There are so many first ladies in the United States, and Jacqueline Kennedy is undoubtedly the first among them. Even among the most outstanding women, she is still the top one.
Jacqueline has a universally recognized charm. Even de Gaulle, Khrushchev, and Nehru all fell under her pomegranate skirt and became willing ministers. But she doesn't have peerless looks, her facial features really can't stand scrutiny and criticism, and her figure isn't charming either. But it is this woman who makes people realize that the charm of a woman does not depend on her face. She is not a standard beauty, but she exudes unstoppable light and charm. Charm is something that is elusive and inexplicable. It does not adhere to specific standards, is intangible, colorless, indescribable, and indescribable. However, it shines brightly all the time, igniting joy and joy in everyone's heart.
Many people say: Jacqueline is not that good. She is just a refined egoist. She knows very well what she wants. All she pursues in her life is to live the best life for herself. Life only stops at the level of satisfying herself. Her charm is also closely centered around her goals and serves her desires.
This statement cannot be denied, it is certainly part of the truth.
Tracing back to the root cause is: Throughout her life, Jacqueline truly loved herself deeply. Because she loved herself deeply, she mobilized enough reason and sobriety before every major choice in life. This fate... Isn’t it that things are built layer by layer through selection again and again? And because she loves herself, she can start well and end well, and reach the pinnacle of power and wealth that she is obsessed with.
Of course, Jacqueline also had to pay a price. Kennedy had always been famous, and Jacqueline dealt with many of his affairs indifferently. Sometimes she would be generous when receiving harassing phone calls from Marilyn Monroe. The land is transferred to the husband. When Monroe deliberately called her to provoke her and told her about her close relationship with Kennedy, Jacqueline responded lightly: "Really? That's great, Marilyn, you will be the new owner of the White House, I will move out, all "The trouble is all yours." It seems like a careless understatement, but in fact, she is not so strong that she will not be hurt, and she is insensitive and unconscious. After all, she is a normal woman, and her emotions and marriage belong to women. She has a weak spot, but she insists on pretending to be strong and chic, turning this weak spot into a shield that can withstand wind and rain and is invulnerable to all poisons. When dealing with a cool person, you have to be more cool than him so as not to be bitten by pain. Kennedy's years of lovemaking, years of resentment and helplessness have snowballed in his heart. Even if he is as strong as Jacqueline, there will be times when he cannot digest it. In the middle of another late night when Kennedy did not return home, Jacqueline's happy face that she had concealed in front of others finally collapsed. It was not only her strength that had accumulated, but also her depression and pain. Jacqueline suffered a severe depression and was admitted to the hospital for electroshock treatment. Everyone has indigestible pain, but people who truly love themselves are better at blunting and eliminating pain, not being eroded and controlled by it, and staying on their own. Stupid people are prone to obsession, indulge in it, suffer deeply from it, and linger on it.
We all know the subsequent story. Kennedy died unexpectedly, in the arms of Jacqueline in full public view, and then his brother-in-law died in an assassination, and then his only son died in a plane crash. Everyone who was close to her died without exception, as if they were under a curse.
How many people cannot survive this sudden turn of fate, and how many people are waiting to watch how this farce ends. What's more, the heroine is the first lady who has always been extremely high-spirited and pampered. The fall from the peak of power to the cold current of unpredictable fate is enough to arouse the interest of onlookers from all walks of life. Jacqueline knew exactly what she wanted, and she almost never changed it throughout her life. She never seemed to let herself linger in pain for too long and would stand up quickly. ?People who are too rational are not cute, but they can always live better.
After experiencing one after another life changes, Jacqueline actually stood proudly in front of people as if nothing had happened amidst the rumors. Marrying a Greek shipping king, although this is a marriage where courtesy is more important than love, and form is more important than content.
People will always fall. Some people care about whether their posture looks good when they fall. Some people hope to get up as soon as possible after falling. Some people squat on the spot and cover their injuries and cry. Some people expect someone to lend a hand.
Jacqueline is of course the second type. This kind of person becomes more courageous the more frustrated she is. She will not belittle herself or compromise her own ambition just because of other people's words. She will do stupid things that make her loved ones angry and her enemies happy, even if it hurts her. Even though it hurts, it won't get back down. It will be used as a talking point by the spectators, but it will not be downcast in reality.
Zhuangzi said in "Xiaoyaoyou": To praise someone in the world without admonishing them, to criticize them in the world without discouraging them is to determine the distinction between inside and outside, and to argue about the realm of honor and disgrace. I like this state very much.
Whether she is the first lady and is put on the altar by fate, or she is tricked by fate and encounters changes, she knows very well what her obsession is. Throughout her life, her heart will firmly belong to Self, do not hand it over to others. How can the sparrow understand the ambition of the swan? How does the well frog know how to watch the sea? Whether the world praises her to the sky or tramples her into the dust with words and writings, it will not undermine her inner desires.
When he gets old, he washes away his brilliance and returns to be the editor-in-chief of a fashion magazine. He will devote his life to guiding the world, not for his livelihood, but for the joy of his heart.
Mo Dao Sang Yu night, the sky is still full of clouds.
A woman who lives such a sober life uses her reason and practical actions to realize what it means to truly love herself.