1. Find a suitable excuse

Find some suitable excuses to reject the blind date. For example, you can say that your parents don’t agree, you don’t have the same topic, your height doesn’t match, it’s not you. Favorite type, etc.

2. Understand the basic information before going on a blind date

When the introducer (matchmaker) or parents arrange a blind date for you, it is recommended to ask them for information about the other party in advance and ask them directly. If the other person is not your type or inappropriate for other reasons, you can reject it directly.

3. Talk about some topics that the other person is not very interested in.

If you find it inappropriate after meeting, it is recommended that you talk about some topics that the other person is not very interested in, such as talking about yourself. Professional topics, talk about cosmetics.

If the other person tries to change the topic, you don't have to answer. This way the other person's enthusiasm will naturally cool down and the other person will understand that you are not interested in him.

4. Bring friends when you meet

What should you do if you have met a few times and find it inappropriate and don’t want to continue? You can bring your friends on subsequent dates. Your date will understand what you mean. If you are not interested in him, there will naturally be no subsequent dates.

5. Find an opportunity to explain why you refuse

If you have already expressed your refusal and your date continues to pester you and continues to ask you out, you can tell the other party tactfully and appropriately, own concerns.

6. Via text message

It may not be appropriate or embarrassing to refuse in person. It is recommended that you tell the other party by sending a text message. You can explain the reasons why you don't like the other person in the text message.

7. Use the examples of others to refuse

When you find that the blind date is not suitable, you can give an example during the chat. For example, you have a good best friend who is also on a blind date. I met a boy. Because they were not from the same family, they separated and were not together. If the person you are dating is smart enough, he or she will understand what you are trying to say.

8. Keep a distance

If you find that the other person is still stalking you after you express inappropriate signals, then you have to pay attention to your behavior.

Perhaps you think you have expressed yourself clearly enough, but the other party did not receive it. Every time your date asks you to hang out and you refuse, the other person will think there is still a chance. So it's important to keep your distance.

9. Don’t accept gifts from the other party

When you find that your blind date is not suitable and you cannot get together, if you don’t accept the other party’s gifts, the other party will understand your signal. So never accept gifts from others casually.