For men in their 40s, this range is too broad. To be specific, according to normal circumstances, when a man is in his 40s, various physical functions begin to decline. In life, he should have been married for more than ten years, his children are in middle school, his parents are in their 70s, his wife is basically the same age, and his parents-in-law are also in their 70s. In terms of career, if you work in a company, you should be a business backbone or a middle-level cadre. If you work alone, most of them will have a stable career and achieve something (big or small). If you are a man in this situation, then just calm down! It's okay to fantasize about it, but it's pure suicide if you put it into practice. That kind of stimulating sensory pursuit will not do you any good, but may destroy your existing happiness.
If your conditions are not as good as those above, you are still struggling for your career and life. Then don't carry any baggage with you. After all, in today's society, love must come at a cost. It’s better to work hard to make money while you’re still young!
If you are a man like Qiangdong, Yunxiang, Xiubo, etc. who has no worries about food, clothing and life, then if you want to fall in love, it will be difficult for anyone to interfere with you. After all, this environment still favors successful people. Much more tolerant. However, be sure to settle the accounts well, let alone capsize the boat in the gutter.
There is a famous saying: "Love is the eternal theme of literature." The reason is that love is the eternal core of human life. Whether a man or a woman, there is nothing wrong with pursuing a personal emotional life. Moreover, love has been the purest, most sincere, and rarest kind of spiritual life in social life since ancient times.
Love is different from simple marriage (simple marriage is a union between a man and a woman for the purpose of continuation of offspring. Before the 1960s, there were marriages brought together by "the orders of parents and the words of matchmakers". In the 1970s and 1980s, there were forced "marriage exchanges" and "marriage exchanges" in order to continue the relationship, and now there are marriages that only care about money and not feelings. The situation is different, but the core is the same - there is no emotional basis. "Indiscriminate love" that pursues physical stimulation is different from having an affair that destroys morality. Love is the simple and pure love between a pure man and a woman. It is distributed in different eras. From ancient times to the present, there have been poignant love stories about people who risk life and death for their feelings: Liang Zhu is like this, Meng Duan Lan Qiao is like this, and so is Zhang Sheng and Cui Yingying. Maybe you say, those are all fictitious stories. Yes, but at least there is this desire deep in people's hearts. Therefore, no matter men or women, no matter whether they are young or old, everyone has the right to pursue love. It has nothing to do with the times.