Personality is an invisible "thorn" in a person, which will hurt others unintentionally, especially those who are close to his feelings. Because of her willfulness, the contradiction between her and her parents is temporarily irreconcilable and tends to escalate, which happened recently (she has always stressed that I don't know the background). She quarreled with her father for a long time. During this time, she didn't even want to say "dad". Her anger made her look ugly at home and her parents couldn't communicate with her. Although parents are almost overwhelmed by childishness, they are still worried about their children's situation at school. They called me the other day and asked me about her emotional state at school. I immediately had a question: how can you ask the child's emotional state for no reason at this time? I have just talked with him, and I know some recent things.
Once, she wanted to go home and ask for leave in my office. I told her about it unwisely. As soon as she heard that I knew, the fire immediately came up. She still used the original rogue tactics, resisting with "you don't understand", "this is the generation gap" and "you don't know the background". The effect of a few minutes of conversation is equal to zero. She blushed with anger and her neck was thick. When she arrived at the classroom, she told her classmates, "I fell out with Lao Zhou!" " She has been angry for a long time. When she got home, she kept a diary in QQ space, and even I personally attacked her father. She equates us with Xianglinsao, the madman who does meaningless things and says meaningless things all day.
Indeed, in her words: "I don't need it!" She thinks what I said is "fart". I accept her insult to me very frankly, because even my closest parents can insult people who can be hurt, and I can only be regarded as a "fart" in her heart! Compared with her parents, my injury is completely negligible!
Education is not everything. Even western countries with a high degree of civilization still retain the necessary death penalty for prisoners. School education that relies on feeble preaching doesn't work for some people at all.
Life is the best teacher for students who ignore their parents' love (although some are coquetry) and hurt their parents with their closest and truest feelings. When she grows up, when she feels powerless and helpless in the face of her children, she will remember what I said to her but she didn't want to hear: "sooner or later, you will regret what you did to your father today!" "I will always remember this sentence. I know that hurting her parents' innocent feelings without any selfishness will bring her many times of regret, and then her pain will only be deeper than her father's now. When she wants to express this regret to her father, but there is nowhere to express it, she will certainly remember what I said to her today.
No matter how unreasonable she is in front of my parents and me, we can understand and forgive her, because we can see the future and we are full of hope and expectation for it. We are worried about her present state, because it will affect her future.
We know she wants to fly, but life will make her mature and full-fledged. At that time, no matter how I form an alliance with her father or her competitors form a stronger alliance, she will be a real "invincible enemy."
65 middle school Ji Bingxiang
Life is like a treasure box full of pearls, which is full of our fruits: there are teachers' teachings; The contradiction between classmates; The truth of being a man ... is that we listen carefully; There are our contradictions and conflicts; And our life experience ... but it's all because of her. ...
She took good care of us and taught us when we were babbling and crying about not going to kindergarten. When we first entered the school and were curious about everything, it was she who told us to observe discipline and obey the teacher's arrangement. When we entered junior high school, we grew up from an ignorant child to a teenager. When we encountered setbacks and gave up, it was she who pulled us back from the wrong path and put us on the right path. She was our teacher.
The teacher taught us the truth of being a man, gave us confidence when we fell to the bottom, and let us cheer up and make progress. ...
That incident made me feel a lot: after the mid-term exam results came out, my mood fell to the bottom, and I was a little sad to see my results for half a semester. I hate that I got this score after studying for so many days. But it's over after all. Let bygones be bygones. No matter how sorry you are, it won't help. I breathed a sigh of relief, after all, the big stone in my heart fell to the ground, although the result was not very good. At noon, the teacher called me to the office, and a bad omen came to my mind. I know I will be criticized. But this is not the case. My teacher encouraged me and gave me confidence. The teacher's words convinced me. I am full of energy and energy. I will try my best to make up for the regret left by the mid-term exam with the results of the final exam.
The teacher's words are actually very common, which we usually understand, but it is meaningful for the teacher to say this at this time. He is like a wise saying, inspiring me to move forward. ...
Teachers are like life. Life has given us many problems. Let's solve them alone and gain something in the process of thinking. Teachers teach us a lot of knowledge, so that we can keep exploring, advancing, exploring and pursuing in the process of exploration ... Life is also a teacher, giving us space to explore. ...
Composition library
There is a person in my class who likes to give nicknames to others. The teacher also talked about him, but he didn't listen to the teacher.
One day, we told him that no one would play with him in the future. He said, "I'm not afraid. I don't need your help. " We are getting used to it, so we should feel it with our heart. We believe that we will definitely get rid of his and his teacher's faults.
Until today, he gradually got rid of his bad habits. We read one of his diaries: I always give others nicknames, and others don't talk about me, but give me love and let me know that my behavior is not good. I want to get rid of this bad habit, and I want to believe that I can get rid of it. I want to thank these students who care about me.
It can be seen that he is slowly getting rid of his shortcomings, and our teachers and our ideas are very good.
There are teachers everywhere in our life, such as: Dad is the teacher who teaches me microcomputer; My mother is a teacher who teaches me to cook; Grandpa is the teacher who taught me to play chess ... but my most unforgettable teacher is my own hands.
My hands help me do everything. It teaches me to write, use chopsticks and draw ... It is a good teacher who is proficient in piano, chess, painting and calligraphy.
Once, I had nothing to do at home, and I just wanted to experience the feeling of disability. So he became a disabled person who lost his hands. The experience began, and I started reading and doing my homework. I turned the book over with my feet and began to read. The first page is very thick. I pinched it with my foot and turned over. "Haha, is it easy to clip?" But when I turned to the second page, it was much thinner than before. I pinched it with my foot, turned it over and turned around, only to hear a "crack". I tore out a page. I was unconvinced and thought: not with my feet, but with my mouth. Sure enough, it is much easier to turn pages with your mouth than with your feet. However, I met another problem. When I turned the page with my mouth, my tongue licked every piece of paper, and it was wet and stuck together. So I separated them with my mouth. Unexpectedly, I am smarter than me. The more I lick, the wetter the paper sticks ... it seems that I can't live without my own hands.
I must protect this good teacher who is proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting!
Although my grandmother is over 60 years old, her life knowledge is much richer than mine.
Last summer, I played in the yard with my friends. I accidentally fell down and broke a big hole in my pants. what can I do? I'm confused.
In the evening, my father came back and I told him about it. Dad said, "Isn't it just a pair of pants? Buy one, why make a fuss? " At this time, the grandmother who was cooking in the kitchen heard her father's words and came out and said, "The trousers can be mended if they are broken. It's a pity to throw them away. Come on, I'll help Chen Wei make up in the evening. " Dad's mouth began again: "How can you save so much? Now we have plenty of money, you can use it. " Grandma said kindly, "Although we have money at home now, we should save it." Although grandma said it with a smile, I understood her intention from what she said.
I promised my grandmother's request. After dinner, grandma found a piece of cloth with cartoon pattern and sewed it one by one with thread. I picked it up and saw that it was as good as new. Ah, grandma's cooking is really good!
Grandma not only taught me to be frugal, but also taught me how to work. Once, my grandmother and I competed at home to wash clothes for 25 minutes. After the game started, we began to work. It's time. I find my clothes are not as clean as my grandmother's. Why? I thought to myself: Grandma must have put magic on the washing powder, otherwise it would be so clean. I asked my grandmother: "When washing clothes, you should add more washing powder to the collar and cuffs, brush them several times and brush them harder," grandma said. After listening to grandma's words, I washed it again, which was much cleaner. Grandma smiled.
Grandma's kind words always reverberate in my ears!
Grandma, you are a good teacher in my life!
Fan Wen, see for yourself.
Life is everywhere and everyone needs a happy life. In life, there are joys and sorrows, and that life like a five-flavor bottle lights up another lamp for our life. You will learn a lot in life. Is the best teacher in a person's life. It will teach you how to be a man and how to learn. It can be said that every bit of life can rival a teacher.
Life is fair to everyone. It will not give up on you because you are poor and backward, nor will it please you because you are noble and rich. ...
Life is like a lamp. When you turn it on, it will illuminate you. When you have confidence in life, it will never be disappointed in you. As we all know, life is the whetstone of will. In life, you will be more sensible and mature from repeated difficulties and disasters.
I remember it was a day in June this year. My mother and I went to the hospital for a physical examination. When I learned that my mother had uterine cancer, my heart was broken and I was desperate. I once thought about losing my mother, and those sad cries on TV echoed in my heart. I really didn't know what to do at that time! I am full of confidence in everything, never give up, and I am confused about the distant unknown of life.
I am afraid and gloomy about people who are full of life breath. It seems that the whole day will darken immediately, everything will be eclipsed and everything will be dangerous. I don't want to live anymore. I even thought about it ... alas!
I was really desperate. Since then, I seem to be a different person, and my sad mood has become out of control. All the ridiculous things have become so serious and terrible in my heart.
I smile at others again and again to show that I am still happy. It's all fake, fake. I once wrote down my feelings in my diary. After the teacher knew, she comforted me and encouraged me, but ... it was useless. No amount of comfort can fill the deep pit of sadness, and no amount of encouragement can cover the grave of sadness. ...
However, my mother's optimism and will to life touched me. I once lit a little flame, but it was put out by a weak breeze. I spend most of my life between home and hospital. However, every time I go to see my mother, she always smiles. Her confidence in life once again made me realize the maternal love of the world. I started trying, I started trying. I'm back to my old self! After the operation, the mother was discharged smoothly. I cried when she came home. ...
Alas, life is like this. It will always make you miserable, useless and at a loss. However, when you embark on the road of life again, it will give you encouragement and support, and it will make you realize a truth from one thing ... as long as you have confidence in life, it will never give up on you. Is the best teacher!
A famous saying about youth: there is only one youth in a person's life.
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