It depends on how you feel. You can choose 1 or 2. These words just teach you one thing.
How to look at it depends on what you think.
Relationships that don't aim at marriage are hooligans. Personally, I think this sentence is advice for some people who like to be half-hearted. Don't play with anyone's feelings; On the other hand, it is also to make some unmarried men and women respect and cherish each other, and finally reach a knot.
Find what you like in love and find what you love in marriage.
If everyone just asks others to love him more, waits for others to pay for him, and just enjoys success, then the world will be single.
Personally, I feel that loving someone is like looking at myself in the mirror. My mind, determination and self-cultivation are exactly the same. I love each other more than myself. So, if a couple's affection doesn't make them better, or arouse their equal love, then I'm really sorry, because the other person is not good enough to echo their pure and gentle love.
I hope my answer is helpful to you. Thank you.