Communication depends on your own ears first, and listening is the most needed part of communication. Willing to listen to other people's worries or stories, be their ears, listen attentively, give more ears to others, and give less voices to others; Put "I" at the beginning of the sentence, the point of view is important, and the method is more important. ...

To give a very simple example, many people always talk too much when seeking to make others' views consistent with their own. If you don't agree with others, you may prevent them from refuting him, which will only lead to arguments or conflicts. Before other people's opinions are expressed, you should be patient, keep an open mind to listen, be sincere and encourage others to express their opinions. ...

The most common communication obstacle is: when others speak, they are eager to express their views.

Think about other things while others are talking.

When others are talking, compare your thoughts with others' opinions.

Habitually interrupt others' conversation

I'm interested in topics I like, but I don't care about things I'm not interested in.

Focus on the conclusion, but ignore the process and details.

There is a famous saying: the best way to persuade others is not with your mouth, but with your ears, so talk less and provide more opportunities and space for others; Communication also needs attitude and body language, including expression, intonation, tone and so on. ..

Be good at understanding and understanding anyone with sincere heart, even those who make mistakes have their reasons. To exercise good communication skills, they need to constantly improve their psychological quality and self-cultivation and so on. ...