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Bing Xin said: "A beautiful family is the root of all happiness and strength."

Walking in the world, home is the foundation of a person and the source of all confidence in life.

The greatest happiness of a person's life is to be born in a family full of laughter, grow up in a family with a good family style and stand in a family that can be relied on at any time.

After forty years old, I realized that a mother with stable emotions, a father with perfect world outlook and a grateful and kind child are more than millions of wealth.

0 1 Mother is in a stable mood, so the family will not break up.

British writer Laurie Lee once recalled the past in Rossi and Cider:

"Although it was the end of World War I and social unrest, in my childhood memory, the four seasons were full of joy. All this is just because I have a strong and optimistic mother wherever I go. "

It is true that the mother's mood greatly affects the growth of children and also determines the temperature of a home.

An optimistic mother can always make her home full of vitality and let her children always see the hope of life.

A mother who is full of grievances will always make the family overcast and let her children grow up in worry and fear.

Just like the tragic story in the movie "An Arrow Through the Heart":

After Li Baoli married her husband Ma Xuewu, she always looked down on Ma Xuewu, who was born in the countryside.

In her eyes, her husband is not worthy of himself at all, let alone being treated well.

When chatting with friends, she would complain: "I chose him as a countryman." Why can't he be nice to me just because of my appearance? "

In front of outsiders, she will also scold her husband: "You are so cheap!"

On weekdays, any little thing will become the fuse of her emotions, and the family is always full of abuse in an instant.

Under the pressure of day after day, Ma Xuewu couldn't bear to ask for a divorce, and then cheated on her female colleague.

Knowing that her husband had betrayed her, Li Baoli angrily reported Ma Xuewu. Because of this move, Ma Xuewu was fired, and soon he committed suicide by jumping into the river.

After her husband died, Li Baoli made a living by carrying a pole for more than ten years.

Years later, her son became the top student in the college entrance examination. Just when she thought she had finally overcome the difficulties, her son offered to break up with her.

Because in the eyes of his son, it was Li Baoli who killed his father and ruined his originally happy home.

Looking closely at Li Baoli's life, he always seems to be experiencing "an arrow through the heart".

With her husband around, her knife mouth and bad temper are like arrows inserted in life, which may hurt others at any time.

After her husband left, her heart was always pierced by "ten thousand arrows" and there was no chance to breathe.

In a family, the mother's mood is stable, which makes the family feel relaxed and happy, and there is no burden to get along with.

Mo Yan once mentioned in the article "Mother": "What I can't forget is that my mother, with a sad face, was humming a ditty while she was working hard!"

Mo Yan's mother's open-minded and positive attitude towards life has been deeply influencing Mo Yan, making him dare to try and become a better person.

It is precisely because of the strength given by his mother that he not only made great achievements in the literary world, but also had a harmonious and beautiful family.

When a mother controls her emotions, she grasps the feng shui at home.

In every happy family, there will be a mother with a good temper and a temperature that will always warm people's hearts.

Mother's tenderness is the soul of home; A mother's smile is the energy of her family.

Father's three views are correct, and the family will not be chaotic.

Some time ago, there was a news on the Internet that caused a heated discussion.

In Xianning, Hubei, a father took his 1 1 year-old daughter to dig lotus roots in the river.

The reason why he made this decision is that his daughter, who is in a rebellious period, is unwilling to study hard and talk back to the teacher.

Therefore, he wants to take this opportunity to let the children understand that reading is not bitter, but life is also bitter.

After four hours of exposure, the child's face turned red and some places peeled off. Although my father is very distressed, he can only hold back.

The father said that he hoped to improve the child's cognitive level and let her know the importance of reading. The pain of reading is only a temporary one, and the pain of life may be a lifelong one.

After her father's teaching, the girl finally woke up and planned to study hard from now on.

Some people say that a father with three views and integrity is the leader of children's growth and the core of a stable family.

The father's three views are right. The child's path will not be crooked, and the road of life will become more and more realistic.

The thinker Montaigne has a famous saying: "As a father, the greatest pleasure lies in being able to inspire and educate his children according to the road he has traveled in his life."

A man's three views are correct, and his children can get a good example and become an excellent person; His wife can feel safe and full of happiness; His family can have the strength to rely on.

In the hit drama "The World on Earth", Zhou's old father is such an existence.

After Zhou became mayor, he said to his younger brother Bing Kun, "My father doesn't care about the official position, but only looks at whether things are done well."

In everyone's eyes, Zhou Fu is principled, diligent, honest and kind.

His way of dealing with people has also subtly influenced the three children of the Zhou family, making them embark on a bright road.

Later, after becoming a father, Bing Kun passed on these rare qualities to his son Nan Zhou, and taught him not to live up to his conscience.

Father is the pillar of a family. Only when the pillars are stable enough, the family will not be chaotic.

The more positive the father's three views are, the better his children will be, the family style will be passed down from generation to generation, and the family will accumulate more blessings.

Only when children know how to be grateful can families flourish.

Wang Fu said: "Life needs a grateful heart to create, and a grateful heart needs life to nourish."

Gratitude is a person's most basic education and an indispensable part of family education.

A truly promising child is grateful.

A few years ago, a student named Pang Zhongwang swiped the screen on the Internet with a score of 744. To this end, the president of Tsinghua University even personally led a team to pick him up at home.

When everyone came to Pang Zhongwang's house, they realized that Pang Zhongwang's family was poor, his mother was in a wheelchair and his father was mentally ill.

The yard is full of waste paper boards, bottles and cans. There is not even a table at home, only two beds.

Seeing this, Qiu Yong, the principal, felt sad in his heart, which made it difficult for children.

But when Pang Zhongwang mentioned his family and family, he never complained.

He suffered from congenital heart disease when he was a child. In order to treat him, his mother borrowed money from people everywhere and owed a lot of money.

Although his family was poor, his parents never wanted to give him up, and he always remembered the love from his family.

He can see what his parents have done for him, so he wants to study hard through his own efforts and repay his parents' kindness.

Parents can't do heavy work for physical reasons, so every morning he gets up early to finish housework, prepares meals for his mother, and then goes out to school.

At the age when other children are playful, he can already support the weight of a family by himself.

"I don't think there is anything I can't get from home. My mother is so good, my grandparents are so good, and all my relatives are so good. I don't think they are giving me a hard time.

On the contrary, I think others should envy me. "

As the saying goes, raising a grateful child is the deepest blessing of a family.

The love in the child's heart is better than the high score of perfect score; Children have a grateful heart, which is more important than cleverness.

People who know how to be grateful will cherish everything they get, cherish their closest family and reap all the good things in the world.

A luxurious house and an expensive car are not as good as raising a grateful child.

There is kindness in the heart and happiness in life. Children know how to be grateful, and families naturally prosper and have long-term happiness.

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Sun Qifeng, a master of Neo-Confucianism, once said:

"The family wealth fluctuates greatly, and the sky can't exercise its rights. People can't exercise their rights, but they have done it."

Mother's mood is stable and her family is happy; If the father's three views are correct, the family style will be excellent; Children know how to be grateful, and no matter how poor they are, they can get rich.

Family and life are prosperous, and finally people can prosper. Even if you don't have great wealth, your life can be full of flavor.

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