There is an ancient saying, I forgot whether it is the Analects of Confucius or the Disciple Regulations of the Three-Character Classic. It probably means that villains speak ill of people behind their backs, and gentlemen speak good things of people behind their backs. What is it?

A gentleman cherishes virtue, while a villain cherishes earth; a gentleman cherishes punishment, while a villain cherishes favor

A gentleman looks behind others, and a villain looks behind others

A gentleman does not avoid The beauty of a person does not speak of the evil of a person.

Confucius said: "A gentleman speaks with his deeds, and a villain speaks with his tongue. Therefore, a gentleman is above righteousness, and when he is sick, he retreats and loves each other; when a villain is above chaos, he loves each other, and he retreats." "Hate each other."

A gentleman promotes good in others, while a villain promotes evil in others