Holidays are a "good time" for children to indulge in games. However, Yu Tao, a rural teacher in Pizhou City, Jiangsu Province, said that many primary school students are left behind, and they often live with grandparents or other relatives. Often, as soon as they leave school, they are completely "free to dominate", and some online games have become their favorite.
Parents are absent for a long time and often, making left-behind children fostered by other generations scatter "wild strawberries" on Yuan Ye; Lack of parents' care for "sorry", grandparents' foster care for their grandparents, "emphasizing teaching over teaching" and "improper teaching" will inevitably bring some "sequelae": left-behind children's learning situation is worrying, mental health is difficult to guarantee, moral education problems are prominent, and parent-child relationship is indifferent and distant. When the family hunger of left-behind children is not satisfied in time and effectively, it will create an emotional desert in the mind, and online games that take advantage of it will become the emotional sustenance of some left-behind children.
Weber, a German sociologist, famously said, "Man is an animal hanging on the meaning web he weaves". The game can bring the fun of exploration to the players. Based on the community recognition and clear immediate feedback, the players can feel that what they are doing is meaningful. Games have largely become a social way and channel for left-behind children to reconcile with themselves, communicate with groups and integrate into society.
Children relax once in a while, and there is no original sin. They must not indulge in it and stubbornly compete with themselves, other players and even machines. Some left-behind children who are addicted to online games give up their studies prematurely and lose an upward flow channel, which not only makes their lives more tortuous and difficult, but also makes their families suffer greatly.
Internet companies make the game addiction prevention system more "accurate" through technical means, and public departments, schools and parents enhance their understanding of children's online game addiction-only children in the initial stage of life will have more opportunities to shine in life.