What you can't get is not necessarily regret. Fate may just delay your satisfaction. Good luck may also prepare a gift for you. Let it be calm. Everything that should come is on the way.
People who suffer too much are often unhappy. Sometimes it is better to read more books, let go of the obsession with the results and manage the process carefully. Even if I fail in the end, I have a clear conscience and can be called a good end.
There is no need to expect too much understanding from others, after all, everyone's growth trajectory is different. The most irrelevant thing is that your efforts are worthless in the eyes of others; And most importantly, this effort is worthwhile for yourself.
Always act like a duck-stay calm on the water and paddle hard when writing.
Don't be afraid of offending people. Anyone who has principles respects him for three points. Times have changed and good people are no longer welcome. Having a temper is also a true temperament. It is mature to submit to humiliation, but it is duty to say what you should say.