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Famous sayings and character examples about refusal
Rejection must be tactful, because no one likes being rejected; Be generous when rejected by others, because the person who rejects you always has his reasons.

-Wang Guozhen

Refusal is a right, just like survival is a right.

-Bi Shumin

I am also tolerant of people's slanders, rather than arguing. I am also insulted by people. It is better to cut it than to prevent it.

-Master Hongyi

You should not talk big too early, otherwise, if you have a memory, you will blush when you remember it in the future.

-Lu Xun

Tao Yuanming gave up his official position and lived in a quiet village, so he had an independent personality of "picking chrysanthemums under the east fence and seeing Nanshan leisurely".

in early November p>1934, Fang Zhimin was ordered to lead the Red Army's anti-Japanese advance team to the north, and served as the chairman of the Military and Political Committee of the 1th Red Army Corps. By the end of Anhui, the Kuomintang troops were heavily besieged and blocked, and they fought hard for more than two months, and were besieged by enemy forces seven times their own. He led the vanguard troops to escape from danger, but in order to meet the follow-up troops and rejoin the encirclement, he was finally captured in Longshou Village, Yushan, Jiangxi Province on January 27, 1935 because he was outnumbered. On the day of their arrest, two Kuomintang soldiers searched all over Fang Zhimin, but there was not a penny except a pocket watch and a pen. As Fang Zhimin said: "A poor, white and simple life is exactly where our revolutionaries can overcome many difficulties." In prison, he was upright and unyielding in the face of the enemy's torture and lure-in. On August 6, 1935, he died heroically in Xiashawo, Nanchang, Jiangxi, at the age of 36.

Yang Zhen, a native of the Eastern Han Dynasty, is a highly praised upright official. He was the secretariat of Jingzhou, and later transferred to Donglai Prefecture. When he went to Donglai to take office, he passed by Maoyi. Wang Mi, the magistrate of Maoyi County, was an official recommended by him during his tenure in Jingzhou. Hearing Yang Zhen's arrival, he quietly visited Yang Zhen in the evening and brought ten catties of gold as a gift.

Wang Mi sent such a heavy gift, on the one hand, to thank Yang Zhen for his recommendation in the past, and on the other hand, to ask the old boss to take more care of him in the future by bribing him. However, Yang Zhen refused the gift on the spot, saying, "An old friend knows a gentleman, but you don't know an old friend. Why?" Wang Mi thought Yang Zhen pretended to be polite, so he said, "Ignorant at night." It means who can know at night? Yang Zhen immediately became angry and said, "Heaven knows, earth knows, you know and I know. How can you say ignorance?" Wang Mi was so ashamed that she had to come back with a present.

Confucius took the initiative to leave the incompetent kings of various countries-eating coarse grains and drinking cold water, and sleeping with his arms bent as a pillow, which was also fun. Abundance and honor gained by improper methods seem to me like floating clouds; Wealth cannot be lewd, poverty cannot be moved, and power cannot be bent; The state has a good way, poor and mean, and shameful; It's shameful for a country to be ignorant, rich and expensive ...

Mencius doesn't bow down for ten thousand bells —— Fish, I want what I want: ten thousand bells don't argue with propriety and justice. What does ten thousand minutes do to me? For the beauty of the palace, the service of wives and concubines, and the poor and needy? The hometown is not subject to physical death, and today it is the beauty of the palace; The hometown is not subject to physical death, and now it is regarded as a wife and concubine; I don't want to die in my hometown, but now I want to do it for the poor and needy. Is it ok or not? This is called the loss of human nature.

Zhuangzi didn't go to the State of Chu to be an official —— 《 Zhuangzi Fishing in Pushui 》: Zhuangzi fished in Pushui, and the King of Chu sent the doctors to go first and said, "I am willing to be tired in China!" Ignoring the pole, Zhuangzi said, "I heard that there was a tortoise in Chu, and it was three thousand years old when it died. The king's towel was hidden in the temple. This turtle would rather die for the bone, rather than live and drag his tail? " Yu Yue, the second doctor, said, "I'd rather be born." Zhuangzi said, "Gone! I will drag my tail in the paint. "

Liu Xiahui sat still —— In the Spring and Autumn Period, Liu Xiahui, the state of Lu, met a woman who had no family at the city gate for the night. She was afraid that she would get cold, so she wrapped herself in clothes and sat around her all night, and there was no improper behavior. Describe men's decent style in gender relations.

zihan refused jade —— Fifteen Years of Zuo Zhuan's Xiang Gong: Someone in Song State got a jade and gave it to zihan. Zihan refused to accept it. The person who offered the jade said, "I have shown it to the jade craftsman. The craftsman said it was a treasure, so I dared to give it to you." Zi Han said, "I value not greed, and I value jade. If I value it with me, I will lose my treasure, and if people have their treasures."