Do to others what you don’t want others to do. If you want to establish yourself, you can establish others; if you want to reach yourself, you can reach others. If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand up. If you are generous to yourself but do not blame others, you will be far away from resentment. When you see a virtuous person, you think about them; when you see a virtuous person, you reflect on yourself. When three people walk together, they must have a teacher. Choose the good ones and follow them, and choose the bad ones and change them. I examine myself three times every day: Am I being unfaithful to others? Have you ever left a letter with a friend? Are you not used to it? Be respectful where you live, be respectful when serving, and be loyal to others. A gentleman is respectful and respectful, treats others respectfully and courteously, and is a brother in the world. He is loyal in words and respectful in actions. This is true even in a barbaric country. If you are not faithful in words and sincere in deeds, how can you do it even if you live in the state? He who behaves his own way with shame, sends troops to all directions, and does not disgrace the emperor's orders, can be called a scholar. Confucius said: "He who can do the five things will be benevolent in the world." Please ask. Said: "Gong, generosity, trust, sensitivity, and benefit. Being respectful means not insulting, being lenient means winning people, being trustworthy means being able to do whatever you want, being sensitive means being successful, and being merciful means being able to win over others." A gentleman's righteousness should be pledged, etiquette should be practiced, grandson should be given out, and trust should be fulfilled. What a gentleman! To make a mistake without changing it is to make a mistake! If you pass, you will be afraid of making changes. Don't express your anger, don't make mistakes. The three armies can seize the commander, but an ordinary man cannot seize the will! If a person has no long-term worries, he must have immediate worries. No desire for haste, no small gain in sight. If you want haste, you will not achieve anything; if you see small gains, you will not achieve great things. Scholars must be ambitious and have a long way to go. Isn’t it important to consider benevolence as one’s own responsibility? Isn't it just too far to die before oneself? If one's virtues are not promoted and his faith is not firm, how can he be able to exist or how can he be destroyed? When making friends, keep your word. Use literature to make friends, and friends to support benevolence. There are three friends who benefit from it, and three friends who harm it. Friends who are straight, friends who are understanding, and friends who are knowledgeable are beneficial. If you have friends, you will be brave. If you are friendly, you will be gentle. If you have friends, you will be sycophantic, which is a loss. A gentleman wants to be slow in words but quick in deeds. A gentleman who has nothing to eat and seek to be satisfied, and who has no desire to live in peace, who is sensitive to things and careful in his words, is Taoist and upright, and he can be said to be eager to learn. Clever words and bad morals. Clever words and beautiful words are fresh and benevolent. Strength, perseverance, wood, indifference and benevolence. Those who are virtuous must cultivate their words, but those who are eloquent do not need to cultivate their virtues. Listen to his words and watch his actions. You don't use your words to lift people up, and you don't use people to waste your words. The ancients couldn't say anything, and they couldn't catch it even if they were ashamed. A gentleman's name must be something that can be said, and what he says must be feasible. A gentleman must be unscrupulous in his words. If you can talk to someone but don't talk to them, you will lose the person; if you can't talk to them, you will lose your words. He who knows does not lose people, nor does he lose words. If it is not mentioned, it is called impatient; if it is mentioned but not mentioned, it is hidden; if the color is not seen, it is called blindness. If you love benevolence but don't learn, you will be blind; if you love knowledge but don't learn, you will be blind; if you love faith but don't learn, you will be a thief; if you love straightforwardness but don't learn, then you will be blind; if you love courage but don't learn, then the cover will be chaotic; If you are stubborn and don't learn well, you will be blind and crazy. Being respectful but rude will lead to fatigue, being cautious but rude will lead to arrogance, being brave but rude will lead to chaos, being straight but rude will lead to strangulation. To serve the king, respect his duties and then his food. For the purpose of etiquette, harmony is the most precious thing. Acting with interests in mind will lead to more resentment.