation will be more brilliant.
a thousand miles away begins with a single step. Only when you have an ideal can you have a goal. Let's start from now on, from bit by bit, and move forward step by step, which is the only ladder to realize our self-worth.
College students are the best among their peers, the reserve force of high-tech talents in the future, and the relying force to realize the four modernizations. Their ideological quality and correct values are directly related to the rise and fall of our country in the future.
Self-worth refers to a person's morality, knowledge and ability, also known as intrinsic value. If a person's knowledge is put to good use, his abilities are brought into full play, and the virtue he has developed can Hui Ze others and have a good influence on society, then he will realize his external value, and he will have a sense of accomplishment and a sense of happiness after his self-needs are met. At this time, his psychological feeling is self-realization, that is, the realization of self-value. Simply put, self-realization means feeling good and happy.
Since self-realization is the realization of self-value and the satisfaction of self-needs, it also determines its own infinity, because as long as a person is physically and mentally healthy, through continuous learning, his self-value will continue to increase and his higher-level needs will never end. To achieve self-realization, we must fully understand ourselves, strive to climb constantly, combine with the whole society and the times, establish a correct outlook on life and values, and give full play to what we have learned, known, able and created. As the external environment on which self-survival and development must depend, society should be a fair, fair, open and transparent tour.