If life is the sea, then desires are like tides.

Life has its limits. Living in this world cannot be without desires, just like the sea cannot help but rise in tide. This is a natural law. If everyone in the world had no desires, they would not be interested in anything, and they would lack enthusiasm, investment, and pursuit. What a pale picture of life it would be. The key to the problem is how people grasp the scale of their desires. When the tide rises and ebbs, the best thing to do is not to let your desires run rampant.

There is nothing wrong with pursuing wealth and possessing money. So, how rich is considered rich and how much money is enough? There is probably no fixed and unified standard for this. A calm life requires grasping the horizontal and vertical lines of desire.

The so-called horizontal line is to draw a horizontal line based on one's own wealth level. It can be seen that there are many people who are above the horizontal line and below the horizontal line. I am not as good as those above, but more than enough than those below. I am already in a better position. Because life is the sea, and it is purely natural for one wave to be high and one wave to be low, just as people's wealth can never be on the same level. The so-called vertical line is to draw an ascending line starting from the low point in your previous life. As this line rises, it can clearly show the degree to which your living standard has gradually improved. You should feel gratified, fulfilled and satisfied for this.

However, there are many people in life who don't want to do this. They never look back suddenly or compare themselves with their past, but blindly compete with others. Therefore, the tide of desire only rises and never falls, and every wave is higher than every wave. In order to be rich and enjoy themselves, they treat life and others unscrupulously, so that the tide of desire breaks through the dam of reason, harming society, harming others, and harming themselves.

In fact, everything in the world has its own laws, which cannot be violated just like the laws of spring and autumn. Wise people let wealth take its course, allowing the tide of desire to rise and fall, and never go overboard; ignorant people have a strong wild nature toward wealth, and always want the tide of desire to rise and not fall. , never sober. People with these two mentalities have to pick fruits from the tree of life. Those who are moderate may taste more sweetness of success, while those who are offside will taste some bitterness that is difficult to swallow.

This is true at all times and in all countries.

Moderate desires are beneficial, while excessive desires are harmful. In life, one should not let the tide of desire break open the dam of reason. Only in this way can we avoid detours and shed fewer tears of regret. Refreshing and tranquil, smiling at life is also a high degree of happiness Fang Runhua

Fang Runhua, born in Dongguan in 1924, is a Cantonese and a famous patriotic entrepreneur, philanthropist and social activist.

1. Regardless of anyone’s regard for fame, wealth, including awards, it will be just a fleeting thing in the future. During my lifetime, I must remain humble and cautious and not be affected by false fame. This is my point of view.

2. Don’t be greedy for small stocks and weak stocks;

3. If you speculate in unpopular stocks, avoid it;

4. Don’t chase the sudden rise. , beware of temporary confusion;

5. If you buy wrongly, you will have to cut it if you lose 20%, and sell it reluctantly;

6. Stocks are printed on paper and are just a kind of bargaining chip. , should not be held as an "antique" for a long time;

7. Get on the bus at the right time and get off at the right time.

8. The way of doing business must be "calm and prudent", that is, there must be a plan. Whether speculation or investment, it must be qualitative and cannot be driven by emotion. Experience is especially important. Just like in the real estate business, "selling the upstairs (residence) and leaving the ground floor (shop)" is the main profit-making model in real estate. Selling the upstairs residence for cash, and retaining the ground floor shop to collect rent and wait for appreciation, is his position in the real estate market. Shangchicheng has 57 years of successful experience.

9. Retail investors should do a good job in the "five guarantees", which are to: conserve capital, maintain health, avoid mental shock, maintain physical and mental well-being, and ensure a stable life for their families.

10. We must believe in the cyclical theory that things must be reversed and that "the long-term prosperity must decline and the long-term prosperity must be prosperous", because the weak market and the prosperous market will not last forever. will change and develop in the opposite direction.

11. Investment sayings: "Be patient and wait for the time" and "Seize the opportunity, don't miss it"

12. Two E's will change your destiny, one is Education, The second is Experience.

13. "I lit the matchstick and realized that a person's life itself is a burning process. The light and heat emitted during the burning process are the successes, failures, merits and demerits in life."

14. "If you do not advance in business, you will retreat. If you lack courage, vision, wisdom, organization, etc., you will easily regress. However, excessive speculation and radical investment and blind investment will easily lead to frustration. You cannot rest on your laurels in life without making progress. Therefore, we must adapt to the circumstances, seize the opportunity, and create brilliant results.”

15. Failure is not necessarily the mother of success unless lessons can be learned and redeployed.

16. Running a business with debt is equivalent to having blood-sucking insects in the store.

17. A steady and steady attack is the best policy. If you underestimate the enemy and advance rashly, you will fail.

18. Be humble in good times and patient in times of adversity. Mr. Fang’s famous sayings_About Mr. Fang’s famous sayings

I found that one day I got along very well with you, so we always played together. Although we sometimes quarreled fiercely, we always had no scruples. Forgiving the other party can always hurt your own shortcomings, just like drinking too much. A lifetime of commitment, but no one dares to think too far. We can never escape the torture of time. Sometimes life is really fast and very fast. Come on, later on, you always said you were busy, but as a result, when one person left, the other person still regarded you as a brother.

There is the sea, mountains and forests in the distance, and our dreams are always flying in the distance.

Although kindness is worthy of gratitude, the recipient will always incur debt along with the gratitude. This is especially true for people with a gentle heart.

Be a poet, use your time to write a lot of love words, be a traveler, there will always be a home wherever you go, be a prodigal, look at the mountains and rivers, taste the various flavors of the world, sake, bitter tea, Become a night watchman and watch the night go by, whose sighs are scattered in the wind. Become a singer and carry the guitar and play a moving song Zebra Zebra

Although Don Quixote cannot shake the big windmill, he can At least there is a wind that respects your heart. If your heart is still there, your dream will be there. Don’t sink, don’t be discouraged, and keep improving. I believe there will always be a windmill in front of the road to cheer for you who are brave.

Wang Guozhen said: Distant places are always tempting to people. I used to yearn for the water town in the south of the Yangtze River, but when I got closer, I found that its beauty lies in the fact that it is far away and cannot be touched. Once this veil of distance is lifted, it can no longer be ordinary. However, the more prosaic things and familiar scenery are, the more profound the memory is. Every wild flower and every house in my hometown inadvertently calms the loss and brings familiar joy and joy to everyone who pursues the distance.

When it comes to relationships, you are not involuntarily involved. There is always a reason for choosing the other person. Maybe the fate has not arrived, maybe the love has been exhausted, destiny sends someone to stay with you and then fall in love with you. Love when you should love, love at the right time, just right, neither too early nor too late. Every step you take is a solemn commitment to life. Now that you've walked out, don't look back. There is no room for trial and error and regret. Don’t be envious when you see others in sweet love and happy marriages. Know in your heart when to get love and when to get marriage. It may not be luxurious enough or beautiful enough, but there is no such thing as complete happiness in life. As long as it's your own, it's worth it.

Loving someone is not easy, forgetting someone is even harder. Yes, loving someone is very hard, thinking about someone is very tiring, waiting for someone is... It's a very silly thing, why can't we refuse such lovesickness? Why are we willing to have no regrets? Why are we still so obsessed with it? Waiting for such a person who can only love each other but cannot stay together, I can only love silently and bless each other silently. Because when we need care and protection, the other person can never be by our side. Maybe he or she is staying with the woman or man who belongs to him, and who are we at this moment? Nothing! You can only let your thoughts surround you, let your thoughts guide you, let your tears flow quietly, and you can only think about him quietly, wait quietly, and wait for him and you to make a call or send a text message when it is convenient for you.

I found that even if we are forced to be together, the unloved party will always have a very hard life but will not let go. Yes, that's it. ----Jumping Cat

Beautiful places are always inseparable from you.

We are not like best friends, but we are better than best friends. Whenever there is trouble, both of us will always take the trouble to solve it for ourselves. After all, we all know that when we grow up, we cannot always rely on family members, we have to learn to do it ourselves. Take care of yourself

Thinking of the top of the distance, there are always some stories in the distance that were written yesterday before they even started Have you cried, have you gained, have you lost, have you missed this sinking, have you missed this rise, the road far away is by no means an ordinary road, not to mention the peak, no matter how far away it is, don’t give up easily. If you really want to give up, you will never hesitate. Since you have chosen the distance, you are not afraid of scars. Tired and tired, no matter how long the time is, we must believe that one day we will stand on the top of the distance and get what we want. I miss the top of the distance day and night

No one has seen the future, and the road ahead of us is always gray and gloomy. In the sky, hope and despair are mixed together, making it difficult to distinguish. Although it is very scary, nothing will change if we just wait. Towards an uncertain future, we move step by step, missing the important people, looking up to the sky, and thinking It will definitely clear up tomorrow. ---- Naegi Makoto "Danganronpa"

My favorite place always has you there

Just like life, no matter how you jump, there is always someone ahead of you. Your pit.

My paranoia has pushed away many people over the years, but I have no regrets. If time could go back again, I would still choose this person. I believe there will always be someone worth looking for in that place.

The daytime scene in the city is like the early days of love, the first time you meet each other in life, the other person always looks the most perfect and glorious in your imagination; as night falls, it is like lovers getting familiar with each other day by day. The longer they get together, the more they see each other in their truest yet most exhausted form. An unbearable embarrassment. ----Jia Qian "I Want to Be Different from This World"

The front is always unknown, and the back is always unbearable to look back on. ----Remy's "Psychological Crime"

The train is running in the local area, no longer in the footsteps of youth, but still wandering around the world, because the distance is always waiting for dreams.

There is always a herd mentality in places where people gather. Sometimes a retreat can lead to a group of deserters, but sometimes, a sacrifice of one's life can also lead to a group of people jumping into the trap. ----Chang Shuxin's "Remaining Sins"

This place always makes people feel vaguely uneasy, even in broad daylight. At this time, I felt that something was wrong behind me, so I turned my head. ----Fitzgerald's "The Great Gatsby"

Before every battle, we will write a suicide note, hoping that this letter will not be sent to Dr. Jiang. If by chance, Dr. Jiang now Seeing this suicide note shows that I failed to keep the promise not to let you worry. The promise not to get hurt. The promise not to die. The promise to come back. I didn’t keep any of the promises. I’m sorry that I’m always so happy wherever Dr. Jiang is. I'm really sorry that I met you like that and fell in love with you, but I'm so separated from you. Although it's shameless, I hope you don't cry for too long. I said that if you live with another man, don't live it well. That sentence, I cancel. I must live a happier and happier life than anyone else. Please don’t keep me in your memory for too long——"Descendants of the Sun"

You are still young, and there will always be someone ahead of you who belongs to you. Good luck

You have given me an unbearable weight in my life, and I will use my whole life to repay it! The poetic Qianxun Waterfall is like an April day in the human world. April is always used in the West to refer to the bright sun, abundance and prosperity. In his heart, she was always the most beautiful April in the world. ----boying

There are always new stories in strange places. There are always stories in familiar places. The similar beauty of the past always makes my impression deeper.

Suddenly I don’t Not sure if it was the right decision, but it's better to be somewhere appreciated than here. If you just stick to it, you'll get through it.

There is no fairness in relationships in this world, and the one you love deeply is always the weakest group.

There are always scenery in strange places, and the distance is always fascinating. Perhaps this is why people say goodbye even if they are reluctant to say goodbye.

Only those who love you will be angry with you because they love you too much because you are not good enough to yourself. Others who are angry with you are blaming yourself and being angry with yourself because sometimes you can't do anything, so you can only Unreasonable. If you continue to think about what is wrong with you and get angry again, you will only be asking for trouble. He may be more angry and do worse to you because he is really incompetent and cannot tell you directly to save face. So forgive me. Don't blame others for their mistakes, because they really can't do anything. Some people always have some things that they can't help. The individual who makes the mistake is personally responsible. You should stop hitting this nail. You always don't want others to see your heartache. It's better to pretend you don't care or don't see it. It's better for yourself.

Wherever you struggle, you will always leave traces. Life is like tea, calm down and treat it; time is like water, precipitation is clear

1. I forgot which year, month and day I carved a face on which wall, each smiling and sad. Staring at my face, will the love engraved on the back of the chair be like the flowers on the cement floor blooming in the windless forest that has never existed before?

2. Once the feeling disappears, the promise is just a blank piece of paper.

3. In fact, everyone I meet has some kind of problem. They are tall but too fat, very thin but too short, beautiful but have smelly feet, handsome but talkative, and have too much money. But she is lustful, has a good temper but is hypocritical, is good at cooking but is bald, is gentle but is cowardly, is considerate but is stingy, is bold but is violent... Everyone has his or her own flaws, and no one is perfect. The key is what you value most. If you are satisfied, you don't have to seek blame, otherwise you will be destined to die alone.

4. I believe that in this world, there are some people, things, and loves. The first time we meet them, we are destined to be bound to them for a lifetime. They are destined to grow in our hearts like a tree, life after life. --- Hayao Miyazaki

5. Have you ever waited for someone? In the process of waiting, because I saw despair, I saw hope. After experiencing truly dedicated and undivided waiting, you will find that noble love can only be enjoyed and maintained by a noble mind. And no matter what kind of passion, it will eventually become dull in the years. Two people cannot hold hands and look at each other forever, intoxicated by love, but must walk hand in hand and pursue the same truth of the universe together.

6. Some things are impossible to understand only after a long time. Some things wait until you understand them, but it's too late.

7. Knife wounds can be shown off, but emotional wounds can only be tortured.

8. When we were young, we were always indifferent at the beginning and heartbroken at the end. But when we grow up and mature, we avoid the harm of childishness, but we also miss the courage to start. What we fear most is not meeting the right person at the wrong age, but that we spend all our courage at the wrong age.

9. Time makes deep things deeper and deeper, and shallow things shallower.

10. Life is like tea, calm down and deal with it; time is like water, it settles and becomes clear.

11. If you don’t blindly compare with others, you will be at ease; if you don’t set your life goals too high, you will always be happy; if you don’t deliberately pursue perfection, you will stay away from pain; no If you are always demanding of yourself, you will live at ease; if you don't be picky, you will be relaxed.

12. Free yourself from the past. The only way to move forward is not to look back.

13. The partner you need is the one who can stand side by side with you on the bow of the boat, sing softly about the scenery on both sides of the Taiwan Strait, and at the same time, can hold your hand tightly in the stormy waves. people. In other words, it's best if he himself isn't the stormy sea you have to deal with.

14. It doesn’t matter how busy you are, it’s what you are busy with that matters. Life has progress and retreat, and you can’t lose your mood no matter what you lose.

15. Some things actually don’t matter whether they exist or not. If you take it seriously, you will be trapped by things and confused in your mind; if you take it lightly, you will be relaxed and calm in your heart; if you don't take it seriously, you will have a brighter future and cultivate your heart; life itself is an experience, it has a starting point and must be cultivated in the heart. There is an end, not in things, but in the heart. Having a nature, an open-mindedness, and a state of nothingness is a kind of beauty, a kind of wonderful... Let the world be like a dream, like the sea, clear in the heart, calm in the heart, indifferent At heart!

16. Always want to give the best to the person in your heart, but don’t think about whether he really needs it. If love is too heavy, it will become an unbearable burden. Be a free and easy person, don't be sloppy in your feelings, never hold back when it's time to see you again, cut yourself off and leave room for others.

17. If I had never met you, if I had never fallen in love with you, if I had not believed in you at the beginning, maybe I would not be who I am now.

18. Dream once, cry once, feel pain once, and then sigh, it turns out that this is youth.

19. The value of some men to women is like a parachute to a skydiver. If you don’t show up at that time, you won’t have to show up in the future.

20. In life, there must be a right person waiting for you, and you will meet it sooner or later.

21. Water contains all things, nourishes green, and is the origin of life; no matter when and where it is, it always changes its shape and constantly looks for a way out; it does not reject any sand, stones and material obstacles that join, Instead, they move forward in a tight situation, strengthen their own strength, and move forward bravely. Whenever they encounter obstacles, they always slowly accumulate strength and finally break through them. After thousands of miles and thousands of difficulties and dangers, they never change their own nature.

22. Don’t disturb the dream of memory. Let the river of time freeze at the foot of the iceberg. Shake off the dust all over your body and finish the crying story with a smile. The mountain is always the highest in front of you. It is the most beautiful when it is open. The shining of shooting stars is very short. It always sends dreams outside the sky, letting us know how the sky and the earth are connected. There will be ups and downs, and there will be wind and rain. Faith is firm in the temper, and with broken emotions, We must also build a tower that reaches the sky, ride the dawn wind to chase the sun, and smile proudly at the waning moon.

23. The most basic thing about being a good friend is to speak your mind. You tell me if you don't like spending money on a treat. You tell me if you don't like attending that party. If you feel wronged, you express it. I should have called you but I didn't. You tell me. You can't keep it to yourself and say that people who understand me will understand, and people who don't understand me are stupid. The biggest difference between good friends and ordinary relationships is that you don't have to hide and hold them in, and holding them to death is considered a form of suicide.