Now the devil boy is 14 years old and has grown into a handsome boy, but at the same time he has also reached adolescence and is a bit rebellious~

Anita Yuen and Julian Cheung can be described as "gods" in the industry They became a married couple. Their son, Mo Tong, has perfectly inherited the excellent genes of the couple. He has delicate facial features, big loving eyes, and a melancholic temperament.

The 14-year-old demon boy gradually formed his own personality. During his adolescence, he began to be a little rebellious. Even when his father Zhang Zhilin put his arm on the devil boy's shoulder, he would be very resistant and wanted to push his hand away.

Moreover, Julian Cheung also revealed in the show that his son was too rebellious in adolescence. The devil boy sometimes said to his father: "Don't touch me!"

However, Julian Cheung advocates free style in educating his son. Education made Anita Yuan very dissatisfied. She believed that the discipline of boys should be stricter, and the method of education became the biggest conflict between the couple.

As children grow up, they will actually go through adolescence and a rebellious period, especially the dangerous period of 14 years old, when they are easily impulsive and rebellious will follow.

Therefore, whether they are celebrity parents or ordinary parents, they must learn to guide their children correctly and help their children get through this dangerous period.

Many parents have discovered that when their children reach around 14 years old, they seem to have become a different person, who were originally obedient and sensible.

Being sensitive and suspicious at heart, unwilling to communicate with parents, always talking back and quarreling with parents, and academic performance has plummeted, and many bad habits have appeared... These are all dangerous phenomena of a 14-year-old, and they are also a sign of youth. Rebellious period

And 14-year-old children are particularly prominent in adolescence. They like excitement and happiness, but never care about safety. It can be said that 14-year-olds are in a dangerous period of growth.

But for children, the age of 14 is a turning point and a new starting point, from an ignorant boy to a mature young man.

The 14-year-old Napoleon began to read the works of Rousseau and Voltaire in military school, determined to conquer the European continent; the 14-year-old Zhou Enlai said the inspirational saying of "reading for the rise of China"!

Children around 14 years old are in the junior middle school stage, which is a critical period for their growth and learning. Parents must grasp and properly solve the various problems of their children's adolescence in the junior high school stage to help their children pass smoothly. .

1) Return autonomy and choice to children

The characteristic of Chinese parents is that they take over everything for their children, but children must follow their parents’ instructions. In behavior, the child's self-care ability is somewhat weak, and it is normal to listen to the parents' experience.

But for children entering junior high school, if parents still speak to their children in a commanding tone, especially if they speak in a single tone, it will only make the children more disgusted!

Therefore, parents must return autonomy and choice to their children, and get along with them as friends.

Sit down and listen to your children’s opinions. Even if you hear some answers that make parents dissatisfied, don’t refute them immediately, otherwise the children will definitely not talk to their parents again.

Only when parents and children have discussions can they understand their children’s true thoughts.

2) Parents learn to communicate effectively

In addition to learning to delegate power to their children, it is also very important for parents to learn how to communicate effectively with their children!

Many children refuse to communicate with their parents because their parents start criticizing their children as soon as they come up. How can children like to listen?

Therefore, parents must understand that even if their children make mistakes, criticism must be based on the facts and not mixed with personal attacks.

Some parents get so angry when they see their rebellious children that they even start beating and scolding them, which is the most taboo thing. Could it be that beating and scolding can make the children submissive and learn well?

It is impossible. The children will not understand the parents’ painstaking efforts at all, and will only become more rebellious and behave excessively! Therefore, effective communication is something that parents must master!