Tu Lei in "The Defense of Love" is certainly a qualified emotional mentor. Tu Lei has always had a special status in "Defense of Love". Not only does he have a different seat than ordinary tutors, but he can also give very accurate evaluations every time, and unlike other tutors' euphemistic evaluations, he can always He points out problems very bluntly, and even directly criticizes people he can't stand. This straightforward character has also won him many fans.

First of all, Tu Lei, as an emotional mentor, has no doubt about his professional ability. Other mentors sometimes fail to see the root and essence of the problems between couples. They always talk at length but fail to find the key points at all. But when Tu Lei makes comments, he is always able to hit the nail on the head, and he will not save face for the guests at all, or make the people who made mistakes feel guilty. This style also gives the audience a good outlet for their emotions.

Secondly, as a tutor, Tu Lei can always think comprehensively when making evaluations. And unless the girl is too domineering, Tu Lei will usually stand on the side of the weak. This evaluation characteristic of hoeing the strong and supporting the weak is very special. Make people happy. Moreover, when Tu Lei makes comments, he often takes himself as an example and shares his life experience with the guests. This is also a skill of persuading others with virtue.