Life is changeable and interpersonal relationships are complicated, so "mind" is not a bad thing for a person. Without thinking too much, it is impossible to handle interpersonal relationships well.
In our life, we often use the word "make the mind's eye" to describe some people's impure motives, so that the mind's eye, scheming and scheming all leave a derogatory image. In fact, "mind" is an IQ that a mature and steady person must have and a psychological detail that must be paid attention to.
0 1 As the ancients said, "If you harm others, you don't harm yourself; if you prevent others, you don't prevent others". Society itself is the mutual containment of interests, there are gentlemen and villains. There are always some malicious people around us who will be framed by villains or villains if they are not careful. Besides being careful of them, how long do you have to be "careful"!
Li Wei is a college student. In order to make ends meet, he found a job as a tutor. When he finished his first job as a tutor, the other party gave him 500 yuan. Because it was the first time to make money, he was very excited, took the money and turned away.
On his way back to school, he wanted to use the money to buy some small gifts for his roommates and share the taste of the money he earned for the first time, but in the shop, he was accused by the boss of being counterfeit. At that time, Li Wei was in a bad mood and blamed himself for being cheated carelessly. The theory of finding each other now may not be clear.
In the story, we can see that when a person is extremely excited and complacent, it is also the time when villains are most likely to take advantage of it. Therefore, don't be too proud at any time, be cautious and keep a clear head at all times, so as to achieve final success.
In our daily work, if your boss or supervisor has such and such problems for you, you need multiple "brains" to deal with them carefully.
When you meet a young leader, you might as well be careful, don't let the boss worry too much, and try to put the credit on his face and make him feel that he is a smart and wise person.
If you meet a leader who likes flattery, you might as well learn how to put in a good word. Sometimes "flattering" is also an art.
When you meet a leader with personality problems and dark psychology, you might as well learn to do things with one hand, leave evidence when necessary, and turn passivity into initiative.
To be a man, you should know that there are people who confuse right and wrong, people who obey the sun and disobey the yin, and people who are full of duplicity.
Society is a huge network of relationships. If people want to make a living in society, they must learn to protect themselves in a complex and changeable environment. In interpersonal communication, they should be more "minded", less angular, more smooth and approachable, and be able to cope freely in various occasions.
Of course, "scheming" is not only "scheming" and "scheming", but also includes how to think and how to think more than others. Therefore, a person should keep a few more "minds" in order to be comfortable in this society.
Zhang Yu, a college graduate majoring in mining, was assigned to work in a county coal mine. A few years later, the coal mine was on the verge of bankruptcy, and Zhang Yu was ready to bid farewell to her relatives and go to work in other places. One day, he happened to see a waste newspaper wrapped in a bag at a relative's house, which contained an article related to his county, so he took it home and read it carefully.
This article tells that the new leaders of this county attached importance to talents and promoted a group of young scientific and technological talents, among whom a food professional went to work in Shenzhen. After writing a letter of recommendation to the leaders of the county party Committee, he was recalled and promoted to the director of the County Maji Research Institute.
During his work in the Propaganda Department, he studied hard, read a lot of monographs on economic theory, wrote articles on economic theory for various newspapers and periodicals all over the country, and became a well-known contributor in the news and newspaper circles. Later, he was invited by four news organizations, and he chose one of them to become a full-time reporter. With some amateur donations, his income is considerable.
Life is a kaleidoscope, through which we can see our bodies, the images of others, opportunities and traps everywhere.
Life is like chess, and opportunities are like chess pieces. You can't just follow the wind and cross the river with chess pieces, but also let the chess pieces show their magical powers. Not only should we grasp the potential of each chess piece in our "mind", but we should also be a conscientious person in life. Only in this way can you lead everywhere and win everything.
For young people who have just entered social work and are not deeply involved in the world, they are often used by others unconsciously. How to keep a "mind's eye" and try to avoid this kind of thing, I outlined four suggestions for your reference:
We should draw a clear line of responsibility. When others are in trouble, it is right to lend them a helping hand at the right time. But to understand the consequences of doing so, you can't take everything unconditionally, which needs to be clear.
Distinguish the true from the false. In life, no matter what you do, you should deal with all kinds of people, be good at identifying, and be able to distinguish the truth from the words and deeds of people around you. Otherwise, if you are confused by false phenomena, you will be inadvertently used by others and regret it.
Mind your own business. The biggest difference between meddling and meddling is that the other party is willing to accept it in different ways. In life, many people are driven by blind enthusiasm and don't know what they should do or manage. Excessive "enthusiasm" is often avoided by people.
Leave evidence. At work, there is usually a lot of work to be delivered through the network. At this time, it is better to use the company's corporate mailbox to deliver paper documents, and it is also better to make a memo to avoid the loss of documents, so that everyone can express their opinions and be silly.
Life is impermanent, so you must always pay attention to your words and deeds in your life and work, and beware of being calculated. How long is a "mind's eye" in interpersonal communication, less angular, more rounded and approachable, and can handle it freely in all situations.