This sentence does not apply to everyone. No matter how marriage changes, it will always be inseparable from its original meaning. Two people who are not related by blood use a marriage certificate as a contract and agree on two surnames. So good, a hundred-year promise. No matter what the reason is for entering the marriage hall, it is a new starting point. When disaster strikes, we will fly away, or we will stay together forever, depending on our efforts.
Marriage is mutual. If you hold on to the idea of ????flying separately when disaster strikes, don't blame the other person for abandoning you when you encounter difficulties. You only want to get without giving, how can there be such a good thing in the world!
Many modern people are not good at managing relationships. They spend all their time playing games and watching TV, leaving very little time for two people to truly communicate.
Furthermore, the one-child policy has been implemented for thirty-five years. These children have grown up under the care of their families. They need wind and rain, and they are afraid of falling when they are held in their hands. I'm afraid it will melt if I hold it in my mouth.
Everyone has developed the habit of being self-centered. It is difficult to understand the thoughts of others and the situation of others. They argue when things happen, without considering the consequences at all, as long as they are happy.
So, before entering into marriage, you should establish a correct view of marriage. Don't think that getting married is no big deal and you can get divorced anyway.
Human beings are animals controlled by emotions. Although we often say that we must be rational, not many people actually do it. Therefore, if you want others to never leave you when you encounter difficulties, then first think about what you have given to the other person so that the other person will never leave you emotionally.
Don’t always lament the indifference of human nature and the futility of marriage when the other person leaves. In fact, human nature is not cold, it's just that you don't warm the other person.
Marriage is not the end, but the beginning. Try to stay in love after getting married, pay more attention to each other's mood and mentality, and don't forget to surprise each other during holidays.
Small concerns and surprises in marriage are quite inconspicuous, but it is precisely this little bit of intensity that will give people a sense of belonging in marriage and make the relationship between two people stronger. Gradually deepen. If the relationship is not good, they will fly away. If the relationship is good, they will live and die together.