There are many such cases in history: Gou Jian, the King of Yue, lived a miserable life, silently waiting for the opportunity to rise. Sometimes weakness is to accumulate strength bit by bit, take a rest, and then attack on a large scale while it is unprepared. Sun Bin played the fool when he was in danger, and then he was able to escape, and then he got revenge. Therefore, weakness is a brilliant wisdom, a necessary method for smart people to succeed better, and a more advanced way to solve problems. When encountering obstacles or when the time is not ripe, we should know how to take a step back, learn to show weakness, save your strength and accumulate strength, and then we can succeed in one fell swoop. There will always be difficulties and obstacles in life, and it will never be calm. We must afford it and let it go before we can go far. Therefore, only when you know how to show weakness in time can you become a winner in life.
People who try to be brave are good at covering up their inner vulnerability with a strong appearance and covering up the truth with lies. People who like to be brave are often sensitive and fragile, pretending to be themselves for a long time, and always regard self-esteem as more important than anything else. This posturing of pretending to be strong is actually very distressing. Because once someone really understands him and penetrates his inner fragility, he will be exposed and embarrassed. Therefore, you don't have to be brave or lie. People who know you will naturally know what you are. If you push your life too hard, you will not be happy. Be true, admit your weakness, and you will have armor to protect you. All, sometimes moderate weakness, will get more love and care in life.
if you endure, you will endure, and if you can bend and stretch, the road of life will get wider and wider. Being strong doesn't mean you can't cry, and weakness doesn't mean you are weak. Sometimes only by putting away the aggressive momentum and gathering the sharp edge can we really enter the hearts of the people. We often say: don't do everything, I want to see it in the future. If you encounter problems, you will be aggressive and push people into a corner, including yourself in the future. In love, moderate weakness is love, for the sake of family harmony; In dealing with people, moderate weakness is wisdom, for the sake of longer-term development. Being a man who knows how to give in is a kind of wisdom. Knowing how to leave a way out for others is to leave a way out for yourself.
men's weakness is more humble and elegant; Women's weakness is more lovely and real. Whether in life, work or feelings, it is both courage and trust to show weakness and rely on others appropriately. Don't be afraid to show your "weak" side, because no one likes people who are strong and aggressive everywhere. Weakness is the great wisdom of life, and it is also an advanced skill to communicate with people. With it, your life will be simpler and happier.