Most people are "dead" in their twenties or thirties! Because once people pass this age, they will only become their own shadows.
Life in the future is nothing more than imitating ourselves, repeating what I said, did, thought and liked in my youth day after day, and the way of repetition is more and more mechanical and outdated.
twenty to thirty? Fifteen to twenty-five Twenty to forty?
according to the definition of Japanese literature Yukio Mishima, youth is the psychological state of not getting something, so it forms a desire, a vision and a possibility.
Although there is much praise and fear lurking in front of me, there is still nothing. But in my fantasy, I feel that I have everything, and that is youth.
Youth has nothing to do with age; it has something to do with fear and calculation, and it has something to do with being comfortable and running away.
If you are only twenty years old, you have no illusions, and your life has actually lost your youth.
If you are 6, but you are still innovating, and you still want to change and embrace the lifestyle you want, you are still "young".
Many people have been following Zhang Ailing's famous saying: Be famous before it's too late, to show that young people must realize their dreams when they are young.
Just like there is a mainstream voice in the society now: how much savings a person should have when he is 26, a house of his own, a car, and a home and two children when he is 3.
It seems that only by this standard can we live a so-called defined successful life and get more respect from people.
because of this definition, how many people around us have reached the above age and still failed to meet the above standards with all their efforts. Life feels discouraged and pessimistic.
I think that no matter how hard I work in my life, I can't compare with my peers who have risen to a higher level. Later, I regretted that I didn't know how to fight for it in the past years.
in many people's values, only the house and car are the meaning that people pursue all their lives.
"Every time I see someone applying this sentence of Zhang Ailing, I wonder why?
Is Zhang Ailing's life great? Zhang Ailing's life is terrible.
how can you use the words of a person whose life is terrible as yours? Motto?
Zhang Ailing is just a great novelist. "
He also reminds everyone of one thing: those spokesmen on the Internet are often people who have the ability to control words, and those who have the ability to control words are usually young artists.
The life of young artists is often terrible.
So, don't trust people who often write things on the Internet. They just love to talk, not that they are very capable and have the right and wise words.
Many people who are silent have a good life, but they are not good at publishing articles on the Internet all day.
it doesn't make sense that dreams will all be settled at the beginning.
You should keep different fun in your life and get it done at different stages, then you will feel the fun of your existence.
What you need to fix is the present. If you have unfinished dreams, please don't worry, you can wait until the right age.
you will make it happen eventually, but it is important that you keep getting close to it.
Lin Huaimin, a famous writer and dancer in Taiwan Province, founded the Cloud Gate Dance Collection, which is deeply loved by the audience, and has toured hundreds of times in many countries and regions every year.
sometimes, we have an impulse and a desire in our hearts.
This impulse and desire can't be done for others. This desire is only because you really want it, really want it, really want it, and that is a determination that must be completed.
We all have dreams, but the world won't change because you have dreams. You have to work hard and make something valuable, and the world will slowly begin to accept it.
just do it, it doesn't matter if you don't do it well, you can adjust it if you don't do it well, and you can turn it off and start over if you fail. Experience can be accumulated, and if you don't do well, you can get better slowly, but you need to keep learning.
don't care too much about the outcome of things, but pay attention to the process and nature of things. You can't just sit there daydreaming all day, or just create an image of yourself to others in your circle of friends. But to really do it, even if you fall, you will know that it is wrong to do so.
It doesn't matter if you fail. You should know yourself from the failure, your weaknesses, and your strengths.
it doesn't matter what other people think of you, the point is that you should believe in what you are doing.
You can be braver. Being rejected is not a dead end. You can try again, as long as you don't give up, no one can force you to go anywhere, only you decide the way to go.
A lot of things are your thoughts, which have nothing to do with the external environment, your mind and ability. Everything is up to you.
farmers never complain about the heavy rain that drowned the poor harvest. At most, they just sigh, rearrange the fields and replant them. I never felt that anyone owed him or complained to anyone.
when a person has nothing, he can only go forward bravely, and it is useless to blame anyone. What you can do is to change yourself, do more and make your strength bigger.
Fangyi Xu: At that time, all the media and magazines said that you were the best, and everyone expected you to be on stage. Even the teachers who used to work in Martha Graham Dance Company told themselves that they all watched the performance for themselves.
but when the artistic director announced the list and order of dancers a few weeks before the performance of the season, there were obviously ten performances, and I only had two?
that night, I cried and called Taiwan Province's former teacher who worked in the dance company. The critics and the audience have a high degree of acceptance of themselves. Even the artistic director likes himself so much, but he just doesn't need himself. What is the reason?
At this time, the teacher comforted her. You don't need to ask the reason, and you don't need to ask the reason, because this is an unchangeable fact.
After the phone call, Fangyi Xu continued to cry.
when you wake up the next day, tidy yourself up and continue your class. My head suddenly opened that morning, and there was a voice telling her:
"I have fewer opportunities to go on stage today than others. What should I cherish?
what I want to cherish is the opportunity to go on stage every time. Maybe others can make mistakes eight times, but all my opportunities are only two.
I have no chance to make mistakes.
what I need is to accumulate strength, strength that I can't make mistakes. How can I accumulate it?
It is from now on, so I have no chance to feel sorry for myself.
what can you get by complaining and crying? There's nothing.
the only thing that can save me is myself, and the only thing that can save me is from now on.
I need to do my best every day, every training and every rehearsal.
Then let myself have almost no chance to make mistakes, and let the audience enjoy the last two performances, and I will also be very enjoyable. "
Fangyi Xu: It was selfish to take this road at first, because I clearly knew that I didn't dream of going to the garden for anyone, but I wanted to fulfill my promise to myself.
I have always known clearly that this road is mine, and this is my life.
I suddenly find myself unsatisfied. I think all the wonderful conditions are still not enough, but I don't know what I am dissatisfied with.
I know that I need more abilities, more desires and want to create new things. But I don't know what it is or how to find it.
So, I have to push myself to the wall. The only way is to cut all the security guarantees, which is all my backing. I know that I will encounter difficulties. I choose to let myself have no way out when I am in pain and want to turn back.
people have always been afraid of failure, fearing that everything they have done and paid will go to zero.
Actually, people don't know that many studies and accumulations are deeply rooted in your body.
Don't underestimate the body. The body has a memory, and everything will be hidden in your cells and bone marrow.
It's just that people underestimate all the energy and ability that can be stored in themselves.
instead of making much ado about nothing here, why not enjoy this moment? Give full play to yourself at that time and create greater beauty.
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Why do people need to read books often?
That's because our life is very limited. Reading can broaden people's experience and see what other people's lives are like. As soon as you have the opportunity to see what other people's people look like, you will cultivate the ability to pull away.
This kind of ability can make people get rid of the present pain and frustration and face failure more easily. This ability is to constantly explore other people's lives and accumulate enough confidence to know that I am not the only one living in this world, and there are countless possibilities to live.
Those may give us confidence. As long as we hold on long enough, one day, these failures and pains are just passing away.
-Cai Kangyong