"Parents teach. First of all, parents should know that they should educate their children from an early age. When educating him, pay special attention to whether the child is listening to you attentively. We see the modern situation, which is almost the correspondence between parents and children. Parents say one sentence, and children may say three or five sentences. Parents don't talk about children, so the whole era has changed. Is it progress or retrogression? We should think deeply. How is this attitude of children formed? Since childhood, parents have not paid special attention to their attitudes when educating their children. If a person listens to his parents respectfully at home, it will be difficult to get in touch with others in society in the future.

Treat others with a pious attitude, of course, it is difficult to have sincere respect for the words of elders and leaders

So, "parents teach. We should listen respectfully. We should educate our children from an early age and listen to their parents' education with respect. How should parents teach him since childhood? We should cultivate his moral education thought and cultivate his respect and compassion. There is a very good book, which is very suitable for parents to tell their children. This is a moral education textbook edited by Mr. Cai Zhenshen in Huzhou in the early years of the Republic of China. This book selects the stories of filial piety, loyalty, courtesy and shame in history. You can tell him a story every day. From listening to the story, he can understand what "filial piety, faithfulness, courtesy, honesty and shame" mean. He can

Understand all these examples of ancient sages to educate future generations. Use these stories to explain the profound meaning of Disciples Rules to him. He not only loves to listen, but also has rooted these moral education ideas in his heart since he was a child.

Therefore, when parents give us lessons, we should listen respectfully and never "top" a word. If my father told us ten things when he scolded us, only two of them were true, and eight of them you think he misunderstood you, do you want to take him back at once? Don't! Because dad was angry when he scolded us, all you have to do is say "yes" at this time. My father is very angry, perhaps because of your obedient attitude. When he finishes scolding you, his mood will be flat.

And a lot, suddenly I think, I seem to scold my son too much. He may take the initiative to peel some fruit and say, "Come, let's eat fruit." . At this time, you should come naturally as if nothing had happened. Can you say at once: will you make up with me? Don't turn your family into a battlefield, follow the trend.

When your parents blame you, you don't talk back, you can accept your misunderstanding frankly, and your parents' respect and admiration for you will increase. The more your parents respect you, the easier it will be for you to communicate with your parents in the future. Who will he think I trust most? It's my son and my daughter. So "parents teach. You must listen. "

You know, our parents are much older than us. As the saying goes, "He eats more salt and walks more bridges than we do." Therefore, their teaching must be good for our body and mind and have positive guiding significance for our lives. If we can listen with an open mind and respect, it can help us to take fewer detours in life. If you ignore your parents, you will often suffer. As the saying goes, "if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer." . Parents really love their children, and they all want their children to be promising and successful. If we can listen to our parents, we will be blessed. "Parents teach. You must listen respectfully. You should not only listen, but also do it after listening and follow the instructions. This kind of listening will not be in vain. This is called listening. If you refuse to do it after listening, then

How can you ask Jing to listen! While listening to our parents' teachings, we benefit from ourselves. Parents' love for us is selfless, and we can listen to our parents' teaching. Our parents didn't ask anything of us, and we got the best wishes ourselves.

"Parents teach." We must listen to "not only the teaching of our parents, but also the teaching of all elders and people with virtue and learning, including the teaching of our ancestors and the teaching of sages such as Confucius and Mencius." After listening, you must do it, live up to the expectations of your ancestors for future generations, and carry forward Chinese culture. The most important thing to carry forward culture is people. Confucius said that "man can preach, but not preach", and man can carry forward a kind of Tao, an education and a culture, instead of.

This kind of education, this kind of culture has propped up a person, so the key is that people should do it. As descendants of the Chinese people and sons and daughters of China, we can still be respected and admired by people all over the world. Why? Because our ancestors have a tradition of 5,000 years and a culture of 5,000 years, they are admired by the world. As descendants, we are all moved by this light, so don't be arrogant and think that you are something. If we lie in the shade of our ancestors and refuse to follow the teachings, how can we be worthy of our ancestors?

"Parents teach. We need to listen ". We should treat all people as our parents, and we should listen to what they teach us and what others give us. "

We should accept it humbly and respectfully. If these opinions are correct, they can help us turn over a new leaf and make progress. We should be grateful to him because he can remind us to correct the wrong direction of life, which is of great benefit to us. Therefore, the people who can remind us are all our teachers. When we step into the society, who can always remind us? Parents, husbands, wives, teachers, friends, colleagues, leaders, neighbors and even unknown enthusiasts in society.

So if someone can give us advice, we as parents should be grateful to him. What shall we do if his suggestion is wrong, or if he deliberately finds fault and provokes? I

Children still have to listen respectfully and be modest and respectful to him. Why? What he said is wrong. If I don't have this problem and his suggestion is wrong, then let's not take it to heart. Since we are not at fault, we should be very calm. If he is wrong, it is his problem. What does it have to do with me? It's not my fault. Why bother? There is no need to argue with him. This is to punish yourself for other people's mistakes and make yourself angry. This is only for stupid people, and smart people will never do that stupid thing. Therefore, our attitude towards such people is "respect but not obedience". The so-called "gentlemen are far from villains" does not mean to stay away from villains, but to have the wisdom of life.

To judge good, evil, beauty and ugliness, we should all have the power to control all kinds of bad words and deeds and prevent them from happening to ourselves. Just like in the past, when someone told him his shortcomings, even if someone made a mistake, Emperor Taizong didn't mind, but would reward him. Other courtiers saw it and told the emperor that he told you that this shortcoming was wrong, and how did you reward him and punish him? Tang Taizong said, you don't know, if he is wrong, I will punish him, and then no one will give me any advice. I rewarded him for his spirit of making suggestions. A wise monarch with this kind of mind and wisdom will surely achieve great success. So "parents teach. We should listen with respect. "We do this to cultivate our shortcomings.

Huairuogu's sage character. As the saying goes, "the prime minister can ship in his stomach." Once we develop an open-minded character, we can break through all kinds of obstacles in life and run our brilliant life with a far-sighted vision.

Argument: Thank you, Mr. Chairman, ladies and gentlemen. Nowadays, many college students have not established correct life values. I am confused about which is more important, personal value or social value. The so-called social value refers to the contribution and responsibility that individuals make to meet the material and spiritual needs of society or others through their own practical activities, while personal value refers to the positive relationship between society and themselves as human beings in social life and social activities. People's social value and personal value are inseparable. But to judge which one is more important, we must judge which one can make people more valuable from theory and fact. We believe that social value is more important than personal value.

First, from the perspective of historical materialism, history covers all the past years, just like swimming in the sea, going out of the sea and diving into the bottom of the sea. Even if you become a flying fish and eventually fall into the sea, no one can surpass history, and history will move forward. This is inevitable. Personal value has a social history. A person's "realization of self-worth" has different meanings in different societies and times. The difference of meaning depends on the social evaluation standard of value, and any value should have its specific historical conditions and social background. Li Ka-shing's financial philosophy is to judge whether an individual's behavior is reasonable by the increase or decrease of the total social net worth. Life can't swim lying down-like some fish, you can't crawl-like some wild animals, you stand and walk forward. Stand on the branch of history and smile to get rid of the sad gesture that some people live only for personal airs. Only society is the only place for self-realization and personality development. Social value is of course greater than personal value.

Second, we are full of reverence and admiration for great men and heroes. They stand in our hearts in a sculptural manner, sprinkle sunshine and rain in our thirsty hearts, and provide brilliance and fragrance for lonely souls. For example, in ancient times, Qu Yuan took the country as his responsibility, Hai Rui took the people as the foundation, and Xin Qiji was patriotic. Their dedication and down-to-earth efforts in adversity are admirable. In contemporary times, Ai Feng went to the West to teach, which was fully affirmed by the society. Yang Liwei, Fei Longjun and Nie Haisheng are called heroes, because they have contributed to the rapid development of China's space industry with fearless spirit. This is the backbone of China. However, Jackie Chan, Jay Chou and Zhong Zhao have only made personal achievements, so they are only celebrities rather than great men. What is value? Contributing to society is the real value. A valuable life is a meaningful life. A meaningful life is a life that contributes to society and is recognized and respected by society. Heroes of these times have closely linked the realization of self-worth with social value.

Third, a person must actively participate in social practice if he wants to realize his own value. The practice of creating value is the fundamental basis for the realization of human value. The realization of human value and its degree depend on the comprehensive quality and social conditions of the subject. If a person's personal value is not manifested as social value, it will not be recognized by society and it will be meaningless. The process in which individuals constantly contribute to society and others is also the process in which personal values are constantly enriched, enriched and realized. We oppose individualism that puts personal value first. We advocate that the realization of human social value is the realization of the greatest personal value. A person who has no contribution to society is a person who has no value to society. Only when people realize social value can they realize personal value. Many people adhere to correct values, such as Zheng Peimin, Niu Yuru and Ren Changxia, which are outstanding representatives of adhering to correct world outlook, outlook on life and values. From their extraordinary deeds, we clearly see their spiritual strength and their shining life value.

Fourth, according to the ideological requirements of Theory of Three Represents, the values of life based on the fundamental interests of the overwhelming majority of the people should become the dominant values of the whole society, the spiritual pillar leading socialist ideals, morals and beliefs, and should occupy a dominant position in society. In the new historical period of reform, opening up and the development of socialist market economy, some people forget profits and righteousness, and money is supreme, falling into the quagmire of money worship, hedonism and extreme individualism values. If we seek self-value without social value, or seek self-value through unfair competition that harms society, this kind of self-value will not only be realized, but also fall into self-emptiness and even be eliminated by society. In the process of developing the socialist market economy, we see that some enterprises unilaterally emphasize their own economic benefits, that is, their own self-value, which is divorced from social values and even ignored, manufacturing and selling fake and shoddy goods, which harms the interests of consumers. As a result, not only their own economic benefits and self-worth can not be realized, but they will eventually be eliminated by society. In short, the essence of people's value lies in their contribution to society.

Goethe, a famous German poet, once said, "If you want to love your own value, you have to create value for the world." Einstein once said: "Only by making contributions to society can we find the meaning of short and risky life in practical work." Defining people's social value as contribution is a correct revelation of the essence of people's social value on the basis of Marxist historical philosophy's profound understanding of the relationship between people and society. An individual's self-worth must be based on his social value. Without social value, his self-worth will become a passive water, a tree without roots and an unattainable "Utopia". Young people are full of reverie and ambition and look forward to a bright future. This is the characteristic and advantage of youth. However, we need to understand that personal ambitions cannot be realized in isolation. Only by combining it closely with the people's requirements and serving the society with their own knowledge and skills can they fully realize their own value. So our view is that social value is more important than personal value.