Nowadays, people are playing routines, and society is a collection of people, full of boundaries and frameworks formed by the development of a country. In a society where food and clothing are not enough, people's anxiety about society is even more serious. Let's share it. People are playing routines.
Now people play routines 1. The complexity of society is full of all kinds of routines. Nowadays, there is almost no one in this society who doesn't play routines, whether friends or classmates are always ready to routine others, or just on the way to routine others.
Every day many people say that you can't make real friends in this society. In fact, before saying this sentence, you should reflect on whether you deserve the other person's real contact with you. Others don't want your money, don't want Turilli, at least you should be sincere. If you are a slam, the devil won't make friends with you.
Many people say that there are too few social opportunities. In fact, there are many opportunities, but you have to create them yourself. Most opportunities are given to you or created by others. If you are the king of routines, others just want to stay away from you and can't give you any chance.
In this society, many people follow others, others do evil, others play tricks and learn to do it. Over time, it has formed an unreliable temperament. People can feel that you are a person with many routines after interacting with you several times. If you are not interested, others don't want to remember your name. In fact, these consequences and phenomena are all planted by ourselves, because people are not sincere, and there is no need for others to talk to you about feelings other than interests.
Be a man with less routines and take honesty as the principle of being a man. Don't routine anyone, just prevent others from routine. Being a man is sometimes as simple as that. Don't complicate yourself, because you don't have complicated capital.
Now people are playing routine 2. In some fairy tales, the explanation of chaos is "no black, no white, no color, no height, no ignorance, no me, no rules and no laws". In my opinion, chaos is a means of mixing vegetables and seeing things, and it is an instinct at the beginning of human birth.
When a baby is born, there is no distinction between good and evil, beauty and ugliness. They only follow their own joy, smile and follow their own "survival instinct", constantly asking people who love them for something to feed them, and never willing to pay, which also leads to parents' distress and pain about their children's emotions and lifestyle.
At first, people were selfish. Simply put, selfishness is human instinct and the foundation of human existence. We can't ignore it, let alone make good use of it. But some people don't understand this truth at all, and always treat "selfishness" with a "contempt, contempt" attitude.
For those who don't understand this truth, I call them "outstanding people", those who don't see through the essence of life and those who respect their instincts.
This is why excellent people like to play "routines", and it is the foundation of "masters" who play "routines", because if you don't play "routines" and make good use of your own selfishness, you will be oppressed and bullied by others and won't succeed.
The competition between colleagues needs intrigue. You have given all your skills and knowledge to your colleagues, and you will not be promoted. The struggle between businessmen needs more intrigue. If you tell your boss your plan, you will only be "eaten" by the other party.
What about the couple? In order to work less, men will play some routines to make their wives willing to pay for themselves. In order to live a comfortable and happy life and enjoy a better life, women will impose some "routines" to make their husbands work hard to make money for themselves like cows.
Since ancient times, "routines have won the hearts of the people." If you don't play "routines" and treat each other sincerely, you will only become a fish on someone else's chessboard, and you will be slaughtered and have no chance of success at all.
The "routine" I'm talking about is not to let you associate with others without conscience, not to let you ignore moral jurisprudence, but to let others fully realize their own value and know that they are irreplaceable within a reasonable and legal scope.
As Bai once said, I can't remember clearly. Your salary is 15 thousand, and your job is similar to that of an intern. How did you ask the leaders to pay attention to you and give you a chance?
Teacher Bai started from scratch and worked hard all the way up to now, becoming the envy of many young and middle-aged men and women. His experience and his understanding of life are all things we need to learn.
People nowadays play routines. I don't know when smart modern people played routines and abandoned sincerity. There is evidence. Haven't you heard of a popular saying? "Why can't I continue to fall in love? I always win the hearts of the people! "
Look at real estate sales. Before the market opened, the sales department began its activities. Generally speaking, there are two key words in activities: profit-making and concessions. Let's make a profit, let's make a profit, let's discount. He doesn't make a direct profit. For example, the house will sell for 400 thousand, which is cheap for you. You can pay 390 thousand. He will turn around and give you a discount and a profit. The most common thing is to ask you to pay an intention money and pay 5 thousand before buying a house. After a while, when the house price comes out, your 5 thousand will be given to you as 10 thousand.
In fact, can 5 thousand really be used as 10 thousand? Actually, I can't. If you give someone 5000 yuan to buy an air conditioner of 1 10,000 yuan, you can't move home. But in the mouth of these people in the sales department, 5 thousand can be 10 thousand: you pay 5 thousand, and I'll give you 10 thousand then, so that you can earn 5 thousand for nothing But have you ever seen a mosquito suck your blood and give it back to you? This seller is almost like a mosquito. They always try their best to extract more blood from buyers. How can they be so generous and let you earn 5000 yuan for no reason?
Their game is like this: for example, the house was originally intended to sell for 400,000 yuan, and he deliberately asked for 4 1 10,000 yuan, and then he gave you an activity and a discount to let you pay 5,000 yuan first, and then calculate 1 10,000 yuan. In the end, you actually paid 405 thousand to buy a house, and it's a deal.
This routine is a play: the sales department is satisfied, because in addition to the profits it wants to earn, it will earn you 5 thousand more for no reason; You are satisfied. You think just because you took part in the activity, you paid 5000 less than those who didn't. This routine, the business is really high, and you are willing to do it. In fact, you see through the routine of the business, just find a reason to die, I will pay 400 thousand. Whether you like selling it or not, maybe you can buy it. It's a pity that you dare not, because as soon as you arrived at the sales department, the people in the sales department brainwashed you: join the activity quickly, and we will sell the house to the customers who paid the intention money first. If you don't take part in activities, you won't be able to buy a house if you are late. If you are afraid of the house flying after such a wash, then take part. It won't hurt anyway.
Not just buying and selling houses, playing tricks. Getting married is also a routine. Young men and women talk about good partners, it's time to get married, and the parents of the woman's family begin to ask for a bride price. What is "one in a million" (9999 yuan, but this is out of date, that was the market price of 10 years ago) and "multicolored green" ("multicolored": 1 10,000 5 yuan banknotes, that is, 50,000 yuan, "thousand red": that is,150,000 yuan, with no upper limit.
You said you want money, and you came up with such a colorful new term, which means praise and blessing. This is the routine: which prospective parents-in-law have you met, when asking for a bride price, she said, "Now that there are fewer girls, I can live in foreign goods, and it costs two yuan more." Then it seems that you are not high and vulgar. I'm greedy and mean. These new terms of praise and blessing are equivalent to a fig leaf. If you don't cover your face with a fig leaf, how can two in-laws sit at the same table for dinner?
There is still a way to play this routine of bride price, that is, on the surface, it is full of smiles, subtle and generous, but it is calm and stubborn in the bones. It is a new term that makes people feel elated and sounds wonderful, but the knife at hand is steady and steady: the man can't lose a hairy shell, and I won't marry a girl without a hairy shell. What about the man's parents? I can't watch my son be single. As a result, the son began to earn money as soon as he was born, and he grew into a little boy who saved money. What if his son gets married and doesn't make up the money? Borrow money. Finally, the daughter-in-law finally got home, and the old couple saved money and used the waste heat to pay back the money. Doing all this, the old couple still dare not complain. Think about it. After spending so much money, they finally got a wife. They just want this married daughter-in-law and son to have a good life. Don't burn some moths for three days, they will burn high incense. How dare they complain? If you want to complain, you have only yourself to blame: you have to build your own "Construction Bank". What can you say? I also want to be routine.
Men and women get married and play routines. How to play? Look online and you will understand, the articles on the internet that explain the way husband and wife get along and the way mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along. It's full of routines. The theme of these articles is nothing more than: educating the wife to make her husband willing to earn money, cook for her, spoil her, and her husband willing to treat her as a grandparent; Educate the husband to make his wife bow down, be the top leader inside and outside, hold up a sky for him, serve him three times a day, do laundry and cook, and the wife respects him wholeheartedly as an uncle; I won't elaborate on the routine of educating my mother-in-law. It is nothing more than a word "beating", focusing on the person who is both a son and a husband at home, quarreling behind this person: if you don't brush the pot, I won't cook, and see who spends more money. Spell wisdom in front of this man: you are kind-hearted and I am gentle and lovely. Who does this man love more? ! Fighting puts this son and husband in a dilemma: the palms of their hands are covered with meat, and both your mother and wife feel pain. Do you think you are tired?
This kind of article not only teaches people how to play routines after marriage to make your life better (in fact, more often it is worse, more often it is routine), but also cares about how to play routines with boyfriends and boyfriends before going home: open the browser at will, what "how to make your boyfriend inseparable from you" and "how to make your boyfriend do whatever he wants for you". These articles teach people to play routines, which are comprehensive and meticulous, from psychological control to physiological operation. However, do you think you are still in love after this operation? If this routine is true love, I have racked my brains with my brain that has been developed for 465,438+0 years, and I can't figure it out anyway: a little girl obviously can't live without a little boy for a moment, but she deliberately hangs him to make him anxious and make him love her more; I don't understand. It is obvious that the little boy is interested in the little girl, but he deliberately alienates her, making her be swayed by considerations of gain and loss. Finally, when the temperature reached, he rushed to confess. Alas, maybe I'm getting old. If I can't say the routine, it's wrong to say it. If I can't figure it out, it's silly to think about it.
However, according to my simple understanding, true love should not play with routines, and there should be no routines. True love should not be when you see my heart warm and I see your heart sharp, and then you vote for me papaya, I return to Joan, you vote for me peach, I return to Qiong Yao, and so on? It is agreed that "it is always good to report bandits!" If you can't talk well, it is "one parting and two widths, and each student is happy." Why play routines? From these routines, I can't see a trace of goodwill, only full of selfishness: I want that person to think of me, love me and be inseparable from me. As for my feelings, what I do and what I pay, I am busy playing routines, but I have no time to think about them.
Therefore, true love is hard to find. The so-called love that comes out of the routine seems to be love. Men and women in love, their faces will be red, their hearts will jump, but they will taste. This kind of love is like a chicken with hormones piled up now. It looks like a chicken, but it tastes a little less delicious than the chicken that was really raised in the past. Eating too much will be toxic!