Students or colleagues are all of the same sex, and the biggest feeling is the desire to contact the opposite sex. In this case, people will become impatient. If you don't have friends of the opposite sex, you should first reflect on whether you have personality disorder. If you don't, you should pay attention to language art and learn to communicate. Only by improving yourself in communication can you gain recognition from friends of the opposite sex, so that you can make more friends of the opposite sex.

1, the mentality is not sunny enough

Life will never be smooth sailing, and people who are not sunny enough are generally prone to frustration when they encounter setbacks. They don't know how to let go, and when they encounter setbacks, they will feel depressed, and this depressed mood will easily affect their friends around them.

In the law of heterosexual friends, men like heterosexual friends to be cheerful and generous, while women like heterosexual friends to be responsible and sunny. Such people who are not sunny in mind are generally not liked by friends of the opposite sex, so it is normal to have no friends of the opposite sex.

I believe that 1, people have 1, answers to how to live in this life. But most people have * * * knowledge, which is a happy life. Everyone doesn't want a friend who falls into the bottom of life immediately because of one thing and can't get up.

Friends get along more with each other to encourage each other to make progress, rather than being comforted by each other all the time. This kind of bilateral communication is very hot and exhausting.

2, timid at heart

Frank, an American writer, said, "If you are a coward, you are your greatest enemy; But if you are brave, you are your greatest friend. "

People who are timid in heart are generally weak in character due to family factors. The main reason why timid people have no friends of the opposite sex is that most of them have "social phobia".

It is precisely because of social phobia that they are afraid to make friends with the opposite sex. Maybe a normal look of the opposite sex makes their palms sweat. Compared with heterosexual friends, they prefer to hide at home and entertain themselves alone.

Most people who are timid inside are kind-hearted, but they have social phobia because of the stimulation of external factors. They are usually timid, and they are willing to retreat rather than show their faces when they encounter a little trouble. Even some people are used to rolling with the punches.

It's normal that people have no friends of the opposite sex because of their cowardice, or because people are eccentric and isolated.

3. Sloppy and not paying attention to image

Lu Xun once said that "dignified clothes and hats are the greatest respect for others", and many people like to say that not paying attention to appearance and having no connotation inside is a person's most important virtue. But how can you have a chance to show others your core competitiveness-connotation?

The image of appearance is the best business card a person can see at first sight. It will make a preliminary judgment when meeting your opposite sex friends at first sight. The first thing others want to know about you is your external image. If the external image is not good, it will leave a very bad first impression. In psychology, the importance of first impression is self-evident.

As Lu Xun famously said, you don't pay attention to appearance.