I often ask many parents if they will go to the temple to worship their mother-in-law before giving birth, and many parents will privately admit to me that they do. But after giving birth to the child, they refused to admit that the child was born by themselves and had nothing to do with sending his son to the empress and Guanyin Bodhisattva.

People are so interesting that they are infinitely kind when they ask for help, and then they will be written off. In fact, children are given by God, and God is nature. This is not superstition.

Now is the era of science, and no one will object to using science to explain that man is a part of nature. Parents come from nature and children come from nature. Everyone is sent by God. There is nothing wrong with your children, but they are not yours, but God's. Everyone belongs to God, that is, nature. This is very scientific.

In China, nature is God, and God sent this child to your home. Your child belongs to God, not to your parents. I think this view is very important. If the child is owned by parents, then parents can love him, give birth to him and love him to death. In fact, God told him to live and God told him to die, so we all belong to God, that is, nature.

Furthermore, children have the right to choose their parents, but parents have no right to choose their children. Why do you say that? Think about it, many people want to have boys, but they have girls; Many people really want to have girls, but they just have boys; There are still many people who really want to have children but can't. These are all facts. If parents can choose their children, then those who choose men will have men, those who choose women will have women, and those who want twins will have a pair. Actually, it's not. This proves that parents have no right to choose their children, but children are entitled to choose their parents. He was supposed to be your child, but he may have regretted it before he was born. He thought it was bad to choose such parents, and then you had a miscarriage. He was born with an accident and died. He won't care so much about you.

Children are the treasures entrusted by God to their parents, who have no ownership or choice. Children have the right to choose their parents, so as parents, we should open our hearts, welcome them and accept them completely. Furthermore, every child is an independent individual with an independent personality, and the living environment and lifestyle of each generation are different. If a child wants to pursue his own life, parents must respect him, tolerate him, don't push him, don't expect too much, and don't pin their unfulfilled things on the child.

You know, everyone comes to this world with their own mission. Finding the right parents for his children is to hope that parents can inspire him, guide him, cultivate his good living habits, teach him the truth of being a man, and the children will find their own way.