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I especially like this sentence, because I often envy the wonderful life of others, and then sigh my boring life, but ignore the difficulties that others have to experience in the process of chasing their dreams.
For example, ella Sanhei (the author who stumbled upon the topic of travel), who traveled around the world, is a global traveler who traveled to 50 countries. She started a business during her trip and made a favorite wine business. Now living all over the world. Because I also like traveling, I envy people who can travel around the world. But a closer look at her experience shows that she has also experienced many difficulties, such as various difficulties encountered by a person traveling abroad; For example, a person traveling meets those salty pig hands who want to eat her tofu; Facing all kinds of difficulties in the journey. If I were you, I would feel very tired on short trips occasionally, and I dare not stay in a hotel alone, so I always travel with my relatives and friends and never dare to travel long distances alone.
It just confirms that sentence: what kind of difficulties you experience, what kind of beauty you can bear. Since you can't bear it, don't just envy other people's lives. Because they suffered a lot before enjoying it, but they can persist.
If you have the courage to persist, please persist!
In fact, it is not difficult to make yourself outstanding. As long as you have enough patience and focus on one thing, you will achieve something in three or ten years.
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During this time, I really felt very anxious and worried, and then I attributed them to my unsatisfactory life and the ineffectiveness of my career. But, in fact, I know that I am anxious myself. Your ability doesn't match your desire, but your desire is great, but your action power is almost zero, or you can't persist. It's like I wanted to learn photography, and then I bought a camera. I just started playing, and now the camera has been in the corner for a long time. I used to want to write, but I was lazy when I wrote. No wonder my friends often laughed at me for three minutes, but none of them persisted.
I have a great desire, and my mobility is not strong. When one's ability is not enough to support one's desire, one begins to feel anxious and falls into a vicious circle of complaining. Therefore, in order to overcome these anxieties, we must first adjust our psychology.
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Sometimes, we are often unhappy because some people don't like us. Then fall into self-reflection. But we are not RMB, and we can't make everyone like ourselves. Even in RMB, some people may prefer USD and EUR, so you don't have to be a person that everyone likes, just follow your inner voice, just be yourself, don't pander, don't be kitsch.
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When we see some people and things in social life, we always like to comment: for example, we feel that xx and xx are not worthy together; In fact, you don't have to worry about whether you are worth it. What you have to do is to accumulate your own reputation.
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If you want to control your own destiny, you have to work hard and don't pin your hopes on others.
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If we try our best to refute misunderstandings and attacks, it will only arouse others' greater interest, and misunderstandings will intensify. If you ignore it, let time prove everything and try to make yourself stronger. All the gossip can't hurt you.