We can change this situation in some ways, so that you can regain your confidence in your ability.
First, learning ability
A quarter of our lives may be spent in school. Many students still can't get good grades after hard work and begin to doubt their learning ability. So how can we change this situation?
1, find a suitable learning method.
Learning methods that suit you are much more important than hard work. Some people are suitable for sea tactics, and the more questions they do, the more confident they are. Some people are suitable for summarizing knowledge points, doing typical examples, coming up with solutions to problems, and solving similar problems next time.
There is no shortcut to learning, so you can only explore your own learning methods slowly. If this method is used properly, you will get twice the result with half the effort in learning any subject.
2. Ask more teachers and classmates.
"In a threesome, we must learn from our teacher" and "thirst for knowledge, not ashamed to ask questions". The wise words of Confucius tell us that if we want to make progress, grow and improve our learning ability, we must learn to ask others for advice at any time.
In the process of learning, if you encounter knowledge points that you don't understand, you must ask teachers and classmates for questions that you can't do in time, otherwise the places that you can't do will only accumulate and it will be more difficult to move forward on the road of learning.
3, efficient use of time
Part of the reason why every schoolmaster can achieve excellent results is that they can use their time efficiently. When you play games with your mobile phone, Xueba may be studying. When you are still in a daze in the self-study class, Xueba has finished all his homework and started his own study plan.
So, my friends, you may not be bad at your ability, but you may have wasted your good time. We should concentrate on our study, make good use of the fragmented time, and pay attention to the combination of work and rest, so as to avoid fatigue and be more efficient.
4. Keep a correct attitude and face success and failure correctly.
Sometimes I feel that my ability has been completely affected by one or two failures, so when I fail, don't rush to deny my previous efforts, and don't care too much about the results of success or failure. Instead, I should first adjust my mentality, rationally analyze the reasons for the failure, and find a solution.
Second, the ability to work is always criticized in the workplace. I can't do a little thing well, and the tasks assigned by the leaders can't be completed on time or poorly. Do you have this kind of trouble at work? You gradually begin to doubt your ability and whether you are qualified for this profession.
Then you can make changes in the following aspects.
1, learn lessons and sum up experience.
When you encounter difficulties in your work, don't always think that you can't do it and deny yourself again and again. You should actively learn from this incident, sum up experience, so as not to make the same mistake again, or wait until the next time you encounter similar things, so that you won't be flustered and can deal with it calmly.
2. Learn work-related knowledge.
In the workplace, it is not every day that you can casually finish your work. If you want to improve your ability, you must keep learning, sum up experience from work tasks and enrich your professional knowledge in your spare time.
With knowledge in your mind and experience in your work, you will find that your working ability is gradually improving after a long time, so be a diligent worker.
3. Learn and consult more from the predecessors in the workplace.
The predecessors in the workplace have many years of work experience. Their work experience is richer than ours, and they may have experienced the problems we encountered.
So if you can't solve the difficulties in your work, you must learn from your predecessors. Their valuable experience is one of the effective ways to improve our ability.
4. Strive for various opportunities to practice.
I believe that many friends who are new to the workplace are rich in theoretical knowledge, but once they take action, they are frustrated everywhere. Don't be too discouraged. It is not that we are incompetent, but that we practice too little.
So we should seize every opportunity to exercise our ability, do it boldly, and don't be afraid of failure. Experience from time to time can help us improve our ability quickly.
But sometimes we will find that our ability is poor, not really poor, but not suitable for us to do this. Everyone has his own strengths. What should we do at this time? 〗
1, want to know your strengths.
When we feel powerless or even uninterested in what we are doing now, we should think about whether this thing is really something we like to do.
If you don't like it, naturally you won't put all your enthusiasm into this matter, and your ability will naturally not improve. Therefore, we must find what we are good at and really like in order to give full play to our life value.
2, a change of environment, a change of mood
If you really feel that the current working environment makes you feel depressed and collapsed, you can choose to change the environment and change your mood. Maybe you can find your potential in the new environment.
As long as your intelligence is normal, you are willing to study and try, and you can face failure and success with a good attitude, then you will definitely become a very good person, so don't doubt your ability.