Starting: Taste Zunyi

There is an idiom in primary school textbooks called "seedlings promote growth".

It is said that there was a man in the Song Dynasty who was so eager for the seedlings to grow tall that he went to the field to raise them one by one, and all the seedlings died.

Everything has its own law of development, and rushing for success will only backfire in the end.

Don't worry, move forward at your own pace, but it's easier to realize your wishes.

After graduating from graduate school, my cousin Ahua joined a world-famous electronic technology company and did her favorite chip research and development work.

Two months later, I called him to congratulate him and asked about his work, but he couldn't help complaining to me:

"In addition to reading various technical documents every day, I have to work overtime to check the information at night. I feel that I have worked hard, but I still have a little knowledge of many things;

When holding an international conference, I often feel at a loss because I don't understand each other's English. It's easy to see my supervisor It's worrying ... "

I understand Iowa's mood very well, and I am also very distressed by his difficulties. He wants to integrate into the new environment as soon as possible, and there is nothing wrong with getting ahead in his work as soon as possible.

However, the meal is stuttering, the road is step by step, and everything has a process.

Anxiety can't solve anything, but it makes you anxious.

10000 hours law says that to become an expert in a certain field, you need to study 10000 hours. Working 8 hours a day and 5 days a week takes at least 5 years to become a master.

So, I want to say to Iowa, "Don't worry, you still have plenty of time. You can calm down and practice yourself slowly."

When you do everything right now step by step, you will accumulate more and more easily; When you accumulate money and have strong strength, success is a natural thing.

Writer Li Siyuan once said in "Life Needs Rhythm":

"Be sure to work hard, but don't worry, don't be rash, and don't omit the process that should be there; All the successes seem to break out overnight. In fact, they are all accumulated over time, methodical and persistent improvement and improvement. "

The rest of your life is long, don't panic; But you work hard, but don't worry.

As the saying goes, you can't eat hot tofu if you are impatient.

Sometimes, the more anxious you are, the worse it is for the development of things.

My friend ah mui once told me her love story:

At the age of 20, she met Amin, a college student who also served them, in an international volunteer teaching activity.

Amin's tall and handsome appearance, profound knowledge and thoughtful service deeply touched Amei's heart.

He is the prince charming in his mind. He won't confess at the moment. How long will he stay?

So the night before the end of the teaching activities, she boldly said to the boy:

"I like you and want to be boyfriend and girlfriend with you. I'll stay for another week if you like. If not, I will leave tomorrow. "

Maybe it's too direct, maybe the timing is wrong. A Min was obviously caught off guard after hearing Ah Mui's confession.

After careful consideration, he replied to her: "I like you very much, too, but I am very busy at the moment, and I really can't spare the time and energy to think about it, let alone promise you anything." Can you give me more time? "

Ah Mui said, "No, you must answer me now!" "

It is conceivable that Ah Mui's forced show of love scared away Amin who was busy with her studies. The next day, she had to board the plane with regret and leave.

Later, Ah Mui sighed with emotion: "If I wasn't in such a hurry at that time, if I could give the other party some time to think about it, it might be another result."

But there are not so many "ifs" in life, time will not go back, life will not repeat itself, and the past will pass.

When the melon is ripe, it will follow.

Two people who love each other have their own laws and rhythms from recognition to combination. If man-made destruction, it is bound to backfire.

Happiness takes time to brew, and love needs to ferment slowly. Sometimes, the more you want answers, the more you will leave regrets.

On the contrary, if you hold the attitude of doing everything as well as possible, you may inadvertently plant willow trees and get unexpected surprises.

Modern society pays attention to "fast".

Eating "fast food", taking "express train" and sending "express mail" … nothing is not "fast".

On the surface, the fast pace saves people's time, but in fact it makes people more and more nervous and anxious, and loses many wonderful experiences in the past.

I have climbed Mount Tai twice.

The first time was at 18 years old. At that time, I was a teenager, and I just wanted to rush to the top of the mountain to see the sunrise on Mount Tai.

My leg hurt for several days because of the speed of climbing the mountain, so that for a long time afterwards, I talked about the color change of the mountain, except the beautiful scenery I saw when I climbed to the top, which was a bad climbing experience.

The second time was at the age of 32. Because of the last lesson, it is not so urgent to get up again.

Other young colleagues danced in front, and I crawled and chatted with another old man, which was very leisurely.

Because it slowed down, I felt the majesty of Mount Tai as the "head of the five mountains"; Because I slowed down, I appreciated the "Mo Bao" left by the literati in Taishan in the past dynasties; Or is it because I slowed down and collected many legends and stories? ...

Life is like climbing a mountain, not only in which height you finally climb, but also in the beautiful scenery you see along the way.

Slow down, it may be faster; Don't worry, you will get more beauty.

Mr. Hu Shi said:

"Afraid of what infinite truth, into an inch of joy. Even if you drive an old car, as long as you are moving forward and occasionally blowing a little wind, this is happiness. "

Writer San Mao also said:

"To learn to wait for the emotion when the time is ripe, we must also keep working hard and persist outside this waiting." Because "life is a slow-moving process like summer water, so we should not be anxious."

Life is long, don't worry.

Work hard with hope and leave the rest to time. Believe that the best things always come when you least expect them to.

Author: Shu Yun, always young, always in tears. Practice hard, just to meet a better self.