First, a good friend is a book that can open the world and create a better life; A friend is a mirror, and you can see your own shadow. Tolerance is the deepest virtue in the world.

Second, this world is neither the world of the rich nor the world of the strong, but the world of the volunteers.

Third, the villain is a person who has no big vision and takes advantage of the present.

Fourth, people's growth should be educated from four aspects: parents, teachers, books and society. Interestingly, the latter always seems to run counter to the first three.

Fifth, people have two eyes, both of which are parallel, so we should look at people equally; People's ears are two-sided, so don't listen to one side of the story; Although people have only one heart, they have left and right atria, so they should not only think for themselves, but also for others.

Sixth, the villain is a person who has no big vision and grasps the small advantages in front of him.

Seven, it is not advisable to complain with hatred, and it is impossible to complain with kindness. It is also a waste of life for you to face people and things that have failed you with unworthy kindness.

Eight, forty are not confused, and the heart is not confused.

Courage without moral restraint is the greatest disaster in the world.

Ten, the earth is moving, and a person will not be in an unlucky position forever.

Eleven, if people live by eating, that meal is not called rice, but called feed.

Think more, think more, see more, blame less, complain less and regret less.

Thirteen, psychological non-love behavior, that is, in the name of love to the closest person for non-love plunder, it is a kind of compulsory control in the name of love, let others do according to their own wishes. This kind of behavior often happens between husband and wife, lovers, mother and child, father and daughter, that is, between the closest people in the world.

Fourteen, a kind of regret, in fact, can be greatly enlarged. It will become a shadow in your life and affect your quality of life.

We often hear people complain about social injustice and difficulties in life. In fact, instead of complaining, it is better to reflect on yourself. If we can really grasp the sense of proportion, be cautious in words and deeds, be courteous to the world, cultivate one's morality and cultivate one's character, we will have less troubles and naturally know how to be a man.

Sixteen, many times, the judgment of a thing can not be simply distinguished by whether it is good or not. When to do it and to what extent will directly affect its nature. Too much and too little should be avoided as much as possible.

Seventeen, everyone's life will inevitably have regrets and disappointments. Maybe we can't change this fact, but what we can change is our attitude towards these things. In a sense, what a person sees is what he has in his heart.

Eighteen, the premise of a person's good luck is actually that he has the ability to change himself.

Nineteen, people allow a stranger to get rich, but they can't tolerate the promotion of a person around them. Because there are contrasts and interests between people at the same level, strangers do not have this problem.

Twenty, the three friends of the loser mentioned by Confucius mean: First, friends make friends, that is, people who like to kiss up and flatter. Second, friendly and soft, that is, two-faced people. Third, friendliness, that is, exaggeration and boasting. Never make such friends, or you will pay a heavy price.

Twenty-one, being a gentleman is to be the best of yourself. According to your social orientation, start from your side and start from today to make yourself a perfect person. Only when there is real peace of mind can we not be influenced by the ups and downs of life.

Twenty-two, people allow a stranger to get rich, but they can't tolerate the promotion of a person around them. Because there are contrasts and conflicts of interest between people at the same level, strangers do not have this problem.

Twenty-three, the power of faith is enough to unite a country.

Life is like a green leaf. As time goes on, it turns yellow slowly, but its context is still so clear.

Twenty-five, everyone has his own da Vinci code, find a symbol. Find your inner base, give yourself a little spiritual ceremony every day, believe that our ideals are rooted, and let us all be quiet students in front of Confucius.

Twenty-six, the more material things, the easier it is to be confused.

Twenty-seven, there is a principle in communication, that is, you should always keep that simple or even stupid and easy to spread. If you make it particularly profound, it won't spread. The premise of retransmission is simplicity and stupidity.

Twenty-eight, Confucius said that the beneficiary has three friends, which means: first, friends are straight, and straightness is integrity. Second, forgiveness is honesty. Third, friends know more, that is, they are well informed.