"Everyone has his hell." This philosophical sentiment comes from Sartre's famous saying: "Hell is other people."

If there are some words and deeds in others that he is not aware of and are very disgusting, and unfortunately the people around him may be people who follow the crowd, or people who are difficult to redeem him, then this disgust The phenomenon will continue and be difficult to change. If a bystander is very concerned about the environment and atmosphere, he may magnify every small evil and draw a conclusion that he cannot bear and accept. And at a certain point, this conclusion is completely right, but disgusting people He will never accept this conclusion. The bystander may hurt himself by doing this, but the person still doesn't know it and will hate the bystander for hurting his face. Human nature is hard to change, so it is better to return your mind to your own nature, improve yourself more, and hope that there will be less hell in you.

When you are improving yourself, you have no intention of paying attention to other people's boring things. After all, your time is limited and you also need to do things that are important to you.

Furthermore, human nature also has a kind side, and you only have one chance in life. It is best to have an optimistic and peaceful attitude, because it is unlikely that a person will do all bad things or all good things in his life. Whether bystanders or authorities, they also need to reconcile themselves, reflect on themselves, and then move forward anew.

If I don’t write down some insights at any time, then as time goes by, the insights may be lost.