This article talks about sensitivity with you.
Not long ago, Wan Weigang discussed the topic of "sensitivity" in the column "Elite Daily Class". What does sensitivity mean here? Wan Weigang cited the example of Andersen's fairy tale princess and the pea. According to the story, there are three criteria to judge a real princess: first, she is polite to everyone; Second, she cares for the poor and the rich at the same time; Third, her skin must be very sensitive. What does it mean to be very sensitive? You put a pea under the twenty-story mattress, and the real princess sleeps in the bed and can feel the existence of the pea. Then why do you have to ask the princess to have such sensitive skin? Because the first two standards can be achieved as long as they are "good people"; Only this third criterion, however, can be achieved by girls who have been well-fed since childhood and have a keen sense of life enjoyment.
Wan Weigang thinks that there is a truth behind this story, that is, "sensitivity" can distinguish between high and low people. Of course, it is not necessarily skin sensitivity. The sensitivity mentioned here includes sensitivity to various senses. For example, some people can observe subtle things, while others can't, which is that sensitivity is not good. In interpersonal communication, if a person lacks sensitivity, he will have no discretion in doing things, and he will not know the weight of his words. He may even be unable to understand other people's hints, and he will not understand a higher-level joke. He can be a good man or have great professional skills, but he is still a rough man at heart.
in today's era, sensitivity is a very important thing. In A Brief History of the Future, Israeli historian Herali put forward a formula: "Knowledge = Experience × Sensitivity". Herali said that in this modern age without religious belief, if you want to find the meaning of life, you must have experience and sensitivity. Sensitivity here means that you have to gain experience from experience and then transform yourself with experience. Through constant experience, you will have a deeper understanding of the world and eventually become a better person.
moreover, sensitivity can be learned. For example, Wan Weigang said that when he watched the Spring Festival Evening, he felt that the stage was luxurious, but he always felt a little rustic, but he couldn't tell what kind of rustic it was. Later, he learned a concept in an article called "color saturation". According to this article, the higher the color saturation, the weaker the sense of high quality, and the reason why the stage of the Spring Festival Evening is earthy is that a large number of colors with high saturation, such as red, big and green, are used. Knowing this truth, we will learn a new perspective. Once the concept is clear, the sensitivity can be multiplied.
so are other things in life. Once you do something wrong and realize the serious consequences, you'd better sum it up with a concept, so that the next time you encounter a similar situation, you will be particularly sensitive and more measured. We often say "deliberate practice", which requires practitioners to be very sensitive to mistakes, know what is wrong at any time, and preferably feel mental pain.
But high sensitivity also has problems. You may be overly sensitive. Some people are particularly sensitive. When someone just says something casually, he thinks it's a hint. If someone makes a joke casually, he will get angry. In fact, some information does not need to be over-interpreted. This requires us to improve our sensitivity and learn another skill, that is, neglect.
I saw it and felt it, but pretending not to see it is passive neglect. Don't look at that aspect at all, it's an active neglect. If you want to have such a level of neglect, you must know what is important and what is not. We should only keep our sensitivity on important things and relax our sensitivity on unimportant things.
what's important and what's not? Wan Weigang said that it is not important to ponder people. Thinking about things, thinking about ideas, is important. Eleanor Roosevelt, the wife of President franklin roosevelt, famously said, "Great minds talk about ideas, medium minds talk about events, and weak minds talk about people." You have to have an idea before you can make something happen. Those powerful people are people who can make things happen. These people are proactive and love to talk about ideas. Generally speaking, people are passive. In most cases, they can only be a spectator and talk about it after things happen. There is another kind of people who only study how to please the first two kinds of people.
in addition, the highest level of sensitivity can reach the realm of seeing the micro-knowledge. There is a famous story that Bingji, the prime minister of the Western Han Dynasty, pretended not to see someone fighting in the street when he went to inspect the place. Seeing that a cow seemed to be ill, he went to check the cow's condition very carefully. Subordinate asked him, why not fight, but care about such a trivial matter as the cow getting sick? The Prime Minister said that fighting is a matter for local officials, and it is a trivial matter that the Prime Minister doesn't have to worry about, but if the cow is sick, it may indicate that the climate is abnormal this year, which is the big deal. Although not everyone can do it, it is a real kung fu worth improving.
The above are some views of Wanweigang on sensitivity, which I hope will be of some reference value to micro-businessmen.
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