1. What are the ancient poems about family traditions and mottos
1. "Winter Night Reading Shows Ziyu" - Lu You of the Song Dynasty
The knowledge of the ancients is inexhaustible Strength, young and strong, old and mature.
I only know that this matter needs to be carried out in detail.
Translation: The ancients spared no effort in learning, and often did not achieve success until old age. After all, the knowledge gained from books is not perfect. If you want to deeply understand the truth, you must practice it yourself.
2. "Shi'er" - Song Dynasty: Lu You
After death, I know that everything is in vain, but I am not as sad as Jiuzhou.
Wang Shibei fixed the day of the Central Plains, and he did not forget to tell Nai Weng about the family sacrifices.
Translation: I originally knew that when I died, everything in the world would have nothing to do with me; but the only thing that made me sad was that I could not see the reunification of the motherland with my own eyes. Therefore, when the day comes when the Song army regains the lost land in the Central Plains, and you hold family sacrifices, don’t forget to tell me the good news!
3. A porridge and a meal, when you think about the difficulty of getting there; half a thread, half a thread, always think about the difficulty of material resources. ——Zhu Bolu's "Zhu Zi's Family Instructions" in the late Ming and early Qing dynasties
Definition: For a bowl of porridge or a meal, we should think about it as hard-earned; for half a silk or half a thread of clothes, we should also think about it. It is very difficult to always think about the production of these materials.
4. The strictness between father and son cannot be severe; the love between flesh and blood cannot be simplified. Simple means kindness and filial piety but neglect, while rough means neglect. ——Yan Zhitui's "Yan Family Instructions" in the Southern and Northern Dynasties
Interpretation: Father and son should be serious but not negligent; there should be love between flesh and blood, but not frivolous. If you are simplistic, you will not be able to be kind and filial; if you are neglected, neglect will occur.
5. The most difficult way to self-cultivation is to cultivate the mind; the most difficult thing to cultivate the mind is to be cautious about being alone. ——Zeng Guofan's "Book of Commandments to His Sons" by Zeng Guofan in the Qing Dynasty
Interpretation: The most difficult thing about cultivating one's moral character, being a human being, and learning is to cultivate one's heart. The most difficult thing to cultivate one's heart is to be able to think and think when alone. Be cautious in your words and actions. 2. Ancient poems about family traditions
Two hundred and five poems about Zhengjue in the Song Dynasty. The solitary dragon has been wandering in the water and clouds for a long time. The bottom line is now resting. A little bit of the bright and clear calendar is broken, and it is very suitable. Leng Qiuqiu. The secret must be The gold-pierced needle acupuncture points also hide jade threads in the turns. The family tradition of Jiewai is now being distinguished, and Qu Nong is really the same as my husband and wife. If the family is strict, the family will be harmonious; if the hometown is generous, the hometown will be harmonious. --Wang Yu of the Qing Dynasty "Jiao Chuang Diary" governs the family with the word "peace" as the main theme. -Qian Yong of the Qing Dynasty, "Lv Yuan Cong Hua·Governing the Family" Awakened parents should be obligatory, altruistic and sacrificial. -Lu Xun's "We Are Now" How to be a father》A family is dedicated and has money to buy gold.
The family is divided and has no money to buy needles. --Ming Dynasty Xu Wei's "Killing Dogs" If the children of rich and noble people fail to succeed, they will be tolerated; if the children of poor and humble people are easy to succeed, they will be accustomed to strict restraint. --Qing Dynasty Chen Xin's "Xiu Ni Yubian" Failure to educate is the fault of the father; failure to teach strictly is the fault of the teacher. --Song Dynasty Wang Yinglin's "Three Character Classic" Cultivate one's character and bring order to the family, bring order to the family and then govern the country, govern the country and then the world will be peaceful . --"Book of Rites·University". 3. Ancient poems about family rules and family training
1. "Zeng Guofan's Book of Admonitions to His Sons" Qing Dynasty Original text by Zeng Guofan: The way to self-cultivation is not difficult to cultivate the heart; the difficulty of cultivating the heart is to be cautious about independence.
If you can be cautious about independence, you can introspect without feeling guilty, you can understand the heaven and earth. If a person has nothing to be ashamed of, then the Lord of Heaven will be calm.
This mind is always fast and broad. It is the first way to strengthen oneself in life, the first way to find happiness, and the first priority to protect oneself. Translation: The most difficult thing about cultivating one's moral character, being a human being, and learning is to cultivate one's mind. The most difficult thing to cultivate one's heart is to be careful in your thoughts, words, and actions when you are alone.
If you can be careful in your thoughts, words, and actions when you are alone, you will have a clear conscience, and you will be able to stand up to the questioning of the conscience of heaven and earth and the ghosts and gods. If a person has not done anything that he feels guilty about when he is alone, then he will feel very stable, and his mood will often be happy, satisfied, relieved and peaceful. Act cautiously) is the best path to self-improvement and the way to find happiness in life, and it is also the basis for maintaining one's integrity.
2. "Teaching Thrift to Show Wellness" by Sima Guang, a historian of the Northern Song Dynasty. If you are not a mere disciple, you should obey and practice. You should teach your descendants so that they can know the customs of their predecessors.
Translation: There are many other people who have established a reputation because of frugality and destroyed themselves because of luxury. It is impossible to list them all. Here are a few people to teach you. Not only should you practice frugality yourself, but you should also use it to teach your children and grandchildren so that they understand the ways and customs of their predecessors.
3. "Hundred-Character Inscription on the Family of Duke Fan Wenzheng" by Fan Zhongyan in the Song Dynasty. Original text: Filial piety should be done with all one's strength, and loyalty and bravery should be shown as sincerity; Translation: Filial piety should be done to one's parents and relatives with all one's strength, and one should show one's loyalty to the country. 4. "Disciple Regulations" Qing Dynasty Li Yuxiu's original text: If your parents call you, don't delay.
Don’t be lazy in following your parents’ orders. Parents must listen carefully when they teach you.
Parents’ responsibilities must be obeyed. Translation: When your parents call you, you should answer them promptly. Don’t wait for a long time before answering.
When parents have something to tell them, they should start doing it immediately without delaying or being lazy. Our parents teach us how to behave and do things, and we should listen respectfully.
5. "Winter Night Reading Shows Ziyu" Original text by Lu You, a poet of the Song Dynasty: The ancients spared no effort in learning, and only when they are young and strong can they become mature. What I have learned on paper is ultimately shallow, and I know that I have to do it in detail.
Translation: The ancients had to spare no effort in learning, and they often had to wait until old age to achieve success. The knowledge obtained from books is not perfect. If you want to deeply understand the principles, you must practice it yourself. 4. Verses about family traditions and mottos
Mencius: To maintain one’s health, it is best to have few desires.
Liu Bei: Don’t do evil because it’s small, don’t do good because it’s small. Only virtue and virtue can serve others.
Li Shimin: Think of filial piety when serving the ancestors, and respect when dealing with others; devote yourself to hard work to practice virtue and righteousness.
Yan Zhitui: Brothers are fractal connected people, and they are young. Parents lift left and right, and wear the front and back. They eat together, dress together, and learn together. If you travel, you will have sex. Even if there are people who are disobedient and chaotic, you can't help but love each other. As strong as they are, every wife has his own wife, and every son has his own son. Even though there are some honest and generous people, they cannot fail too little.
Fan Zhongyan: Filial piety should be done to the best of one's ability, loyalty and courage should be shown sincerity; brothers help each other, and compassion has no boundaries. Read the books of sages diligently, respect your teachers as you respect your relatives; do not be arrogant in etiquette, be humble and respectful to your neighbors. Respect the elders and care for the young, show pity to the orphans, widows and the poor; be humble and honest, and avoid arrogance. Don't throw away the writing paper, and keep the five hubs of kindness; do things according to natural principles, and cherish all living beings. Live up to the eight virtues in life, cultivate your character and serve the Lord and God; have children and grandchildren with a firm heart, and cultivate a family with good roots.
Su Xun: Be filial to your parents when you are in, and be harmonious to your neighbors when you are out. When the superiors have questions, they must answer them. Those present must raise their heads. Don't make jokes or be arrogant. Don't call someone with a formal name, and use the honorific title when you speak. Let the elders eat and drink first, and follow them when traveling.
Ji Xiaolan: The first is to get up late; the second is to be lazy; the third is to be luxurious; the fourth is to be proud. In addition to observing the four precepts, we must also follow four appropriate rules: first, we should read diligently; second, we should respect our teachers; third, we should love others; fourth, we should eat prudently.
Lin Zexu: If you are not filial to your parents, it is useless to worship God; if brothers are not on good terms, it is useless to make friends; if you have bad intentions, it is useless to have feng shui; if you behave badly, it is useless to study; if you are arrogant, it is useless to be knowledgeable; if you are perverse, it is useless to be clever; fortune If there is no help, it is useless to save people; to take people's money in vain, to give is useless; to spare one's vitality, to take medicine is useless; to be wanton and evil, to be evil is useless.
If my descendants were like me, what would they do with the money? If a virtuous person has a lot of wealth, it will harm his ambition; if his descendants are not as good as mine, what should I do with the money? Being foolish and having too much wealth will increase one's faults. 5. Verses about family rules
Zhu Xi's motto for managing a family: Zhu Bailu gets up at dawn and sweeps the courtyard to make sure it is clean inside and outside; when he is faint and sleeps, he locks the door and must check it himself.
A porridge and a meal, when you think about the difficulty of getting there; half a thread, half a thread, always think about the difficulty of material resources. It is better to prepare before it rains and not to dig a well when thirsty.
You must be frugal in serving yourself, and don’t linger when entertaining guests. The utensils are clean and earthenware, and the earthenware pot and pot are better than gold and jade; the food is simple and refined, and the vegetables in the garden are more delicious.
Don’t build luxurious houses, don’t seek fertile land. Three aunts and six wives are matchmakers for adulterers and thieves; beautiful maids and concubines are not the blessings of a boudoir.
Boys and servants should not be handsome, and wives and concubines should not wear colorful makeup. Although the ancestors are far away, the sacrifices must not be dishonest; although the descendants are foolish, they must read the scriptures.
During the period of living and working in a simple way, you must have a righteous way to teach your children. Don't be greedy for unexpected wealth, and don't drink too much wine.
When trading with Jian Tiao, do not take advantage; when you see your poor relatives and neighbors, you must show warmth and compassion. If you are mean and start a family, you will not be able to enjoy it for a long time; if you have a bad relationship, you will soon perish.
Brothers, uncles and nephews must be divided into many to benefit the few. Elderly and young, both internally and externally, should be strict in their speech. How can he be a husband who listens to his wife and behaves like a good boy? He who values ??his property but despises his parents cannot be a good son.
When marrying a daughter, choose a good son-in-law, and don’t ask for a generous offer; when marrying a daughter-in-law, don’t ask for a generous dowry. It is most shameful to be flattered when seeing wealth; to be arrogant when faced with poverty is nothing more despicable.
Avoid litigation at home, as litigation will lead to disaster; avoid talking too much in life, as talking too much will lead to mistakes. Do not rely on power to bully the orphans and widows; do not be greedy for food and drink, but do not kill animals and birds.
If you are eccentric, you will have many regrets and mistakes; if you are resigned to being decadent, your family fortune will be difficult to achieve. If there is little intimacy, you will suffer from it for a long time; if you are old and mature, you can rely on each other if you are in a hurry.
Listen to what is said lightly, and be aware of the accusations made by others, and be patient and think twice; when fighting over things, how can you know that it is not your fault, you must think calmly to yourself. Don’t forget to give favors, don’t forget to receive favors.
You should leave room for everything, and you should not go back to it if you are proud. When people are happy, don't be jealous; when people are in trouble, don't be happy.
It is not really good to be kind if you want others to see you; it is great evil to be evil if you fear others will see you. Seeing lust and arousing lustful thoughts will retaliate against his wife and daughters; hiding resentment and using hidden arrows will cause disaster to his descendants.
The family is harmonious, and even though the food is no longer available, there is still a lot of fun; the national classes are finished early, and there is nothing left in the bag, so I am happy. Studying aims at being a sage, not just a scholar; serving as an official only cares about the country, not about family status.
Stand by the rules and live in peace, and listen to the weather. If you behave like this, you will be close to common people.
6. Ancient poems about family traditions
Two hundred and five poems about Zhengjue in the Song Dynasty
I have been wandering in the water and clouds for a long time, but now I am resting.
A little bit of the clear and bright calendar, very suitable for Leng Qiuqiu.
In the dark, gold needle points must be penetrated, and jade threads are hidden in the corners.
The style of Jie Waijia is now discerning, and Qu Nong is true. With my husband and wife.
If you manage your family strictly, your family will be harmonious; if you live in a rural area, your hometown will be harmonious.
-- "Jiao Chuang Diary" by Wang Yu of the Qing Dynasty
The word "peace" is the main word in running a family.--Qian Yong of the Qing Dynasty, "Lu Yuan Cong Hua: Managing a Family"
Awakened parents should be obligatory, altruistic, and sacrificial.
--Lu Xun's "How should we be fathers now"
A family is united and has money to buy gold. The family is divided and has no money to buy needles.
-- "Killing Dogs" by Xu Wei of the Ming Dynasty
Those who are wealthy and have children who fail to achieve success will be tolerated;
< p> Poor and lowly children are easy to become, and they are accustomed to strict discipline.--Qing Dynasty Chen Xin's "Xiu Ni Yubian"
It is the father's fault to raise but not teach; to fail to teach Strictness is the laziness of a teacher.
-- "Three Character Classic" by Wang Yinglin of the Song Dynasty
Cultivate oneself and bring order to the family; bring order to the family and then rule the country; rule the country and then bring peace to the world.
-- "Book of Rites·University" 7. Famous sayings about family traditions, family precepts and family rules
The lowest price is 0.27 yuan to become a library member and view the full content> Original publisher: Sany Architecture Sany Library () [Family Traditions A collection of family mottos: The entire family is built on love. A family cannot be established without love. Love is the first condition for starting a family.
If an old man has a broad mind, his family will have great blessings. The elderly should promote the family tradition, the parents should model the family tradition, the husband and wife should control the family tradition, the children should inherit the family tradition, the grandchildren should obey the family tradition, and the brothers and sisters should compete with each other in family tradition.
How can an old man make his family prosperous? That is to do more good deeds and accumulate negative virtues. On the one hand, you can cultivate virtue and avoid sin, on the other hand, you can cultivate virtue and provide shelter for your descendants.
No matter who is at fault in the family, no matter what disasters and disputes occur, the family scandal will not be publicized. If there are problems at home, the elderly should feel ashamed: I did not do well as an elderly person, I have some bad qualities, and I did not educate my family well.
The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the family are all from other surnames. When they come to the same home, they are like mother and daughter. When there are problems at home, the first thing to do is that the old man’s behavior is flawed.
The first is failure to abide by one's duty, and the second is excessiveness. Love without pretense (price): Do not elevate your status, do not treat love as a business.
Understand the other person’s good points and praise the other person’s good points; understand the other person’s difficulties and forgive the other person’s mistakes. If the other party has made a mistake, you can enlighten and guide the other party to correct it.
If a child does not understand, the fruit will be sour. If the fruit is sour, work must be done on the roots of the tree.
Five steps to educate children: raise, educate, teach, lead, guide, but do not control. The key point is to cultivate virtue and educate morals well.
There is no need to control the children, it all depends on the influence of virtue. Understand his personality, help him cut small branches and leave big branches.
Don’t spoil, don’t spoil, don’t hit, don’t scold. Encourage more, affirm often, criticize less, and use no material temptations.
Different family roles have different values. If a man has no ambition, his family will not be prosperous.
Women are not gentle and drive away wealth. A woman's temperament should be as gentle as water, so that her husband and herself will be prosperous, and money and luck will naturally follow. If a woman's temperament is strong, she will be strong. 8. What are some famous sayings about family rules and mottos?
You can’t stand poverty, you can’t stand up, you can’t stand humiliation, you can’t do anything.
Family motto about determination: Don’t make empty words without facts, and don’t be short-sighted without far-sightedness. (Chen Yi's poem "Showing Children") You should know that you should value your ideals and plan for the world.
(Chen Yi's poem "Showing Children") Family Instructions on Diligence: A hundred acres of fertile land is not as good as carrying a small skill with you. ("Zengguang Xianwen") It is better to be prepared before it rains, and not to dig a well when you are thirsty.
(Family Governance Motto) Family motto about cherishing time: A year's plan begins in spring, and a day's plan begins in the morning. ("Zengguang Xianwen") A hundred years pass easily, and youth never comes again.
("Zengguang Xianwen") Family motto on benevolence: If the motherland is in trouble, you should be the vanguard. (Poem "Showing Children" by Chen Yi) It is difficult to save a fire in a distant mountain, and it is better to have a distant relative than a close neighbor.
("Zengguang Xianwen") Family Instructions on Self-cultivation: When people are happy, they should not be jealous. (Motto for family governance) Be kind to others and be knowledgeable in world affairs.
(Family Precepts) Family motto about integrity: The spirit and bones are as clear as autumn water, leaving the family with only four walls, and always being proud of the prince. ("Zengguang Xianwen") When a husband loses his life, integrity and shame are the most important thing.
(Continued from children’s sayings) Family mottos about honesty: If you mean what you say, you will never deceive. ("Zengguang Xianwen") Once a word is spoken, it is difficult to follow it.
("Zengguang Xianwen") Family motto about hard work: Get up at dawn and sweep the court. (Government motto) The waves in the river push back the waves in front, and the new people in the world drive out the old ones.
("Zengguang Xianwen") The family motto about patriotism is used to drive away and crowd out the country. (Yan family motto) Whether you are beautiful or not depends on the water in your hometown; whether you are close or not, it depends on the people of your hometown.
("Zengguang Xianwen") Family motto on frugality: It is easy to move from frugality to luxury, but it is difficult to move from luxury to frugality. ("Zengguang Xianwen") The ambition is fat and sweet, and the heart is bright with indifference.
("Zengguang Xianwen") Family mottos about incorruptibility: Before an official, you can only show respect to generals, but do not ask for food. (Family precepts) Frugality fosters integrity.
(Family Precepts) Family motto about progress: If you work sincerely, you will achieve great results. (Family Precepts) It is difficult to succeed in a family if one is resigned to being lazy.
(Family Governance Motto) About trustworthy family motto: Promise a person one thing, and a thousand pieces of gold will not move it. ("Zengguang Xianwen") If people have no faith, everything will be false.
("Zeng Guang Xian Wen") Family motto on compassion: Do not bully orphans and widows because of your power, do not kill animals and birds for the sake of good food. (Housekeeping motto) The utensils are of pure quality, and the tiles are better than gold and jade.
(Family motto) Family motto on harmony: If father and son are in harmony, the family will not be defeated; if brothers are in harmony, the family will not be divided. (Motto for family management) A virtuous wife will bring few disasters, and a son will be filial to his father and have a generous heart.
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